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chris955 Aug 14th 2011 11:35 pm

Re: What do teens get up to in oz?
 
Reading this post I am thinking you probably have the same reaction as me when you read some of the posts on this forum :D
I would never compare teens from inner city London or Birmingham to teens from a nice area in Brisbane or wherever BUT I honestly think that given my experience of our friends teens in the UK they really are no different to here. This 1% of teens cannot be allowed to contaminate the way we look at the 99% of good teens and that applies to both countries.


Originally Posted by aries_bird (Post 9560379)
I have teenagers in the UK.

They are polite and respectful and do not (nor have they ever) hung around the streets, parks or shopping centres. Their friends are the same.

My son and all his friends (without exception) have part time jobs whilst at college or full time apprenticeships in carpentry, fabrication and mechanics. Those working part time are employed doing all sorts of low paid roles from retail assistant to pub kitchen work to behind the counter in a fish and chip shop. But they all appreciate that this is what they have to do to fund their social lives and buy nice clothes.

Most of them play in football or rugby teams on a weekend and train during the week, they camp, they go to festivals, they kick a ball around the park after college or go to the gym.

My son is not perfect, he likes to lie in bed until lunch time on his days off, he has a beer or two at a party, he leaves his dirty underwear on his bedroom floor and he doesn't do anything in the house unless I withdraw taxi & laundry services.

Is he an exceptional teenager and a rare creature in the UK? not in my experience.

Do I live in a wealthy area? no.

Do I live in an inner city? no.

Do I live in a very ordinary northern town? yes I do.


chris955 Aug 14th 2011 11:37 pm

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I agree that is an eye opener but really should anyone honestly be surprised ? These people come from poor underprivileged areas with high youth unemployment and for whatever reason seem to idolise gang culture from the US almost as if it is something to aspire to.


Originally Posted by HelenTD (Post 9560388)
This article was a bit of an eye-opener for me http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/law...-1226005376854.


HelenTD Aug 14th 2011 11:42 pm

Re: What do teens get up to in oz?
 

Originally Posted by chris955 (Post 9560406)
I agree that is an eye opener but really should anyone honestly be surprised ? These people come from poor underprivileged areas with high youth unemployment and for whatever reason seem to idolise gang culture from the US almost as if it is something to aspire to.

If I lived in Sydney or other cities with these postcode gangs, I would be more aware of it. Here in Perth, you're more likely to hear about the bikie gangs, and occasionally Somalian, Sudanese or Maori gangs. Haven't heard the term "postcode gangs" before.

chris955 Aug 15th 2011 10:46 am

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The term is another media thing, they need a label for everything.

ozzieeagle Aug 15th 2011 4:19 pm

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I dont doubt that there are plenty of gangs around the place, Plenty of them would be Ethnic based.

There is one very major difference though... The Inner City problems of the UK are displaced to the Outer subs here in Australia.

The only place I personally have ever struck gang culture in Aus in on the Trains. I wont let my kids travel on Melbourne trains at night time... We do have a real problem with yoof on trains here. On my last trip of 6 weeks back to the UK, I would have encountered problem areas at least a dozen times.... mostly around corner shops and small shopping strips.

May as well repeat what happened in Chester.... First time visit to that lovely town. get to the center to be confronted with around 12 youths riding bikes in the tourist precinct and swearing their heads of and rushing and riding full bore at tourists and calling out cuuuuuuunnnntttt and that freaked erm... I worked out who the ring leader was... not the loudest, I honestly considered knocking the baarstaard of his bike. It really spoilt the day and left a taint on my last trip that I never want to repeat... they kept this behaviour up for at least 20 mins. Oh well at least CCTV has erm covered. Wondered what they did with the footage and whether they followed it through. No cops in sight..

I never want to come that close to getting involved again, If it means staying away from the UK then so be it. I think the only reason I never lashed out was because I was with my 80 yo plus father. If I had of been with my own family I may have. I would have been seen as the perpetrator as well.

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I've also never had to streetwise my way through as many shops as I did on my last trip to the UK.... I actually turned around from the local shops in Crawley at 9pm at night. That was within easy walking distance of my Cousins supposedly upmarket house near Crawley Football ground.@ Broadfield...

sssss Sep 6th 2011 8:09 am

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Gosh i have caused quite debate!

I will ignore the negative commments.

They are teenagers, the get the same hormones as UK teens, you get teenagers from hell just the same as any other country. Why would it be any other way
My 17 year old is grade 12, life on 17th birthday went from skateboard, pushbike ( when its not too boiling ) to the car. The car is a worry. Teen hoons kill themself here all the time, its a culture, 2 car loads in area where sons school is in last 3 years.


This post is exactly what i was getting at! Culture! It is not the culture in the uk to have hoon or boy racers/ Yes we do have them but it appears not as much as oz. The uk seems to have a gang culture for teens, hoodies etc and that was the purpose of the post. Yes of course both sides have crime i am not that daft to think they dont, its just so many people say as chris said thank goodness i moved to oz because of the uk kids etc that it makes you believe it must be so much safer there. And yes as a mother i do want to bring my kids up somewhere safer so this is not a silly reason to move?!

Grayling Sep 6th 2011 11:44 am

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Originally Posted by sssss (Post 9604112)
I will ignore the negative commments.

So why ask for opinions in the first place:confused:

Ignoring the negatives will not make them go away

Dreamy Sep 6th 2011 1:41 pm

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Originally Posted by sssss (Post 9604112)
It is not the culture in the uk to have hoon or boy racers/ Yes we do have them but it appears not as much as oz.

I saw as many boy racer cars wrapped around lamp posts (or the tributes) in the UK as I have done in Australia. It might not be called hooning there - but the actions are the same.

xzibit Sep 6th 2011 4:51 pm

Re: What do teens get up to in oz?
 
Personally I think ozzie teenagers in general are likely to die in their V8 shed-mobiles, have no dress sense, and need a hair cut. And the way the girls talk is annoying. :D

But that's just the Australian culture - annoying.

sssss Sep 6th 2011 8:30 pm

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Originally Posted by Grayling (Post 9604450)
So why ask for opinions in the first place:confused:

Ignoring the negatives will not make them go away


I mean the comments about me personally not the feedback. God this site, you have to justify everything, everyone is so touchy and defensive lol

moneypenny20 Sep 6th 2011 10:46 pm

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Originally Posted by sssss (Post 9604995)
I mean the comments about me personally not the feedback. God this site, you have to justify everything, everyone is so touchy and defensive lol

I've struggled to find negative comments towards you personally, one or two wondering if the move is right and one querying another post you'd made. Not negative. Not unless you're touchy and defensive of course. ;)

sssss Sep 6th 2011 11:38 pm

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Originally Posted by DeadVim (Post 9556260)
Harsh but true.

...

I'd say the OP needed therapy before anything else.

sssss Sep 6th 2011 11:39 pm

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Originally Posted by moneypenny20 (Post 9605240)
I've struggled to find negative comments towards you personally, one or two wondering if the move is right and one querying another post you'd made. Not negative. Not unless you're touchy and defensive of course. ;)

Hilarious!

moneypenny20 Sep 6th 2011 11:43 pm

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Originally Posted by sssss (Post 9605319)

Originally Posted by DeadVim (Post 9556260)
Harsh but true.

I'd say the OP needed therapy before anything else.

Or stop reading the Daily Mail. ;)

Originally Posted by sssss (Post 9605320)
Hilarious!

If you say so. :unsure: I was just going along with your 'lol'

tawkins1 Sep 8th 2011 2:49 pm

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The teens don't bother me it the ferrel little ones that ya have to worry about! :eek:

sel Sep 8th 2011 3:18 pm

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Originally Posted by sssss (Post 9604112)
This post is exactly what i was getting at! Culture! It is not the culture in the uk to have hoon or boy racers/ Yes we do have them but it appears not as much as oz.

Probably cos the teens here are to stoned to give a crap ;)

peterb4 Sep 9th 2011 10:06 pm

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Originally Posted by chris955 (Post 9555793)
What I have found is that Brits almost want to believe that they have it bad and that things somewhere else are just better.
When I stayed in the UK recently with friends their house was more or less opposite a secondary school, coincidently the very place I finished by schooling. I would often be heading back at end of school day and the kids would be streaming out onto the street, they looked neat and clean and would just walk down the street in little groups chatting and doing what kids do. I didn't see any hoodies or witness any bad behaviour.
To the OP I don't know who has been telling you kids are different here but I have yet to witness it.

I haven't seen any strong indication at all that kids are better in Australia. I've seen some very bad behaviour (including criminal behaviour) from teenagers/young adults in Australia and heard some pretty poor things come out of their mouths on trains etc.

As someone said earlier, it is a case of 'same shit, different bucket'. I find that this is true of *most* things when comparing UK and Australia - same shit, different bucket.

If you ever look at stats online you'll find things like crime and youth crime per capita (this is a vital element because it takes differences in population size into account) are virtually identical - in many cases you'll find Australia often actually comes HIGHER in crime lists. Do some reading online - there's been some HORRIFIC crimes committed in Australia over the years but one of the curious things about Australia is that people *seem* to be inclined towards turning a blind eye/ignoring a lot of these things which is the exact opposite of what happens in Britain where everyone takes TOO MUCH notice of the shit that goes on. Aussies have their famous ''she'll be right'' attitude which I feel gets used too much and allows them to think things are okay when they are not.

Nations develop patterns/habits of thought. It doesn't necessarily represent reality. Australia is VERY biased towards a positive appraisal of itself, whereas Britain is VERY biased towards a negative appraisal of itself. It's just how it goes.

The bottom line is that there are shitty areas of the UK and there are shitty areas of Australia. There are areas in both countries that you would not want to live. Just because there is more sun in Australia does not mean there is less crime and unpleasantness.

Cheers!

Pete

chris955 Sep 9th 2011 10:48 pm

Re: What do teens get up to in oz?
 
Well I find myself agreeing with absolutely every part of your post, mostly because it is spot on :D
Amazingly I get accused of being anti Australian because I tell people that virtually every aspect of day to day life is the same here as it is in the UK.
I have read that the average person has more family time here, people are healthier here, kids are happier and more polite here and even that they don't grow up so fast here.
I realise that many are happy just to blindly accept these 'facts' but I prefer to try and balance things, for that I am apparently a hater :rofl:
I also realise that many migrants will want to think all these things are true and will ignore bad news to a degree, that is understandable but naive.
Anyway, thanks again.


Originally Posted by peterb4 (Post 9611845)
I haven't seen any strong indication at all that kids are better in Australia. I've seen some very bad behaviour (including criminal behaviour) from teenagers/young adults in Australia and heard some pretty poor things come out of their mouths on trains etc.

As someone said earlier, it is a case of 'same shit, different bucket'. I find that this is true of *most* things when comparing UK and Australia - same shit, different bucket.

If you ever look at stats online you'll find things like crime and youth crime per capita (this is a vital element because it takes differences in population size into account) are virtually identical - in many cases you'll find Australia often actually comes HIGHER in crime lists. Do some reading online - there's been some HORRIFIC crimes committed in Australia over the years but one of the curious things about Australia is that people *seem* to be inclined towards turning a blind eye/ignoring a lot of these things which is the exact opposite of what happens in Britain where everyone takes TOO MUCH notice of the shit that goes on. Aussies have their famous ''she'll be right'' attitude which I feel gets used too much and allows them to think things are okay when they are not.

Nations develop patterns/habits of thought. It doesn't necessarily represent reality. Australia is VERY biased towards a positive appraisal of itself, whereas Britain is VERY biased towards a negative appraisal of itself. It's just how it goes.

The bottom line is that there are shitty areas of the UK and there are shitty areas of Australia. There are areas in both countries that you would not want to live. Just because there is more sun in Australia does not mean there is less crime and unpleasantness.

Cheers!

Pete


aussietobe Sep 10th 2011 12:27 am

Re: What do teens get up to in oz?
 

Originally Posted by sssss (Post 9555451)
Is it true they are more sporty so dont really hang around the streets like in the uk or is that a myth...

Are they more pleasant or are you still wary of them on public transport etc...

Knife/gun crime, whats that like in oz?


Oh and is it true that as Australia is so big that people use planes like we would use the train so example as teen when they grow up would think nothing of hopping on a plane for a weekend partying in sydney when they live in adelaide? (i know that may sound odd but wondered if with adelaide being great for kids that when they get older most go to other destinations)

Thanks

I havent read the other posts on this thread but I have taught high school in both countries. My perception is there is a hardness in UK kids that isn't as prevalent in Australian kids, who tend to be quite easy going. I can't imagine the riots of London happening in Australia. The UK riots were caused by decades of welfare plus family breakdown plus cultural issues - Australia has been much tougher in dealing with those issues (work for the dole programs plus strict immigration policies etc)
In the high school I teach in Perth it is the english kids that are the most difficult to deal with on the whole. You get horrible Aussie kids too.

chris955 Sep 10th 2011 9:57 am

Re: What do teens get up to in oz?
 
I guess as with everything it very much depends on where you are in both countries.

milly123 Sep 10th 2011 10:54 am

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Having lived in Adelaide
Like most speaking from experience ... it’s like for like , it’s all dependent on the friends they meet and on how there guidelines are set out from home , Australian children don’t seem to grow up as fast , my 16yrs old is more like a British 14yr old, however Australia does seem to have the mentality put in to their youth of perfection and not always in the ways that count , ie sport , body ,eating habits, finding yourself in the outback :ohmy:, once again it comes down to your beliefs.
Having also lived in south Africa where there is a question of safety and crime etc , there is no reason for concern in either the uk or Australia all we can do is our best.
My teanager was at a party last night , ( most likely with alcohol ) then stayed at her friends house with 12 other girls in a tent.

In the uk , she would have likely done the same thing, allthough my eldest in the uk had hit the night clubs by 16, but she has grown up just fine.

Shame sh....... shiner bucket some days.

peterb4 Sep 10th 2011 11:17 am

Re: What do teens get up to in oz?
 

Originally Posted by aussietobe (Post 9612024)
I havent read the other posts on this thread but I have taught high school in both countries. My perception is there is a hardness in UK kids that isn't as prevalent in Australian kids, who tend to be quite easy going. I can't imagine the riots of London happening in Australia. The UK riots were caused by decades of welfare plus family breakdown plus cultural issues - Australia has been much tougher in dealing with those issues (work for the dole programs plus strict immigration policies etc)
In the high school I teach in Perth it is the english kids that are the most difficult to deal with on the whole. You get horrible Aussie kids too.

I don't necessarily intend to argue but I have also been a teacher (before I abandoned it!) in the UK and Australia and I was struck by how similar the kids are. The kids in London were definitely tougher but out of London they were no different, in my experience, to Aussie kids.

I don't think you can claim that the riots that occurred in the UK would not happen in Australia and I don't think you can link them strictly to teenagers either. Lots of people were involved in the riots in some way or another - and they were not all impoverished, tough teenagers. That's a nonsense.

And you seem to have completely forgotten the 2005 Cronulla Riots. That DID happen in Australia so I don't agree with your confident statement that things like that could never happen in Australia.

I also don't entirely agree with the ''British kids grow up quicker'' thinking. The Aussie kids are like American kids to my eyes - they are positively HUGE compared to not just British but European kids in general - something in the food or the water or perhaps more sun, I don't know. Physically they are much more mature looking at a younger age and that has got to have an impact on how they see themselves mentally too.

Cheers!

Pete


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