OK - so now I am VERY concerned
Dec 30th 2010, 9:24 pm
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Re: OK - so now I am VERY concerned
Lol - tonight is looming......he should arrive in the village around 4pm today and put his things in the spare room.....then I suppose I should feed him ???? I think I should go to the shops and buy something to BBQ?
Dec 31st 2010, 7:01 am
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Re: OK - so now I am VERY concerned
Go with what ever feels right doll.
I do have to admit though I did wax a few months ago after separating from OH and him asking me to do it for years and me refusing.
I have to say I could not go back to hair again just feels so much better and hygeinic since I had it ripped off
I even do my own waxing now but only after a bottle of wine and feel no pain at all
I do have to admit though I did wax a few months ago after separating from OH and him asking me to do it for years and me refusing.
I have to say I could not go back to hair again just feels so much better and hygeinic since I had it ripped off
I even do my own waxing now but only after a bottle of wine and feel no pain at all
Dec 31st 2010, 1:31 pm
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Re: OK - so now I am VERY concerned
'pitting his things in the spare room'?? Is that what the kidz are calling it these days?! LOL!
Jan 2nd 2011, 5:06 am
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Re: OK - so now I am VERY concerned
OK - so feedback from date!!!!
Nice guy - very nice guy - but not the one for me.
And the dating game??? sucks big time - think I will give it a miss
Nice guy - very nice guy - but not the one for me.
And the dating game??? sucks big time - think I will give it a miss
Jan 2nd 2011, 5:11 am
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Re: OK - so now I am VERY concerned
Dating probably isnt the way to go though. Somewhere like a club where you can really get to meet and know people over a period.of time.
How many times do you hear of people getting together, who really didnt like each other at the start... happens a lot.
Someone I know, who after years in a relationship, ended up quite alone. Joined a walking club... and I mean one that went all over the World on Walks, through Africa, Russia, those kinds of places. Ended up in a really good relationship after a couple of years of active membership..
Sounds like a great way to me the above.
Best of Luck Sas... and keep on keeping on
Jan 2nd 2011, 5:13 am
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Re: OK - so now I am VERY concerned
Never ever give up
Dating probably isnt the way to go though. Somewhere like a club where you can really get to meet and know people over a period.of time.
How many times do you hear of people getting together, who really didnt like each other at the start... happens a lot.
Someone I know, who after years in a relationship, ended up quite alone. Joined a walking club... and I mean one that went all over the World on Walks, through Africa, Russia, those kinds of places. Ended up in a really good relationship after a couple of years of active membership..
Sounds like a great way to me the above.
Best of Luck Sas... and keep on keeping on
Dating probably isnt the way to go though. Somewhere like a club where you can really get to meet and know people over a period.of time.
How many times do you hear of people getting together, who really didnt like each other at the start... happens a lot.
Someone I know, who after years in a relationship, ended up quite alone. Joined a walking club... and I mean one that went all over the World on Walks, through Africa, Russia, those kinds of places. Ended up in a really good relationship after a couple of years of active membership..
Sounds like a great way to me the above.
Best of Luck Sas... and keep on keeping on
Jan 2nd 2011, 5:20 am
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Re: OK - so now I am VERY concerned
Yes met on a dating site - chatted over a coffee - all seemed good - then on phone for a while over the last few weeks. and then the 'date' and it didn't go as I wanted/expected....just not well.
He was a gentleman - but very quiet/shy/reserved. I felt comfortable - but I didn't feel a 'spark' or any thing that I could say would lead to something.
Suppose you only ever get one real love and you never get that twice. Or maybe you do but you have to look high and low - I don't think I can be bothered - it seems 'too' hard.
Maybe I am expecting too much too soon - and I think I should leave the 'dating' thing for another few months.
He was a gentleman - but very quiet/shy/reserved. I felt comfortable - but I didn't feel a 'spark' or any thing that I could say would lead to something.
Suppose you only ever get one real love and you never get that twice. Or maybe you do but you have to look high and low - I don't think I can be bothered - it seems 'too' hard.
Maybe I am expecting too much too soon - and I think I should leave the 'dating' thing for another few months.
Jan 2nd 2011, 5:24 am
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Re: OK - so now I am VERY concerned
Yes met on a dating site - chatted over a coffee - all seemed good - then on phone for a while over the last few weeks. and then the 'date' and it didn't go as I wanted/expected....just not well.
He was a gentleman - but very quiet/shy/reserved. I felt comfortable - but I didn't feel a 'spark' or any thing that I could say would lead to something.
Suppose you only ever get one real love and you never get that twice. Or maybe you do but you have to look high and low - I don't think I can be bothered - it seems 'too' hard.
Maybe I am expecting too much too soon - and I think I should leave the 'dating' thing for another few months.
He was a gentleman - but very quiet/shy/reserved. I felt comfortable - but I didn't feel a 'spark' or any thing that I could say would lead to something.
Suppose you only ever get one real love and you never get that twice. Or maybe you do but you have to look high and low - I don't think I can be bothered - it seems 'too' hard.
Maybe I am expecting too much too soon - and I think I should leave the 'dating' thing for another few months.
However I do know 3 couples personally who met on dating sites and are now married, so you never know..........
I am thinking of taking up hiking myself LOL!!
Jan 2nd 2011, 5:26 am
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Re: OK - so now I am VERY concerned
It is very hard to find that "spark" isn't it? I have more or less given up now, can't be bothered LOL!! Have been on and off dating sites more than a few times since my divorce (more off than on TBH) but nada.
However I do know 3 couples personally who met on dating sites and are now married, so you never know..........
I am thinking of taking up hiking myself LOL!!
However I do know 3 couples personally who met on dating sites and are now married, so you never know..........
I am thinking of taking up hiking myself LOL!!
Lol - I do a lot of walking already - on my own with ipod. My salvation from insanity....
Maybe I should just become an old cat lady?? I have 2 cats already
Jan 2nd 2011, 5:28 am
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Re: OK - so now I am VERY concerned
Just like me then.
My suggestion is to continue using electricity adopting safe practices.
Sparks occur when you least expect them but when they happen there is no mistaking their effect.
My suggestion is to continue using electricity adopting safe practices.
Sparks occur when you least expect them but when they happen there is no mistaking their effect.
Jan 2nd 2011, 5:32 am
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Re: OK - so now I am VERY concerned
Suppose you only ever get one real love and you never get that twice. Or maybe you do but you have to look high and low - I don't think I can be bothered - it seems 'too' hard.
Maybe I am expecting too much too soon - and I think I should leave the 'dating' thing for another few months.
Maybe I am expecting too much too soon - and I think I should leave the 'dating' thing for another few months.
After TheOriginalMrDreamy died I ended up in an abusive relationship - when that ended I felt so worthless that I didn't think anyone would possibly be interested in me again. With three kids it was impossible to do the usual pubbing/clubbing malarky so a friend gently pushed me in the direction of an online dating site. All the flirting did the power of good for my ego and gave me something to look forward to when the kids were in bed. I didn't find true love there, but I do still have two very good friends who have seen me through all kinds of crap related to TheVileEx.
Eventually, I met Himself (online too, but through social media rather than date sites) and he's the reason we're now living on the other side of the world.. so no, don't give up. You can find true love more than once in a lifetime and you don't have to hunt high and low for it. Just believe in yourself and have fun.
Jan 2nd 2011, 5:33 am
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