northernbird

I can see your point and cannot offer any argument against it. I just feel differently and if that makes me holier than thou and judgmental then so be it. I am quite old fashioned really about stuff like that.

ozzieclare2b

sorry i meant if they were married. Single people can do what they like with other single people lol

DunRoaminTheUK

Except for 'brown love' though......

pompeyblonde

Glad you are amused...no I personally wouldn't use sexist language/insults to other women...Ofcourse if there is committent in a relationship anyone would be very hurt to be cheated on....

It would be the person who made the committment to me that Id be pissed off with.....Id be lowering myself to start throwing insults at the other person....

There is an underlying attitude here that women shouldn't have sex on her own terms, and that men can do what they like, and women are to blame...I thought this went out in Victorian times??! Put them all in a naughty girls home with the nuns!

purple rain

'Old fashioned' and 'judgemental' not a great combination, and I suppose you live in glass house as well!!!!!!!!!

northernbird

I don't like promiscuity in men either. I am not just judgmental about women.

northernbird

No I don't but there are certain things I don't agree with and like I said if that makes me judgmental and old fashioned then so be it.

purple rain

you make me laugh. Woman arent allowed to call other women sluts or slags? So if for example your husband had an affair would you not call the other woman a slag or a slut? I call her far more lol and him a prick

[QUOTE=pompeyblonde;7316466]Glad you are amused...no I personally wouldn't use sexist language/insults to other women...Ofcourse if there is committent in a relationship anyone would be very hurt to be cheated on....

I suppose it would depend on how educated and how articulate you are as to how you would address someone in these circumstances.

purple rain

Not great personality traits IMO

northernbird

An opinion you are entitled to of course.

DunRoaminTheUK

Now, is this touch-paper going to be a fast or slow burning one?

purple rain

I prefer a sloooooow burn

TiddlyPom

It's a natural talent NB.


Nooooo.

northernbird

Not at all. Each individual has their own sense of morals and of what they deem right and wrong. Mine are old fashioned because that is the way I was brought up. Each to their own.

DunRoaminTheUK

You've mellowed somewhat since you called me a "pednatic twat!"?

As a reply, I was going to point out that it's actually spelt "pedantic" but I thought I'd better not......