The urge to return home is growing stronger
#91
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Re: The urge to return home is growing stronger
I'm with Polly (figuratively speaking),
If it were just me - I'd do it, be back in England and enjoying all those things that I think I miss and no doubt being frustrated and missing things that I currently take for granted.
But its NOT just me is it - it never is. Can I seriously introduce that level of uncertainty to my kids lives when they are settled and involved members of a community, they have good schools, lots of friends, the best piano teacher I've ever come across...
Can I uproot an 11 yr old dog who's only ever lived in 1 house in subtropical Brisbane and make her live in a compeltely different world?
Can I rip my wife away from her family (much as they frustrate and annoy her - I'm sure 12,000kms would take their toll and HER family would never visit)...
Logistics.... Its all too hard - so I'll no doubt continue living life in Brisbane, wondering if it would be better in UK but not doing anything about it. Holidays in UK are always good and probably all the better for not having to live there!
If it were just me - I'd do it, be back in England and enjoying all those things that I think I miss and no doubt being frustrated and missing things that I currently take for granted.
But its NOT just me is it - it never is. Can I seriously introduce that level of uncertainty to my kids lives when they are settled and involved members of a community, they have good schools, lots of friends, the best piano teacher I've ever come across...
Can I uproot an 11 yr old dog who's only ever lived in 1 house in subtropical Brisbane and make her live in a compeltely different world?
Can I rip my wife away from her family (much as they frustrate and annoy her - I'm sure 12,000kms would take their toll and HER family would never visit)...
Logistics.... Its all too hard - so I'll no doubt continue living life in Brisbane, wondering if it would be better in UK but not doing anything about it. Holidays in UK are always good and probably all the better for not having to live there!
#92
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Re: The urge to return home is growing stronger
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#93
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Re: The urge to return home is growing stronger
Agree - moved from UK to Oz recently for the greater career opportunities. Unless anything has changed in the past 6 months 2007 - 2010 were dead in the UK.
#94
Re: The urge to return home is growing stronger
Agreed. My career opportunities in engineering are much better in Perth than in the UK, have been for a few years now and I don't see this changing any time soon
#95
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Re: The urge to return home is growing stronger
Not a hope in hell. London is virtually untouched by the state of the economy and it's only outside of London that the effects become noticeable.
#96
Re: The urge to return home is growing stronger
Sure, for a lot of non-job people it's like that. In engineering/construction/projects it's not so rosy.
#97
Re: The urge to return home is growing stronger
She came back here, she had a job within 2 weeks, at an International PR company and her wage jumped by around 7,000 pounds... she is now on 60,000K and has one day leave for University per week.
She is actually being headhunted by a major Advertising Agency at present... Not sure whether she is going to take up the offer or not.
Last edited by ozzieeagle; Jun 7th 2011 at 7:49 am.
#98
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Re: The urge to return home is growing stronger
Talking about corporate roles. Banking and finance for example is more profitable than ever. Not quite sure what you mean by non-job people.
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Re: The urge to return home is growing stronger
My Daughter had real trouble progressing in London because highly qualified people were going for lesser jobs at her level. Every person going for Office Manager type roles had completed 5 years of University or so it seemed, as jobs for their traditional roles... whatever that may have been had dried up.
She came back here, she had a job within 2 weeks, at an International PR company and her wage jumped by around 7,000 pounds... she is now on 60,000K and has one day leave for University per week.
She is actually being headhunted by a major Advertising Agency at present... Not sure whether she is going to take up the offer or not.
She came back here, she had a job within 2 weeks, at an International PR company and her wage jumped by around 7,000 pounds... she is now on 60,000K and has one day leave for University per week.
She is actually being headhunted by a major Advertising Agency at present... Not sure whether she is going to take up the offer or not.
Last edited by Deancm_MKII; Jun 7th 2011 at 9:46 am.
#100
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Re: The urge to return home is growing stronger
Live in a place that will make you happy, with the people that make you happy and that are important in your life. Doesnt matter where it may be, only you can decide where it is.
Good luck with whatever you decide to go with, life is too short to not be fulfilled and sometimes all the money in the world will not do that for you. Go where the pull is.
Good luck with whatever you decide to go with, life is too short to not be fulfilled and sometimes all the money in the world will not do that for you. Go where the pull is.
#102
Re: The urge to return home is growing stronger
Brits working some of the longest hours in a Westernised country??:rofl :
Have fn in Canada mate? A country where you are regarded as a second class citizen if you haven't been to a top university and worked at this company. Low wages, high costs, 2 weeks annual leave..yeah no thanks.
In all seriousness I'm glad I don't live in Canada it's completely backwards even compared to Australian and soo far left it's dangerous.
For the OP. Why not go home and try it but try not to burn bridges in Perth in case you need to restart you business.
Have fn in Canada mate? A country where you are regarded as a second class citizen if you haven't been to a top university and worked at this company. Low wages, high costs, 2 weeks annual leave..yeah no thanks.
In all seriousness I'm glad I don't live in Canada it's completely backwards even compared to Australian and soo far left it's dangerous.
For the OP. Why not go home and try it but try not to burn bridges in Perth in case you need to restart you business.
And sorry to say, but Canada is neither "backward" or so far left it's dangerous. Since 2006 the prime minister has been Stephen Harper, who was known for being ultra right wing when he was an MP and leader of the Reform Party in Alberta.
Try learning a little bit about the places and things you trash before you go spouting your crap. You only show how truly uneducated you are when you post garbage you know nothing about.
#103
Re: The urge to return home is growing stronger
I live in Norfolk at the moment (on and off for 25 years) and think it's a lovely county. We are in Norwich and I love the fact that I can walk 10 minutes one way and I'm in the city and 15 minutes the other way and I'm in woodland, very nearly the countryside.
In some ways it's like Perth (we've lived there too) - it's isolated from the rest of the country in that it's not somewhere you pass through, it's usually the destination. It has a slower pace of life than other places I've lived too.
I think the education is pretty good. My lot are at an independent school, but most of my friends use the state schools and their children have done/are doing well at them. We have the largest state boarding school in the country which has a fabulous reputation and kids seem to do very well from there too.
Norfolk is one of the driest places in the UK and currently we are having a very dry spell! We've hardly had any rain since the beginning of the year and have had a beautiful sunny, warm spring. It doesn't always happen, but it's lovely when it does!
House prices have fallen since the start of the financial troubles which could mean you get something really nice mortgage free.
I would say though that the job market here isn't great at the moment, depending on what you do. Many of my friends now have to commute to work, to Cambridge, London, Manchester and one to Cardiff. They work in different areas - journalists, TV producer, solicitors, financial/insurance industries. It's not easy - they can't move because they have children in school and don't want to disrupt their education especially as the jobs they're doing aren't all that 'safe'.
That said, builders, plumbers, elecricians etc are all saying they can't keep up with the workload they have, so it's not all bad.
Good luck with your decision. FWIW, if you do decide to come back to the UK, I think Norfolk/Suffolk are lovely options.
In some ways it's like Perth (we've lived there too) - it's isolated from the rest of the country in that it's not somewhere you pass through, it's usually the destination. It has a slower pace of life than other places I've lived too.
I think the education is pretty good. My lot are at an independent school, but most of my friends use the state schools and their children have done/are doing well at them. We have the largest state boarding school in the country which has a fabulous reputation and kids seem to do very well from there too.
Norfolk is one of the driest places in the UK and currently we are having a very dry spell! We've hardly had any rain since the beginning of the year and have had a beautiful sunny, warm spring. It doesn't always happen, but it's lovely when it does!
House prices have fallen since the start of the financial troubles which could mean you get something really nice mortgage free.
I would say though that the job market here isn't great at the moment, depending on what you do. Many of my friends now have to commute to work, to Cambridge, London, Manchester and one to Cardiff. They work in different areas - journalists, TV producer, solicitors, financial/insurance industries. It's not easy - they can't move because they have children in school and don't want to disrupt their education especially as the jobs they're doing aren't all that 'safe'.
That said, builders, plumbers, elecricians etc are all saying they can't keep up with the workload they have, so it's not all bad.
Good luck with your decision. FWIW, if you do decide to come back to the UK, I think Norfolk/Suffolk are lovely options.
#104
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Re: The urge to return home is growing stronger
Well I hate to differ because 5 years in Sydney clearly means I don't know what I'm talking about but I do 7 hours per day now in London with at least 1 afternoon drinking per week and I get far more holidays than I did in Sydney also I can buy a house in London quite easily. But then I suppose you've read a couple of web sites so you know best.
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