Pants

hello hun

Thanks, I know tell me about it...I hope so too, daft but I am more scared this time round, think it's cos I know the size of that spinal block needle..!!! arghhhhhh

RooksieJ

we got 4 and a bit years left to decide mate so like you say, no great rush.

i am being induced because i got a split pelvis - NICE!!!

hubbie has said no fekkin way is he being butchered so i guess its up to me :scared:

Pants

well I reckon you have time to really sit and think about it hun, why do you want to stay and why does he want to go?

ekkkk you poor babe...!!!!

Butchered my bottom......!! (polite lingo this tuesday)..big girls blouse...!!

RooksieJ

im going to write a list mate cos im buggered if i know tbh!!! ill get back to you on that one!!!

iPom

I like the 'Money's not everything, but happiness is' argument... but then at the end of the day, you need a little money because none is the cause of great unhappiness.


Why do you think people ping pong then? Because if a person's not happy in one country and not happy in the other, then the real issue, maybe (just throwing this on in there...) is that the problem is within rather than where that person is in the world.... Maybe?

Just hypothesising.

Pants

swings and roundabouts hun....thats what my list was full of when we got back.

I was down your way back in Aug....cockington village, babbacombe model village etc, we were staying with rellies in Livermead...!! Nice area..!!

iPom

Don't focus on the needle sweetie, focus on that delicious warmth spreading through your limbs when it kicks in, and the arrival of your beautiful baby. Oh I'm so excited for you now! <grins manically>
Take lots of pics (well, get your other half to!)

iPom

Ouch, you poor lass! Everything crossed for you.

Butchered? Tell him he can come and see me for the vodka and bricks method (and he'll be lucky if he gets the vodka) or he can be a nice bloke and go and have a morning's discomfort.

Pants

I will hun, I mean enjoy the arrival of bubs..hubby has already got his "new camera -----for the baby of course"....that was his excuse bless him...!!!

Pants

Why do you think people ping pong then? Because if a person's not happy in one country and not happy in the other, then the real issue, maybe (just throwing this on in there...) is that the problem is within rather than where that person is in the world.... Maybe?

Just hypothesising. [/QUOTE]

Just remember hunny you are chatting to 2 hormonal pregnant women....lol... :scared:

For me I never wanted to get away from the UK for any particular reason. I think as I married an Aussie and he wanted to live back in his country and give us the "better" life, I was happy to give all that a go. I seriously never thought we would move back to the UK.

I loved many things about Oz and still do. When we came back and started living UK life I couldn't help but compare and miss those things that I held dear to my heart in Oz, but as time has passed I have learnt to like certain things about being back here in the UK. I am putting this the simplest way I can....!!I have to consider all my family....with that I mean my little girl and the future of my baby. If I had to come back to a pooh area I am sure I would have been back on a plane quicker than most.

I know one family who came back, in fact the wife was desperate to get back here and within 6months they were back in Oz. She needed to come home and see for herself yet again what she had and what she wanted.!! All that she thought she had missed wasn't that important after all.
Now she is happy as larry back in Oz...and most importantly her kids have a better quality" of life and are able to still be children" alot longer than if they were here. ( her feelings!!)

Who knows eh...all I know is that you have to be happy inside, give things a chance and enjoy lifes adventures.!! and have a few vino's along the way..!!

Right I am of to do boring ironing...keep happy chicks...

RooksieJ

Awwww shucks - we are a ten minute walk from babbacombe model village!!! and cockington is great isnt it. oh bugger i dont know!!!

Pants

Yes it was lovely....like stepping back in time. We only had 4 days not long enough really..!! still we will get down that way again.

Stop fretting hun....relaxxxxxx.......

amanda34

I would love to know, out of curiosity....it seems like its nearly always women moving because of husbands job.

Is equality really not even close to being here? Are there guys actually moving due to their wives jobs?

Really curious to know what the ratio would be as I think its a pretty good indication about where equality really is.

iPom

I made mine move here... nothing to do with his job.. just sense took me and then him over. I fully expect to be making more money than him in 5 years time and if I'm not, I want to know why.

Regarding equality, that's a tricky one... Until it's normal for blokes to be at home and caring for the children like most women, then equality will never be as we really want it...

amanda34

Yeh, my opinion on that would get most women miffed, so will keep it shut

Women have to be prepared to ask for equality and actually allow it is where I will leave it. Yes though, it is in the home as much as the workplace.

I know I would want a guy who would raise kids whilst I worked.....but then thats why I am 34 and still bloody single