So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
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So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Well yesterday was the day we were aiming to leave the country and jet off to Brisbane. But.......
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Originally Posted by charlie63
Well yesterday was the day we were aiming to leave the country and jet off to Brisbane. But.......
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
you've come this far and I'm sure not without hiccups! This is the final leg before you leave.....hold out Having had all the tears, and emotion, the only thing you want to do is hop on the plane, and I feel for you.
Even though it doesn't help your situation at all, I'll send some karma. Do let us know when you are off to the airport!
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Originally Posted by charlie63
Well yesterday was the day we were aiming to leave the country and jet off to Brisbane. But.......
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
massive karma
jacs x
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Originally Posted by charlie63
Well yesterday was the day we were aiming to leave the country and jet off to Brisbane. But.......
I'll send some Karma your way.
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Originally Posted by charlie63
Well yesterday was the day we were aiming to leave the country and jet off to Brisbane. But.......
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
What an awful position to be in - so bloody frustrating (just read Fraser's post horrible state of plan too)
Of course you are feeling pissed off, so were we when back in the UK and not having hardly any viewers and NO offers! All being well it will come together for you very soon - this should be the last hurdle before getting on that plane
The grinding wheel only goes as fast as these 'people' you are relying on want to move, they are not worried about the position you are in or what effect it has on your lives - they only usually work to their own drum!!!
The emotions you are going thru at the moment are massive - but as someone else has just said - once you are on that flight you will have your dream at your fingertips - all will fall into place and there will be no looking back - just forward to a life you so desire - just keep thinking of that and try to relax inbetween - deep breaths - chill out - cyber hugs to you all
All the best
Gillx
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Hi I will send you some karma. We had a torrid time selling our house too. The buyers insisted on us having minor reapirs done to the house, ie repointing work and replastering. It was a nightmare getting the builders to do the work. All very stressfull. I really hope things come good for you soon.
Katie
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Originally Posted by charlie63
Well yesterday was the day we were aiming to leave the country and jet off to Brisbane. But.......
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
Just wanted to send you a big cyber hug, I can fully sympathize with you.
Got a lot happening here and doubts are kicking in. Having a down time too but hey chin up one day it will all happen!!!
Chris
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Originally Posted by charlie63
Well yesterday was the day we were aiming to leave the country and jet off to Brisbane. But.......
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Thank you all so much feeling all warm and cuddled now thanks to your encouragement.
An update today they finally found that 'missing search'!!
So We will keep on going and try and catch some sleep before we can get on that plane.
Thanks again
Charlie
An update today they finally found that 'missing search'!!
So We will keep on going and try and catch some sleep before we can get on that plane.
Thanks again
Charlie
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Originally Posted by charlie63
Thank you all so much feeling all warm and cuddled now thanks to your encouragement.
An update today they finally found that 'missing search'!!
So We will keep on going and try and catch some sleep before we can get on that plane.
Thanks again
Charlie
An update today they finally found that 'missing search'!!
So We will keep on going and try and catch some sleep before we can get on that plane.
Thanks again
Charlie
Thank GOD!!!!
im almost tempted to put our house on the market now!!! it all sounds bloody awful from what i can gather!!
Charlie can i ask you please where you had your meds done?? cheers jac x
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Originally Posted by charlie63
Well yesterday was the day we were aiming to leave the country and jet off to Brisbane. But.......
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
sorry wont let me give karma have a cyber hug instead.
Last edited by possoms; Jun 23rd 2005 at 3:29 pm. Reason: wont let me give karma :(
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Dear Charlie
We are in the exact situation as you. We accepted an offer on our house and shop the beginning of April. We dropped £30k for a completion of 6-8 weeks and still no completion as at today. We were going to have a month with our parents before we left for Perth and fly out the end of June but now it looks like it might just be a couple of weeks and fly out end of July as long as the sale goes through. I know exactly how you feel but think in a month or two the weather in Oz will be that much warmer and we will have had the benefit of the warm weather here - well thats how I'm looking at it.
Regards
Theresa
We are in the exact situation as you. We accepted an offer on our house and shop the beginning of April. We dropped £30k for a completion of 6-8 weeks and still no completion as at today. We were going to have a month with our parents before we left for Perth and fly out the end of June but now it looks like it might just be a couple of weeks and fly out end of July as long as the sale goes through. I know exactly how you feel but think in a month or two the weather in Oz will be that much warmer and we will have had the benefit of the warm weather here - well thats how I'm looking at it.
Regards
Theresa
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Originally Posted by charlie63
Well yesterday was the day we were aiming to leave the country and jet off to Brisbane. But.......
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
I know how frustrated you feel, we too are waiting to exchange. It should have been done over 2 weeks ago. Firstly the buyers IFA didn't send off their mortgage application for 3 weeks, then he has been off work for last 2 (death in family) weeks. I know this couldn't be helped but no one in the company picked up any of his messages, he is now back and chasing mortgage offer. All this after almost 12 months on the market. I should have cracked up by now. Hopefully the light will be shining brighter soon as I'm sure yours will be. You have waited this long, so what's another few weeks. Not easy I know, but you will get there. Be strong, a huge cyber hug is on its way to you.
Sarah
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Originally Posted by charlie63
Well yesterday was the day we were aiming to leave the country and jet off to Brisbane. But.......
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
sending you a hug, but i havent been there im afraid!!
just out of curiosity, cant you give someone power of attorney to sign the house stuff for you? it costs about 50 quid from a solicitor and can be sorted in a couple of days.....
good luck....hope it all works out for you ASAP!
sue
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Re: So so so fedup!!!! can't see the light
Originally Posted by charlie63
Well yesterday was the day we were aiming to leave the country and jet off to Brisbane. But.......
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
So far 9th June exchange contracts on house? NO
Complete sale 16th? NO
today we are still awaiting the mortgage offer from the buyers, who we were informed were first time buyers! NO second mortgage!!!
And some private search company have managed to loose the last local council search - which they sent electronically on the 17th!!!!!
Now feeling so pissed off, our 2 daughters (18 - 20 ) are being so good about the wait but it is so hard as we have said the farewells, had all the tears from friends and family and then yesterday even got the have a good flight texts!!!
I just can not see the end although I am sure it must be there.
Sorry to go on but need a group hug from those who may have been here!
Charlie
Claire
xx