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Wendy Jul 30th 2007 11:53 am

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Hutch (Post 5124460)
We're both from the south and were settled very quickly. I'm wondering whether that whole 'people from the south' thing is actually a reference to relative poshness of migrants? I wonder if your average working class family settles more easily than your average middle class family. :blink:

Maybe. :D It's just the impression I get from talking to people here in SA, and also there does seem to be more people from the South on MBttUK.


Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack (Post 5124775)
Good on ya Wendy.

And I always thought it was always the northerners missing their Mams that struggled. :pNorthern blokes like to think they're hard but they do seem to be controlled by their Mams, what's for tea, and they do talk like their nuts are a tad constricted.

Not all Southerners are shandy drinking softies mate.:p I've met Londoners that have scared me, but noone North of Watford. They're too nice.

I miss my Mum :( I don't think I'd be here if she were still alive, but then maybe I would :unsure:

My OH doesn't miss his Mum. :p


Originally Posted by BadgeIsBack (Post 5124883)
Mate I have to be honest. I've met some hard men in my time, but I've never been scared of a man from the North. It's the voice. I knew well 'ard blokes in the forces who once they had a drink in them sounded just like old women. They gave an order and it just didn't carry.....

And I should know - I am an old woman and proud of it.

Old Beckham is the same. (Yes he's a southerner).

Well I've been out with quite a few Northern Lads (obviously cos I lived there :D) and I've been out with 2 from the South and the Southerners are definitely more 'soft', for want of a better word, but in a good way from a womans point of view.;)

gillysm Jul 30th 2007 12:14 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Wendy (Post 5126985)
Maybe. :D It's just the impression I get from talking to people here in SA, and also there does seem to be more people from the South on MBttUK.



I miss my Mum :( I don't think I'd be here if she were still alive, but then maybe I would :unsure:

My OH doesn't miss his Mum. :p



Well I've been out with quite a few Northern Lads (obviously cos I lived there :D) and I've been out with 2 from the South and the Southerners are definitely more 'soft', for want of a better word, but in a good way from a womans point of view.;)

Well we're from the south and we've been settled a long long time. I never wanted to move back even when I felt homesick.

It's funny Wendys impression is that southerners find it harder - I had thought the opposite when reading some of the stuff on here about not being able to afford living in Oz and better standards of living in UK etc. I assumed it was coz they had nice houses for less money up north. I couldn't afford to move back to the south of England now even if I wanted to. There you go - don't make assumptions eh? Maybe we should do a survey "Are you settled? Where are you from - north or south?"

Wendy Jul 30th 2007 12:32 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by gillysm (Post 5127029)
Well we're from the south and we've been settled a long long time. I never wanted to move back even when I felt homesick.

It's funny Wendys impression is that southerners find it harder - I had thought the opposite when reading some of the stuff on here about not being able to afford living in Oz and better standards of living in UK etc. I assumed it was coz they had nice houses for less money up north. I couldn't afford to move back to the south of England now even if I wanted to. There you go - don't make assumptions eh? Maybe we should do a survey "Are you settled? Where are you from - north or south?"


They only cost less if your from the south :D The wages are crap up there :lol:

TrickyTree Jul 30th 2007 12:42 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 
Male and not settled.

Been here for nearly 3 years now and it still doesnt feel like home. We had our first chat about heading back to England the other night once I get my citizenship next year.

Ransi Jul 30th 2007 12:47 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 
2 of each sexes in our house, all settled pretty much straight away.

(working class, from the North)

Fiona&malc Jul 30th 2007 2:00 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by gedge (Post 5126924)
you know what my answers are

we are both settled but have our moments of unsettledness (is that a word?) its more of a itchy foot syndrome, no desire to move back to the uk, but to move elsewhere in aus- maybe

Weirdstone Jul 30th 2007 2:02 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by gedge (Post 5126924)
you know what my answers are


Ahh :(

gedge Jul 30th 2007 2:06 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Weirdstone (Post 5127208)
Ahh :(

hmmm

Weirdstone Jul 30th 2007 2:15 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by gedge (Post 5127217)
hmmm

Exactly.

Fiona&malc Jul 30th 2007 2:34 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by gedge (Post 5127217)
hmmm

oooooooh

gedge Jul 30th 2007 2:37 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Fiona&malc (Post 5127257)
oooooooh

yessss

Fiona&malc Jul 30th 2007 2:38 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by gedge (Post 5127264)
yessss

aahhhhhhhhhhhhh yessssssss :eek:

northernbird Jul 30th 2007 2:39 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 
nutters ;)

gedge Jul 30th 2007 2:43 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by northernbird (Post 5127271)
nutters ;)

all of them

gedge Jul 30th 2007 2:43 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Fiona&malc (Post 5127269)
aahhhhhhhhhhhhh yessssssss :eek:

was it good for you?

Weirdstone Jul 30th 2007 2:44 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by gedge (Post 5127277)
all of them

Think she included you :D

northernbird Jul 30th 2007 2:45 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Weirdstone (Post 5127281)
Think she included you :D

chief nutter I would say :lol:

Weirdstone Jul 30th 2007 2:46 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by northernbird (Post 5127285)
chief nutter I would say :lol:

Oh yes ...goes around all quiet and gentle ...but really he's as mad as a stag.
:D

gedge Jul 30th 2007 2:47 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Weirdstone (Post 5127281)
Think she included you :D

she wouldn't

gedge Jul 30th 2007 2:48 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by northernbird (Post 5127285)
chief nutter I would say :lol:

she would

gedge Jul 30th 2007 2:49 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Weirdstone (Post 5127290)
Oh yes ...goes around all quiet and gentle ...but really he's as mad as a stag.
:D

like you're qualified to decide

Fiona&malc Jul 30th 2007 2:49 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by gedge (Post 5127278)
was it good for you?

It was very pleasant thank you :lol:

gedge Jul 30th 2007 2:50 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Fiona&malc (Post 5127297)
It was very pleasant thank you :lol:

we should do it more often

northernbird Jul 30th 2007 2:50 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by gedge (Post 5127293)
she would

who is she, cats mother :D

Weirdstone Jul 30th 2007 2:52 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by gedge (Post 5127296)
like you're qualified to decide

Yes, I am :p
Just have to decide whether you are as mad as a stag, or a box of snakes.

Wendy Jul 30th 2007 2:54 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Weirdstone (Post 5127303)
Yes, I am :p
Just have to decide whether you are as mad as a stag, or a box of snakes.


Box of frogs.

Fiona&malc Jul 30th 2007 2:55 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Weirdstone (Post 5127303)
Yes, I am :p
Just have to decide whether you are as mad as a stag, or a box of snakes.

hmm never heard of mad stags, mad hatters yes but never stags or maybe as mad as an itch perhaps??

Weirdstone Jul 30th 2007 2:55 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Wendy (Post 5127307)
Box of frogs.

One that was used in Coventry was ...as mad as a took ....never did find out what a took was :huh:

Ransi Jul 30th 2007 2:56 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 
Is this the latest hang out?

Fiona&malc Jul 30th 2007 2:56 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by gedge (Post 5127298)
we should do it more often

yerron :D

Fiona&malc Jul 30th 2007 2:56 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Ransi (Post 5127313)
Is this the latest hang out?

hello, where have you been ???

Weirdstone Jul 30th 2007 2:56 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Fiona&malc (Post 5127310)
hmm never heard of mad stags, mad hatters yes but never stags or maybe as mad as an itch perhaps??

Stags go mad at breeding time.

northernbird Jul 30th 2007 2:57 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Ransi (Post 5127313)
Is this the latest hang out?

you are mad enough :D

Fiona&malc Jul 30th 2007 2:57 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 
d'you think soapy will be annoyed the gedge has hijacked his thread??

Weirdstone Jul 30th 2007 2:58 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by northernbird (Post 5127320)
are you mad enough :D

What a bloody ridiculous question :rofl:

gedge Jul 30th 2007 2:59 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Wendy (Post 5127307)
Box of frogs.

who asked you?

lor Jul 30th 2007 2:59 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Ransi (Post 5127313)
Is this the latest hang out?

;)It is now that your ass is in here!:rofl:

:thumbup:Hay Ransi how's it going!

Ransi Jul 30th 2007 2:59 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Fiona&malc (Post 5127317)
hello, where have you been ???

Busy as a badger (working):eek:

gedge Jul 30th 2007 2:59 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Fiona&malc (Post 5127322)
d'you think soapy will be annoyed the gedge has hijacked his thread??

me? gerrof

Wendy Jul 30th 2007 2:59 pm

Re: Settled or Unsettled
 

Originally Posted by Weirdstone (Post 5127312)
One that was used in Coventry was ...as mad as a took ....never did find out what a took was :huh:

:confused:


Originally Posted by Fiona&malc (Post 5127322)
d'you think soapy will be annoyed the gedge has hijacked his thread??

:lol:


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