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milly123 Jul 30th 2007 1:13 am

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 
From the north, very settled been here 5mths.
IN fact me and hubby was saying it feels like we have always lived here, Just somebody taken all are family away.

BadgeIsBack Jul 30th 2007 1:22 am

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Originally Posted by Bix (Post 5124783)
I heard the majority stick to lemonade :D

Mate I have to be honest. I've met some hard men in my time, but I've never been scared of a man from the North. It's the voice. I knew well 'ard blokes in the forces who once they had a drink in them sounded just like old women. They gave an order and it just didn't carry.....

And I should know - I am an old woman and proud of it.

Old Beckham is the same. (Yes he's a southerner).

soapy© Jul 30th 2007 9:02 am

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Originally Posted by Weirdstone (Post 5124843)
We're both settled - so had to tick both boxes....sorry if I've buggered up your research.

nah, i set it up that way, so i could see if both have settled.:)

soapy© Jul 30th 2007 9:03 am

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this thread came from something pauline said to me yesterday.
starting to think she was right.
i will explain later as i am just about to hop on the plane:p

moneypenny20 Jul 30th 2007 11:12 am

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Four soft southerners, one male, three female (poor guy:D) All settled from day one except first born but it didn't take her long to get into the groove.

SarahJane2007 Jul 30th 2007 11:18 am

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Originally Posted by bobbyftm (Post 5123886)
Both settling in very nicely:thumbup:(only 5 weeks in like and footy season hasn't kicked off yet:eek:

Oh dont.....my husband will be well settled in then.....on the sofa!...LOL:rofl:

SarahJane2007 Jul 30th 2007 11:22 am

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Originally Posted by Bix (Post 5124439)
No-one would ever imagine us ever leaving our home town let alone Cornwall or the UK.

If they had to draw up a list of potential emigrants then we would have been very close to the bottom.

Yet I feel we have settled from the start. It's not always been easy but at no time have we felt unsettled in Aus.

Didn't come expecting anything so didn't get disappointed.

As long as I don't have to sit up I reckon we're here to stay. ;)

Hya...we're from Cornwall....Falmouth, whereabouts did you come from and how long you been here and where did you settle? We have only been here 7weeks and live East Brisbane on the Coast.:thumbsup:

gedge Jul 30th 2007 11:26 am

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you know what my answers are

SarahJane2007 Jul 30th 2007 11:26 am

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We're from the South...SE London/Kent then Cornwall for last 5 years. We are both settled...but only been here 7 weeks so still might have 'holiday heads' on!:confused:

Oh and we have 4 children...they all seem settled, made friends easily at school and enjoying thier new surroundings so far.

northernbird Jul 30th 2007 11:51 am

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Originally Posted by Hutch (Post 5124460)
We're both from the south and were settled very quickly. I'm wondering whether that whole 'people from the south' thing is actually a reference to relative poshness of migrants? I wonder if your average working class family settles more easily than your average middle class family. :blink:

Thats what I tend to think to be honest. My perception of those that are unhappy here are that they are stuck up and see themselves as better than the locals. Just my view you understand.

Wendy Jul 30th 2007 11:53 am

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Originally Posted by Hutch (Post 5124460)
We're both from the south and were settled very quickly. I'm wondering whether that whole 'people from the south' thing is actually a reference to relative poshness of migrants? I wonder if your average working class family settles more easily than your average middle class family. :blink:

Maybe. :D It's just the impression I get from talking to people here in SA, and also there does seem to be more people from the South on MBttUK.


Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack (Post 5124775)
Good on ya Wendy.

And I always thought it was always the northerners missing their Mams that struggled. :pNorthern blokes like to think they're hard but they do seem to be controlled by their Mams, what's for tea, and they do talk like their nuts are a tad constricted.

Not all Southerners are shandy drinking softies mate.:p I've met Londoners that have scared me, but noone North of Watford. They're too nice.

I miss my Mum :( I don't think I'd be here if she were still alive, but then maybe I would :unsure:

My OH doesn't miss his Mum. :p


Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack (Post 5124883)
Mate I have to be honest. I've met some hard men in my time, but I've never been scared of a man from the North. It's the voice. I knew well 'ard blokes in the forces who once they had a drink in them sounded just like old women. They gave an order and it just didn't carry.....

And I should know - I am an old woman and proud of it.

Old Beckham is the same. (Yes he's a southerner).

Well I've been out with quite a few Northern Lads (obviously cos I lived there :D) and I've been out with 2 from the South and the Southerners are definitely more 'soft', for want of a better word, but in a good way from a womans point of view.;)

gillysm Jul 30th 2007 12:14 pm

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Originally Posted by Wendy (Post 5126985)
Maybe. :D It's just the impression I get from talking to people here in SA, and also there does seem to be more people from the South on MBttUK.



I miss my Mum :( I don't think I'd be here if she were still alive, but then maybe I would :unsure:

My OH doesn't miss his Mum. :p



Well I've been out with quite a few Northern Lads (obviously cos I lived there :D) and I've been out with 2 from the South and the Southerners are definitely more 'soft', for want of a better word, but in a good way from a womans point of view.;)

Well we're from the south and we've been settled a long long time. I never wanted to move back even when I felt homesick.

It's funny Wendys impression is that southerners find it harder - I had thought the opposite when reading some of the stuff on here about not being able to afford living in Oz and better standards of living in UK etc. I assumed it was coz they had nice houses for less money up north. I couldn't afford to move back to the south of England now even if I wanted to. There you go - don't make assumptions eh? Maybe we should do a survey "Are you settled? Where are you from - north or south?"

Wendy Jul 30th 2007 12:32 pm

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Originally Posted by gillysm (Post 5127029)
Well we're from the south and we've been settled a long long time. I never wanted to move back even when I felt homesick.

It's funny Wendys impression is that southerners find it harder - I had thought the opposite when reading some of the stuff on here about not being able to afford living in Oz and better standards of living in UK etc. I assumed it was coz they had nice houses for less money up north. I couldn't afford to move back to the south of England now even if I wanted to. There you go - don't make assumptions eh? Maybe we should do a survey "Are you settled? Where are you from - north or south?"


They only cost less if your from the south :D The wages are crap up there :lol:

TrickyTree Jul 30th 2007 12:42 pm

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Male and not settled.

Been here for nearly 3 years now and it still doesnt feel like home. We had our first chat about heading back to England the other night once I get my citizenship next year.

Ransi Jul 30th 2007 12:47 pm

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2 of each sexes in our house, all settled pretty much straight away.

(working class, from the North)


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