My dream has died but been reborn!!!
#1
My dream has died but been reborn!!!
Hi,
I know this is not what some of you may want to read but it needs to be said.
For a long time now, I have wanted to take my wife and kids to a new life down under. We made the decision to apply and spent the money. The application, the medicals, new pasports eveything. Our house has been done up to sell and its now like a palace. The visa's are here and The kids were dead excited too.
I lost my job last week and I was about two weeks away from booking flights.
My wife has now walked out. She can't handle it any more. Too much pressure, she has made herself ill but when asked if she was OK she would always say "yes".
I'm gutted, hollow, empty and lost.
I have no job, no wife and no dream.
I hope this never happens to anyone else, please make sure you both want to go before you apply.
Thanks for listening.
Jazzys
I know this is not what some of you may want to read but it needs to be said.
For a long time now, I have wanted to take my wife and kids to a new life down under. We made the decision to apply and spent the money. The application, the medicals, new pasports eveything. Our house has been done up to sell and its now like a palace. The visa's are here and The kids were dead excited too.
I lost my job last week and I was about two weeks away from booking flights.
My wife has now walked out. She can't handle it any more. Too much pressure, she has made herself ill but when asked if she was OK she would always say "yes".
I'm gutted, hollow, empty and lost.
I have no job, no wife and no dream.
I hope this never happens to anyone else, please make sure you both want to go before you apply.
Thanks for listening.
Jazzys
#2
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Joined: Jun 2007
Location: Preston Lancashire UK
Posts: 1
Re: My dream has died
I am so sorry to hear your sad news. I know it might not seem like it now but things will get brighter. Life is a bitch sometimes. If your wife loves you she will come round and if not then at least you know now when you have the support of others, rather than being thousands of miles away across the world.
Keep your spirits up!!
Keep your spirits up!!
#3
Re: My dream has died
Hi,
I know this is not what some of you may want to read but it needs to be said.
For a long time now, I have wanted to take my wife and kids to a new life down under. We made the decision to apply and spent the money. The application, the medicals, new pasports eveything. Our house has been done up to sell and its now like a palace. The visa's are here and The kids were dead excited too.
I lost my job last week and I was about two weeks away from booking flights.
My wife has now walked out. She can't handle it any more. Too much pressure, she has made herself ill but when asked if she was OK she would always say "yes".
I'm gutted, hollow, empty and lost.
I have no job, no wife and no dream.
I hope this never happens to anyone else, please make sure you both want to go before you apply.
Thanks for listening.
Jazzys
I know this is not what some of you may want to read but it needs to be said.
For a long time now, I have wanted to take my wife and kids to a new life down under. We made the decision to apply and spent the money. The application, the medicals, new pasports eveything. Our house has been done up to sell and its now like a palace. The visa's are here and The kids were dead excited too.
I lost my job last week and I was about two weeks away from booking flights.
My wife has now walked out. She can't handle it any more. Too much pressure, she has made herself ill but when asked if she was OK she would always say "yes".
I'm gutted, hollow, empty and lost.
I have no job, no wife and no dream.
I hope this never happens to anyone else, please make sure you both want to go before you apply.
Thanks for listening.
Jazzys
lynne.
#4
Re: My dream has died
Have you got your visa Jazzy? Maybe you could suggest a holiday down under and get the visa's validated?
Not sure if you have been to aussie before so maybe it would let her have a look-see for herself?
Just a thought....
Hope it all works out
take care
Lee
Not sure if you have been to aussie before so maybe it would let her have a look-see for herself?
Just a thought....
Hope it all works out
take care
Lee
Last edited by stuckinblighty; Jun 13th 2007 at 12:37 pm.
#5
Just Joined
Joined: Mar 2007
Location: stockton-on-tees
Posts: 26
Re: My dream has died
I am sooo sorry to hear you are having a bad time at the minute,
i no its hard to do but keep your chin up and good look for the future,
nat xx
i no its hard to do but keep your chin up and good look for the future,
nat xx
#6
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Joined: Feb 2006
Location: Hell,UK but with a smile now we have our visa's !!
Posts: 303
Re: My dream has died
I'm sorry to hear your news. Life can sometimes throw us a "low baller".
I agree with a previous poster,that maybe a holiday out there is what you all need as a start, and maybe some honest talking.Maybe you both just need some time to get a clear head. I hope it works out for you all.
Best wishes and keep fighting,
M J
I agree with a previous poster,that maybe a holiday out there is what you all need as a start, and maybe some honest talking.Maybe you both just need some time to get a clear head. I hope it works out for you all.
Best wishes and keep fighting,
M J
#7
Re: My dream has died
Hi,
I know this is not what some of you may want to read but it needs to be said.
For a long time now, I have wanted to take my wife and kids to a new life down under. We made the decision to apply and spent the money. The application, the medicals, new pasports eveything. Our house has been done up to sell and its now like a palace. The visa's are here and The kids were dead excited too.
I lost my job last week and I was about two weeks away from booking flights.
My wife has now walked out. She can't handle it any more. Too much pressure, she has made herself ill but when asked if she was OK she would always say "yes".
I'm gutted, hollow, empty and lost.
I have no job, no wife and no dream.
I hope this never happens to anyone else, please make sure you both want to go before you apply.
Thanks for listening.
Jazzys
I know this is not what some of you may want to read but it needs to be said.
For a long time now, I have wanted to take my wife and kids to a new life down under. We made the decision to apply and spent the money. The application, the medicals, new pasports eveything. Our house has been done up to sell and its now like a palace. The visa's are here and The kids were dead excited too.
I lost my job last week and I was about two weeks away from booking flights.
My wife has now walked out. She can't handle it any more. Too much pressure, she has made herself ill but when asked if she was OK she would always say "yes".
I'm gutted, hollow, empty and lost.
I have no job, no wife and no dream.
I hope this never happens to anyone else, please make sure you both want to go before you apply.
Thanks for listening.
Jazzys
So sorry to hear that
Do you think she's got cold feet about the move, or do you think it's just all the stress of it? Either way, just give her a bit of space to clear her head, hopefully she'll be back after a little break from it all.
#10
Forum Regular
Joined: May 2007
Posts: 43
Re: My dream has died
Hey man thats not the end of everything.
have the faith, things will get better.
There are people in more msery then you can imagine. So dont break your heart. Cheer up.. things will definately get better.
Alvin
have the faith, things will get better.
There are people in more msery then you can imagine. So dont break your heart. Cheer up.. things will definately get better.
Alvin
#11
Forum Regular
Joined: Jan 2007
Location: Bury, Lancs
Posts: 93
Re: My dream has died
Hi,
I know this is not what some of you may want to read but it needs to be said.
For a long time now, I have wanted to take my wife and kids to a new life down under. We made the decision to apply and spent the money. The application, the medicals, new pasports eveything. Our house has been done up to sell and its now like a palace. The visa's are here and The kids were dead excited too.
I lost my job last week and I was about two weeks away from booking flights.
My wife has now walked out. She can't handle it any more. Too much pressure, she has made herself ill but when asked if she was OK she would always say "yes".
I'm gutted, hollow, empty and lost.
I have no job, no wife and no dream.
I hope this never happens to anyone else, please make sure you both want to go before you apply.
Thanks for listening.
Jazzys
I know this is not what some of you may want to read but it needs to be said.
For a long time now, I have wanted to take my wife and kids to a new life down under. We made the decision to apply and spent the money. The application, the medicals, new pasports eveything. Our house has been done up to sell and its now like a palace. The visa's are here and The kids were dead excited too.
I lost my job last week and I was about two weeks away from booking flights.
My wife has now walked out. She can't handle it any more. Too much pressure, she has made herself ill but when asked if she was OK she would always say "yes".
I'm gutted, hollow, empty and lost.
I have no job, no wife and no dream.
I hope this never happens to anyone else, please make sure you both want to go before you apply.
Thanks for listening.
Jazzys
So you're out of work at the moment, if your wife was still with you would you be out looking for work or would you have brought your plans forward to move to oz? Maybe you need to visit oz yourself, with or without your wife, find a job and then look at making a fresh start. Your wife may just simply not be able to handle all the pressure and needs you to sort it out.
Whatever the situation, don't see the current events as 'the end'. If you walked into a brick wall, would you just stop walking or would you find a way around it? In this I'm not saying that you must strive to achieve the oz dream, but simply that you must keep moving.
All the best.
Cheryl
#12
Re: My dream has died
Hi,
I know this is not what some of you may want to read but it needs to be said.
For a long time now, I have wanted to take my wife and kids to a new life down under. We made the decision to apply and spent the money. The application, the medicals, new pasports eveything. Our house has been done up to sell and its now like a palace. The visa's are here and The kids were dead excited too.
I lost my job last week and I was about two weeks away from booking flights.
My wife has now walked out. She can't handle it any more. Too much pressure, she has made herself ill but when asked if she was OK she would always say "yes".
I'm gutted, hollow, empty and lost.
I have no job, no wife and no dream.
I hope this never happens to anyone else, please make sure you both want to go before you apply.
Thanks for listening.
Jazzys
I know this is not what some of you may want to read but it needs to be said.
For a long time now, I have wanted to take my wife and kids to a new life down under. We made the decision to apply and spent the money. The application, the medicals, new pasports eveything. Our house has been done up to sell and its now like a palace. The visa's are here and The kids were dead excited too.
I lost my job last week and I was about two weeks away from booking flights.
My wife has now walked out. She can't handle it any more. Too much pressure, she has made herself ill but when asked if she was OK she would always say "yes".
I'm gutted, hollow, empty and lost.
I have no job, no wife and no dream.
I hope this never happens to anyone else, please make sure you both want to go before you apply.
Thanks for listening.
Jazzys
#13
Re: My dream has died
Thanks everyone, "honest talking" that would b nice!
Maybe she is getting cold feet, maybe she just doesn't want to go. But she should certainly have told me her thoughts before it got to this stage.
I'm almost out of the disbelief stage and its morphing into the really really angry stage.
The next stage will be to book flights for me n my little boy. Why should our dream die? If she wants to live in the UK she can but why should my lad be denied a better future.
I will kill me to leave my 15 yr old daughter and t'll hurt my lad to leave his siter and mam.
But I don't know what else to do.
Thanks for the support.
Jazzys
Maybe she is getting cold feet, maybe she just doesn't want to go. But she should certainly have told me her thoughts before it got to this stage.
I'm almost out of the disbelief stage and its morphing into the really really angry stage.
The next stage will be to book flights for me n my little boy. Why should our dream die? If she wants to live in the UK she can but why should my lad be denied a better future.
I will kill me to leave my 15 yr old daughter and t'll hurt my lad to leave his siter and mam.
But I don't know what else to do.
Thanks for the support.
Jazzys
#14
Re: My dream has died
Don't really know what to say Jazzys but I really hope things work out for you in the end.
#15
Re: My dream has died
oh boy Sorry to hear that Jazz, here's hoping things work out for you.
Lynn xx
Lynn xx