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iamthecreaturefromuranus Sep 24th 2009 8:52 pm

Re: is it worth it
 

Originally Posted by Amazulu (Post 7955656)
Hell yes.

To all the people who replied no, why are you still here?


Originally Posted by Sunbound (Post 7963949)
Hurrah !! Exactly !!!

I think we established long ago that not everybody can just up sticks and move at the drop of a hat.

Pollyana Sep 24th 2009 9:10 pm

Re: is it worth it
 

Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus (Post 7964000)
I think we established long ago that not everybody can just up sticks and move at the drop of a hat.

Hurrah!! Exactly :)

king kong Sep 24th 2009 10:23 pm

Re: is it worth it
 

Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus (Post 7963889)
You never know mate.... two years ago we would have been stood shoulder to shoulder arguing against all these nutters who can't get the fact that Australia is a bland, boring, dull as ditchwater existence.... but now, while I'm not quite on the other side of the fence I am at least sat on it. I have obviously changed in some way, because Australia surely hasn't, so you can never really be sure.

I said this to you some time ago and it's still true... get the Hell off this board. Arguing about the relative merits of the UK vs Australia won't help you resolve how you feel and will probably only make it worse. Try and walk away from BE. I did for 12 months and came back a different poster (well in some respects anyway) :)

Maybe you need a doctor or youve had a nasty bang on the head .:)ps i am with u on the BE bit , i spent a while away and to be honest it de-clouds your judgement .you have settled and i have decided to go and live alife totally differnt to one i have lived before due to the fact im gloriously single and can go where i want and live a life truly saying ''never say never ''.

Very Happy Sep 24th 2009 10:43 pm

Re: is it worth it
 
If you don't move you'll be stuck in Blighty for ever. Moving on is such a sweet thing.

moneypenny20 Sep 25th 2009 12:07 am

Re: is it worth it
 

Originally Posted by Very Happy (Post 7964195)
If you don't move you'll be stuck in Blighty for ever. Moving on is such a sweet thing.

There are many who would love to be in Britain for ever. Don't knock it.

ABCDiamond Sep 25th 2009 1:01 am

Re: is it worth it
 

Originally Posted by willamos (Post 7963650)
Why though should I become a different person in order to feel less unhappy in a place I essentially don't like all that much?!

It isn't compulsory, but people do change, it is normal human nature.

Very few people stay exactly the same all the time, unless they try really hard. That reminds me of the other thread and my 13 year old !

ABCDiamond Sep 25th 2009 1:04 am

Re: is it worth it
 

Originally Posted by willamos (Post 7963680)
Not determined not to like it. But am determined not to spend years wasting time waiting to suddenly wake up and think ''oh! now I get Australia! I love it now''.

Funny how some people just can't accept that some don't like it. I wonder if it raises a few insecurities for them.

I actually doubt very much if anyone can't accept that some people don't like it. We are all different people, some will like it some won't.

Funny how some people just can't accept that a person might change. I wonder if it raises a few insecurities for them ;)

this charming man Sep 27th 2009 1:29 pm

Re: is it worth it
 
sometimes the question is more important than the answer.

Pollyana Sep 27th 2009 1:45 pm

Re: is it worth it
 

Originally Posted by moneypenny20 (Post 7964342)
There are many who would love to be in Britain for ever. Don't knock it.

:thumbup:

Originally Posted by ABCDiamond (Post 7964448)
It isn't compulsory, but people do change, it is normal human nature.

Very few people stay exactly the same all the time, unless they try really hard.

Exactly. I know I'm a different person from who I was when I arrived here. I haven't consciously changed, I've just found myself adapting to living here. I still don't love living here, but I've changed from someone who hated the place into someone who will now try to make the best of it.The alternative was to stay here being miserable - which does no-one any good.

kporte Sep 27th 2009 2:06 pm

Re: is it worth it
 

Originally Posted by this charming man (Post 7970062)
sometimes the question is more important than the answer.

There are more questions than answers and the more I find out the less I know.....

this charming man Sep 27th 2009 2:08 pm

Re: is it worth it
 
you can tune a piano but you cant tune a fish.

iamthecreaturefromuranus Sep 27th 2009 2:17 pm

Re: is it worth it
 
You can take a horse to water but a pencil must be lead.

shears Sep 28th 2009 2:54 am

Re: is it worth it
 

Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus (Post 7970132)
You can take a horse to water but a pencil must be lead.

Oi! :sneaky::lol:

DumbFalang Sep 28th 2009 3:10 am

Re: is it worth it
 
It's worth a try :thumbup:

I spent the best 4 years of my life (so far) around Brisbane and the Sunshine Coast. I loved it.

Problem is my wife and two step sons are Asian and Australia is not so much fun for people that do not have milky white skin :ohmy:

At the end of our 4 year visa, I was out voted and we had to leave.

spartacus Sep 29th 2009 11:58 am

Re: is it worth it
 
No its rubbish here . . . anyone who says otherwise must have enormously low expectations . . .


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