My dream has died but been reborn!!!
#226
Re: My dream has died
top bird, I'm resting a little easier now.
i think i should be able to afford it.
Especially with 30 grand sterling behind me.
Jazzys
i think i should be able to afford it.
Especially with 30 grand sterling behind me.
Jazzys
#227
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Joined: Jun 2007
Location: Northern Ireland (norn iron)
Posts: 310
Re: My dream has died
Jazzy,
Shocked to read the last couple of pages was busy yesterday.
Wow mate! Have you had a tough time. I think you are wise to start making decisions about your future, alone without OH, as she intends to do.
May I firstly suggest that you go out with a few friends and get blind drunk and have a mega blow out, cos if anyone needs it Jaz it's you.
Forget 2morrow (hangover day), the following day start putting things in order for your future as a single parent.
Who knows what tomorrow brings ..............
You're a great guy,
The luck of the Irish,
Crocodileseamus
Shocked to read the last couple of pages was busy yesterday.
Wow mate! Have you had a tough time. I think you are wise to start making decisions about your future, alone without OH, as she intends to do.
May I firstly suggest that you go out with a few friends and get blind drunk and have a mega blow out, cos if anyone needs it Jaz it's you.
Forget 2morrow (hangover day), the following day start putting things in order for your future as a single parent.
Who knows what tomorrow brings ..............
You're a great guy,
The luck of the Irish,
Crocodileseamus
#228
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Joined: Dec 2002
Location: Keep true friends and puppets close, trust no-one else...
Posts: 93,806
#230
Re: My dream has died
hi croc, nice to hear from you again.
all i can do mate is sort myself and the kids out now. I can hardly drag her back kicking and screaming can i.
my daughter (15) sez she will live with her mam wherever she is. And my son (11) seems determined to go to oz.
They don't make it any easier do they.
A blow out mate is something i just do not need, believe me. Some might find it helps, i wouldn't. I'd still be bad next monday. I just don't do hangovers.
Tell pollyanna not to worry, i was only kidding. I lived there for a year and a half so i know the reality.
Take care you guys, I'm off to put my house in order. Oh and i have some ironing to do. Hhhmmmmm Now then, how do you switch this thing on!
jazzys
all i can do mate is sort myself and the kids out now. I can hardly drag her back kicking and screaming can i.
my daughter (15) sez she will live with her mam wherever she is. And my son (11) seems determined to go to oz.
They don't make it any easier do they.
A blow out mate is something i just do not need, believe me. Some might find it helps, i wouldn't. I'd still be bad next monday. I just don't do hangovers.
Tell pollyanna not to worry, i was only kidding. I lived there for a year and a half so i know the reality.
Take care you guys, I'm off to put my house in order. Oh and i have some ironing to do. Hhhmmmmm Now then, how do you switch this thing on!
jazzys
#231
Forum Regular
Joined: Mar 2007
Posts: 129
Re: My dream has died
m8
i think your right to go now.
your mrs used the term 'not in love' (thats what you wrote down)
that is women speak for the boot my friend
she may love you, like you, respect you. she probably does!
you may well think in time that this was right for you both.
im really sorry that your kids will be upset but they cope.
good luck finding that new burd, ive heard kylies free.
im sure things must be raw right now but im not sure i can blame her for her honesty. her timing tho,is appalling
i think your right to go now.
your mrs used the term 'not in love' (thats what you wrote down)
that is women speak for the boot my friend
she may love you, like you, respect you. she probably does!
you may well think in time that this was right for you both.
im really sorry that your kids will be upset but they cope.
good luck finding that new burd, ive heard kylies free.
im sure things must be raw right now but im not sure i can blame her for her honesty. her timing tho,is appalling
Last edited by yes of course; Jun 21st 2007 at 10:46 am. Reason: spelling
#232
Re: My dream has died
hi croc, nice to hear from you again.
all i can do mate is sort myself and the kids out now. I can hardly drag her back kicking and screaming can i.
my daughter (15) sez she will live with her mam wherever she is. And my son (11) seems determined to go to oz.
They don't make it any easier do they.
A blow out mate is something i just do not need, believe me. Some might find it helps, i wouldn't. I'd still be bad next monday. I just don't do hangovers.
Tell pollyanna not to worry, i was only kidding. I lived there for a year and a half so i know the reality.
Take care you guys, I'm off to put my house in order. Oh and i have some ironing to do. Hhhmmmmm Now then, how do you switch this thing on!
jazzys
all i can do mate is sort myself and the kids out now. I can hardly drag her back kicking and screaming can i.
my daughter (15) sez she will live with her mam wherever she is. And my son (11) seems determined to go to oz.
They don't make it any easier do they.
A blow out mate is something i just do not need, believe me. Some might find it helps, i wouldn't. I'd still be bad next monday. I just don't do hangovers.
Tell pollyanna not to worry, i was only kidding. I lived there for a year and a half so i know the reality.
Take care you guys, I'm off to put my house in order. Oh and i have some ironing to do. Hhhmmmmm Now then, how do you switch this thing on!
jazzys
At least you know what is possible now mate
By the way if you work out how to sort the iron out, pop round mine will you ive got a huge pile of ironing and could do with a hand lol
Mandy
#233
Re: My dream has died
Thanks for that "yes of course" you have just made me smile.
Women speak is a language i obviously don't understand. I got the boot did I, superb.
Due to the fact she "abandoned" us, we will be getting our mortgage paid after 8 weeks and not the usual 39. Well done my dear.
Mandy, I only ever iron naked because i get too hot. still want me to come round?
jazzys
Women speak is a language i obviously don't understand. I got the boot did I, superb.
Due to the fact she "abandoned" us, we will be getting our mortgage paid after 8 weeks and not the usual 39. Well done my dear.
Mandy, I only ever iron naked because i get too hot. still want me to come round?
jazzys
#235
Re: My dream has died
Depends on what i'm ironing, if its saucy underwear i could be in trouble.
Jazzys
Jazzys
#238
Re: My dream has died
Well I have to say i've introduced a whole new look into our house since the OH left.
She had washing and ironing all over the bleeding place. Bless her heart she was so snowed under with stuff, ya never knew what was clean and what was dirty. It was a constant pain in the harris.
I've got all the washing done now and its all put away in the right places. Its not ironed though! I've told the kids that we'll just iron it as we need it.
Am i being a "bad" lone parent?
Jazzys
She had washing and ironing all over the bleeding place. Bless her heart she was so snowed under with stuff, ya never knew what was clean and what was dirty. It was a constant pain in the harris.
I've got all the washing done now and its all put away in the right places. Its not ironed though! I've told the kids that we'll just iron it as we need it.
Am i being a "bad" lone parent?
Jazzys
#239
Re: My dream has died
Well I have to say i've introduced a whole new look into our house since the OH left.
She had washing and ironing all over the bleeding place. Bless her heart she was so snowed under with stuff, ya never knew what was clean and what was dirty. It was a constant pain in the harris.
I've got all the washing done now and its all put away in the right places. Its not ironed though! I've told the kids that we'll just iron it as we need it.
Am i being a "bad" lone parent?
Jazzys
She had washing and ironing all over the bleeding place. Bless her heart she was so snowed under with stuff, ya never knew what was clean and what was dirty. It was a constant pain in the harris.
I've got all the washing done now and its all put away in the right places. Its not ironed though! I've told the kids that we'll just iron it as we need it.
Am i being a "bad" lone parent?
Jazzys
get a grip man
Lee
#240
Joined: Sep 2005
Posts: 23,400
Re: My dream has died
Well I have to say i've introduced a whole new look into our house since the OH left.
She had washing and ironing all over the bleeding place. Bless her heart she was so snowed under with stuff, ya never knew what was clean and what was dirty. It was a constant pain in the harris.
I've got all the washing done now and its all put away in the right places. Its not ironed though! I've told the kids that we'll just iron it as we need it.
Am i being a "bad" lone parent?
Jazzys
She had washing and ironing all over the bleeding place. Bless her heart she was so snowed under with stuff, ya never knew what was clean and what was dirty. It was a constant pain in the harris.
I've got all the washing done now and its all put away in the right places. Its not ironed though! I've told the kids that we'll just iron it as we need it.
Am i being a "bad" lone parent?
Jazzys
I need a wife myself actually.
Cant cook at all - but I am good at housework.