Partner Wants to go back to the UK
Feb 26th 2012, 5:11 am
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Re: Partner Wants to go back to the UK
I had the same choice but in the UK.A wife that would come to wherever I was working in holland and germany,stay for a week,and then cry to go home,she couldn't live without her mum.
I loved Germany and it was her idea to move to OZ as she had an uncle here,it would make the move easier.
Comes the day to have final interviews and of course she wasn't going to leave her mum,she wasn't going to OZ.She wasn't going up to Edinburgh (Oz house then) to even see what they had to offer.
33 yrs ago this month iI walked out of my marriage and left a daughter and a wife,on a gut feeling it would never work,and a gut feeling there was no future for shipbuilding in the north east.
There is not a day that has passed when iI have ever doubted that I made the right choice.I would do exactly the same thing all over again.
This course of action would not be for everyone,however life is governed by the choices people make
Good luck to the other poster in the choices that have to be made.
geordie downunder
Feb 26th 2012, 5:40 am
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Re: Partner Wants to go back to the UK
I wouldn't certainly never leave my wife let alone a child just to live somewhere else and wife has show she shares the same feelings. Your marriage couldn't be very strong to do that sort of thing. Personally my life would be pretty empty having a young child just left on the other side of the world but we are all different.
Feb 26th 2012, 5:50 am
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Re: Partner Wants to go back to the UK
I have left my daughter back in the UK which has been hard. Our son who we have together is started to enjoy school and make friends. Which he finds difficult due to the fact that he has been diagnosed with ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder) so it has been a big leap for him to come here.
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