pomgrrl

Ok so, I just want to rant/scream ALOT, we decide we wanted to got to Oz, good, great, so what has my darling husband done since we agreed to go???? absolutley F@%k all !!:curse:
Everytime I try to envolve him he just grunts at me:curse::curse:
Its ok buddy (talking to my husband here) I have citizenship, and as soon as i get my passport, I can go, mate!!!!!
IF HE WANTS TO GO WHY THE HELL CANT HE DO ANYTHING!!!!!!
AAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH!!!! !:curse::curse:
I am seriously thinking of taking the kids and going without him,
everyone here knows how hard all the logistics are to move to Oz, its too much for me to do on my own and have him just tag along like a child
Rant over
I thank you

Hutch

lol - get it off your chest!

soapy©

i found it deas easy. left pauline to do it all
oh and it worked, i would have just made a meal of it

asher

and you really expected anything else?

If you will do it he will let you,

Margaret3

hate to be the bearer of bad news girl, but after that,you've set up bank accounts, think about health insurarnce,decide to/notship your furniture, take your pets, find temporary accomm, then find a rental, then a job,, then child care , .........................and perhaps sell/rent your uk property

soapy©

and thats before she lets him smell her farts

fin

:curse: some men eh?

My husband didn't do much to do with our visa to be honest. I just about got him to help me write his statement about our relationship (it was hard work getting that much from him!), and even then I did all the typing!! I actually think thats all he did!! I even filled out his application form!!!

I don't think it's that they don't want to go, it's they can't be bothered with all that 'stuff' and it's easier if someone else does all the work. I really do think if I'd left it up for my husband to get everything together for the visa then we wouldn't even have started gathering 'evidence' of our relationship yet!!

(sorry if you read this Simon - but it's true!!)

pomgrrl

Ok, so I had a hissy fit, threw all the paperwork at him and the spouse visa booklet and he`s downstairs staring at it
If he actually looks at the forms he`ll see I have already done them
so realistically If I want them done I will have to do all the moving to Oz forms, furniture, kids, dogs etc etc, and book our validation trip, then Im going to STAY THERE buy my husband a return ticket AND HE CAN GO BACK TO THE UK AND SELL THE BLOODY HOUSE OR STAY IN THE UK AND ROT!!!! all on his own!!!
MUHUHAHA........MUHUHAHA........

mad city fan

Well yep thats men for ya,they come up with great ideas and expect you to put them in to action, my OH did the same when we were doing our TRA and visa app sat back and did nothing and then asked why am I so stressed out but it will be pay back time when we get there when he is working out in the burning heat and then I sit back and do nothing

Sally Simpson

Yep, think it's a man thing

penky

think it must be

pomgrrl

what a brilliant idea feet up time for me
glass of vino ladies??

Kapri

Of the numerous jobs involved in emigrating I gave my OH two things to do.

Guess who ended up doing them?

Clue: - it wasn't him.

smiling4

hope you feeling better hun xx

must admit, as I have been sooooo busy not had chance to get on with things, so it is still waiting for me to sit down and do OH's stat dec's etc for TRA.....joys!! LOL! Love him to bits though! Ems x

maisey

Sounds soooooo familiar