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Old Oct 18th 2009, 5:49 pm
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Originally Posted by sans
Shelley their are lots of us ......Some of which are now stuck in the Country and carn't leave because they carn't afford to leave. And had we of stuck it out longer then we did, we would of been in the same boat......But its our own faults apparently
Yeah nothing to do with where you were living - so shut up eh?!!!
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So where are you? And are you happy with your choice ?
Lower Mainland, BC. Extremely satisfied.
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Old Oct 18th 2009, 6:21 pm
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Yeah nothing to do with where you were living - so shut up eh?!!!
Absolutely. For one reason or another we all made a choice to change something. Some adapt better than others. No use blaming the country or the people, it is personal choice. If it was the country and it's people pretty much every immigrant would be leaving.

Shit happens wherever you are. We all make decisions based on what we know at the time. Sometimes it works out, sometimes not. We should however accept the decisions and actions we take, which is much more helpful in moving on.

People can show empathy, but sympathy gets you nowhere.
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Absolutely. For one reason or another we all made a choice to change something. Some adapt better than others. No use blaming the country or the people, it is personal choice. If it was the country and it's people pretty much every immigrant would be leaving.

Shit happens wherever you are. We all make decisions based on what we know at the time. Sometimes it works out, sometimes not. We should however accept the decisions and actions we take, which is much more helpful in moving on.

People can show empathy, but sympathy gets you nowhere.
Well said sir !
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Lower Mainland, BC. Extremely satisfied.
I am so pleased your happy
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Old Oct 18th 2009, 6:36 pm
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Yeah nothing to do with where you were living - so shut up eh?!!!
Where i was living????
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Shelley their are lots of us ......Some of which are now stuck in the Country and carn't leave because they carn't afford to leave. And had we of stuck it out longer then we did, we would of been in the same boat......But its our own faults apparently
Hi there- well we have given the country a fair shot, we are naturalized Canadians and been here 7 years, but when your career keeps going backwards at a fast rate, one needs to do something to adjust to it and stop it getting any worse.So thats why we are looking to go back, plus if you are on a low salary everyday living costs become a major consideration, and so when we worked out what we could be doing in the UK, we would be so much better off there.economically at least.

For those if you who have been lucky enough to get jobs in xs of $50,000 per year -you are lucky....
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Where i was living????
prob same place as me - under the duvet!
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I am so pleased your happy
Me too. But I am not and intend to do something about it ..... not sure what yet but something. . .
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prob same place as me - under the duvet!
Bells i ended up there big time.....Not anymore tho
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Hi there- well we have given the country a fair shot, we are naturalized Canadians and been here 7 years, but when your career keeps going backwards at a fast rate, one needs to do something to adjust to it and stop it getting any worse.So thats why we are looking to go back, plus if you are on a low salary everyday living costs become a major consideration, and so when we worked out what we could be doing in the UK, we would be so much better off there.economically at least.

For those if you who have been lucky enough to get jobs in xs of $50,000 per year -you are lucky....
7 yrs ...........Thought i'd give you afew minutes silence WOW!!! Respect
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Originally Posted by The Aviator
Canada did not make your lives difficult, you did that on your own. One makes ones own bed and it's how each adapts or does not. Canada is what it is and many do just fine, without blaming the country when it does not work out how they expected.

Too many different people who have too many different reasons for returning to make sweeping generalisations. And sometimes it is the country to blame!!
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Me too. But I am not and intend to do something about it ..... not sure what yet but something. . .
Its a hard decision, i dont envy you....And i dont care what anyone says if your miserable, whats the point.......lifes way too short
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Originally Posted by shelley748
Hi there- well we have given the country a fair shot, we are naturalized Canadians and been here 7 years, but when your career keeps going backwards at a fast rate, one needs to do something to adjust to it and stop it getting any worse.So thats why we are looking to go back, plus if you are on a low salary everyday living costs become a major consideration, and so when we worked out what we could be doing in the UK, we would be so much better off there.economically at least.

For those if you who have been lucky enough to get jobs in xs of $50,000 per year -you are lucky....
I agree, it's much tougher for the average working family to make ends meet in Canada than it is in the UK. Thats our experience anyway
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Originally Posted by The Aviator
No use blaming the country or the people, it is personal choice.
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Many People post onto this forum all guns blazing complaining about the NHS, Crime , Immigrants, Gordon Brown, the weather and so on and using that as a reason to emigrate. It seems that many people are blaming Britain and it's people for their own problems so why can't we blame Canada.
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