Families - just how bad are yours?
#31
Aussie lost in the UK
Joined: Jun 2007
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Re: Families - just how bad are yours?
I think some people would be better not saying anything and sending a postcard from Brisbane saying
"having a lovely time, bought a house, got a new job, weather is great, wish you were here...."
"having a lovely time, bought a house, got a new job, weather is great, wish you were here...."
#32
Joined: Aug 2007
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Re: Families - just how bad are yours?
I know you have seen some of my posts before and I just can't believe this is such a big issue for Enlgish people - are all english people so selfish?? (except for the ones on this forum, obviously).
Everything over here seems to be an issue and everyone is worried about everything all the time!
I'm going mental and I'm regarded as a loose canon at work simply because I don't take things seriously........honestly though, how seriously can you take the fact that the wrong colour paper has been put into the photocopier ('so just cahnge the fu**ing paper to whatever colour YOU want' was my recent reply to an email complaining of this exact thing......
Everything over here seems to be an issue and everyone is worried about everything all the time!
I'm going mental and I'm regarded as a loose canon at work simply because I don't take things seriously........honestly though, how seriously can you take the fact that the wrong colour paper has been put into the photocopier ('so just cahnge the fu**ing paper to whatever colour YOU want' was my recent reply to an email complaining of this exact thing......
Just laugh at them like I do, It annoys them more!!!
#34
Aussie lost in the UK
Joined: Jun 2007
Location: Terrigal, NSW Central Coast
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Re: Families - just how bad are yours?
people do tend to take things a bit too seriously here especially when it comes down to stupid things. The things people worry about on this forum are quite valid seeing as they are moving 12,000 miles away, but other than that every body's back is always up over something or other.
Just laugh at them like I do, It annoys them more!!!
Just laugh at them like I do, It annoys them more!!!
Just all the other crap people get caught up in.....who really cares about whether there is a supermarket in Australia called Tesco, who REALLY cares..........
#35
Joined: Aug 2007
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Re: Families - just how bad are yours?
Oh yeah, I can understand people being a little (lot) worried when they have quit there job and are taking the family to the other side of the world - THAT seems logical!
Just all the other crap people get caught up in.....who really cares about whether there is a supermarket in Australia called Tesco, who REALLY cares..........
Just all the other crap people get caught up in.....who really cares about whether there is a supermarket in Australia called Tesco, who REALLY cares..........
Thinking about it has anyone actually had a positive response from their families, or any one "made-up" with their families before they left?
Last edited by Sheff_Sparky; Aug 16th 2007 at 2:25 pm.
#36
Aussie lost in the UK
Joined: Jun 2007
Location: Terrigal, NSW Central Coast
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Re: Families - just how bad are yours?
Gets me in trouble lots (I am an Aussie in the UK) - constantly taking the piss out of people that are worried about complete nonsense!!
#37
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Re: Families - just how bad are yours?
"don't take longer than 5 minutes in the toilet or you will have to explain yourself when you come out." My mate took the paper in there and read it front to back just to piss them off. When asked he just said he had hemmoroids and asked them if they wanted a look!!
#38
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Joined: Sep 2005
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Re: Families - just how bad are yours?
I know you have seen some of my posts before and I just can't believe this is such a big issue for Enlgish people - are all english people so selfish?? (except for the ones on this forum, obviously).
Everything over here seems to be an issue and everyone is worried about everything all the time!
I'm going mental and I'm regarded as a loose canon at work simply because I don't take things seriously........honestly though, how seriously can you take the fact that the wrong colour paper has been put into the photocopier ('so just cahnge the fu**ing paper to whatever colour YOU want' was my recent reply to an email complaining of this exact thing......
Everything over here seems to be an issue and everyone is worried about everything all the time!
I'm going mental and I'm regarded as a loose canon at work simply because I don't take things seriously........honestly though, how seriously can you take the fact that the wrong colour paper has been put into the photocopier ('so just cahnge the fu**ing paper to whatever colour YOU want' was my recent reply to an email complaining of this exact thing......
I am tempted to put cling film over the toilet seat just for a laugh
#39
Aussie lost in the UK
Joined: Jun 2007
Location: Terrigal, NSW Central Coast
Posts: 682
Re: Families - just how bad are yours?
Anyway, sorry for hijacking thred.
Back to people's stories about horrible families and family issues.....
#41
Re: Families - just how bad are yours?
I know you have seen some of my posts before and I just can't believe this is such a big issue for Enlgish people - are all english people so selfish?? (except for the ones on this forum, obviously).
Everything over here seems to be an issue and everyone is worried about everything all the time!
I'm going mental and I'm regarded as a loose canon at work simply because I don't take things seriously........honestly though, how seriously can you take the fact that the wrong colour paper has been put into the photocopier ('so just cahnge the fu**ing paper to whatever colour YOU want' was my recent reply to an email complaining of this exact thing......
Everything over here seems to be an issue and everyone is worried about everything all the time!
I'm going mental and I'm regarded as a loose canon at work simply because I don't take things seriously........honestly though, how seriously can you take the fact that the wrong colour paper has been put into the photocopier ('so just cahnge the fu**ing paper to whatever colour YOU want' was my recent reply to an email complaining of this exact thing......
#42
Re: Families - just how bad are yours?
After reading just how shocking families can behave when they hear of your migration, I thought a thread dedicated to the appalling behaviour of families and how you dealt with it would be interesting.
Its nice to know you are not alone and I couldnt believe one of the threads this morning about how a BE members family are treating them.
So come on, just how bad did your family behave when they found out you were going to Australia.
I did read about one person whos father refused to move out of the house to try and stop them going.
This is the official 'Ive been made to feel guilty' thread.
Its nice to know you are not alone and I couldnt believe one of the threads this morning about how a BE members family are treating them.
So come on, just how bad did your family behave when they found out you were going to Australia.
I did read about one person whos father refused to move out of the house to try and stop them going.
This is the official 'Ive been made to feel guilty' thread.
#43
Joined: Aug 2007
Posts: 8,067
Re: Families - just how bad are yours?
read the post titled, "ignore this post....toxic something something". and then you will see where all this comes from.
Last edited by Sheff_Sparky; Aug 16th 2007 at 4:38 pm.
#44
Re: Families - just how bad are yours?
read these posts and another thread about a similar thing and this is exactly what we are saying. Most get grief for wanting to go, there are very few who get support. we are just getting support and the relief from knowing that you are not the only ones going through this, by sharing on this thing.
no support nothing, no grief. At least if you have the guilt trip you would know they care. Anyway, I am in a different position to you guys so should leave it at that I think [have been out of the UK for years and then made the move].
#45
BE Enthusiast
Joined: Apr 2007
Location: Adelaide
Posts: 860
Re: Families - just how bad are yours?
They had no desire to listen to any of our (brief) plans and the last goodbye was just....
Sparky hub was more upset that me, for me but I told him, no worries!!!
I'm used to their stories being much more important and have been constantly cut off when trying to say something about us
In laws...will prob get back to you soon of that's ok.
Last edited by Sparky wife; Aug 16th 2007 at 4:41 pm. Reason: adding words