Not welcome / Not belonging feeling
#76
Re: Not welcome / Not belonging feeling
Oh I know some people love it, My family live over in Perth (I grew up there) and they are happy, but I personally hate the place, and know a lot of other people do too.
Each to their own, I just don’t like when someone get’s angry because I say I don’t like the place and that it’s much worse here, because for me it is.
Mikey
Each to their own, I just don’t like when someone get’s angry because I say I don’t like the place and that it’s much worse here, because for me it is.
Mikey
#77
Re: Not welcome / Not belonging feeling
I moved to Sydney 4 years ago because Perth wasn’t for me and I didn’t want to give up on Australia. It was great and loved it, wages good and cost of living low. I then moved to Ireland in 2006 with my Partner, and it was great also.
My Partner works for the Australia government, and was only on leave while living in Ireland, so end of last year had to come back, so we worked it out and agreed on it (I mean we had a good life in Sydney before, so there was no real reason not to come back).
Come back and realise what mistake we made, the wages are the same but cost of living shot up, I work in the Banking industry, which all my experience is in, so naturally I went for a job in that. Which pays a lot less than the banking industry in Ireland does, so hence, have to work longer hours just to have enough.
Property is more expensive in most places in Australia now, in 2006 it was easy to live in Sydney, now only 2 years later it’s much harder, I choose to live in Sydney because it’s the closet thing Australia has to an international city, there are more jobs with better wages compared to the rest of Oz, and I personally like the city.
I know rent goes up, but here it’s just ridiculous, let me show you how ridiculous it is, in 2006 my rent was $350 a week, that was for a 2 bed 3 bath penthouse apartment, 5 min from the CBD, with all the usual, Pool, Gym etc etc. My rent now is $450 a week for a studio. That for me is too much of a jump in just 2 years, also considering the wage has hardly gone up.
For me, life was easier in Europe, much easier.
Mikey
My Partner works for the Australia government, and was only on leave while living in Ireland, so end of last year had to come back, so we worked it out and agreed on it (I mean we had a good life in Sydney before, so there was no real reason not to come back).
Come back and realise what mistake we made, the wages are the same but cost of living shot up, I work in the Banking industry, which all my experience is in, so naturally I went for a job in that. Which pays a lot less than the banking industry in Ireland does, so hence, have to work longer hours just to have enough.
Property is more expensive in most places in Australia now, in 2006 it was easy to live in Sydney, now only 2 years later it’s much harder, I choose to live in Sydney because it’s the closet thing Australia has to an international city, there are more jobs with better wages compared to the rest of Oz, and I personally like the city.
I know rent goes up, but here it’s just ridiculous, let me show you how ridiculous it is, in 2006 my rent was $350 a week, that was for a 2 bed 3 bath penthouse apartment, 5 min from the CBD, with all the usual, Pool, Gym etc etc. My rent now is $450 a week for a studio. That for me is too much of a jump in just 2 years, also considering the wage has hardly gone up.
For me, life was easier in Europe, much easier.
Mikey
#78
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Re: Not welcome / Not belonging feeling
I would be.
House prices here are horrendous and , as you know, the Peak district was hardly cheap.
I went for a drink in my local yesterday and it cost $6.50 for a 375 ml. glass ....that works out to around $10 a pint (£5 in sterling).....just one little example.
G
Last edited by Grayling; Jun 12th 2008 at 2:34 am.
#79
Re: Not welcome / Not belonging feeling
we are much better off only because of the money we brought from the house sale and choosing to live in a cheaper area but I fully understand living remote isnt for everyone
#80
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mmm when you put it like that bloody hell though it was getting on for a fiver in the local back home.
we are much better off only because of the money we brought from the house sale and choosing to live in a cheaper area but I fully understand living remote isnt for everyone
we are much better off only because of the money we brought from the house sale and choosing to live in a cheaper area but I fully understand living remote isnt for everyone
It was £2.40 in my local a month ago.
I am not complaining about it.....simply pointing out the reality.
I could also buy a tremendous house in Derbyshire for what this one cost.....and it would be a damn sight warmer
G
#81
Re: Not welcome / Not belonging feeling
I can relate to that too and have found my best friends are from other countries.
#82
Re: Not welcome / Not belonging feeling
I am not getting snappy at all. I can understand that it isn't for everyone. However I do get cross when people pass off their own experiences (which can't be argued with) as that is how it is for everyone. Lots of people come over and CAN afford the things you can't. My husbands wages aren't lower here, our rent was lower here, my other bills are cheaper here and my shopping, although still higher priced than when I arrived, is still cheaper than it would be in the UK. There are plenty of folk on this board that want to go home I know that but there are twice as many who are happy and settled.
#83
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Re: Not welcome / Not belonging feeling
Not my fault the average wage is lower than Europe
Not my fault the rent is so overpriced
Not my fault the mortage prices are so unaffordable so many people are loosing their homes.
Not my fault the food is expensive and bland
Not my fault domestic and international flights are so expensive
Not my fault the government would not allow “real” broadband cable to be laid
Mikey
Not my fault the rent is so overpriced
Not my fault the mortage prices are so unaffordable so many people are loosing their homes.
Not my fault the food is expensive and bland
Not my fault domestic and international flights are so expensive
Not my fault the government would not allow “real” broadband cable to be laid
Mikey
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#84
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Re: Not welcome / Not belonging feeling
Oh don’t get me wrong Sydney is a great place, just with the cost of things now I find that I can just get buy, but not much left over at the end of the week, and when you struggle in Oz, you really struggle.
I just had a lot more disposable income living in Europe than I do here, I don’t see the point in me staying in place where every week you just get by and can’t afford to do everything you want to do.
I’ve also noticed since coming back things that I really miss that I did’nt think mattered to me, like Culture for one. The food, Ok, yes food here is nice, but compared to the range you get overseas! Or now just finding things here that irritate me so much. I’m starting to get sick of the whole attitude that “Australia is the best country in the world” It’s certainly not! You know, silly things like that, which I think will get worse over time.
It was just a wrong choice to come back, I know that now and at least I’ll never wonder, I just hope it doesn’t get to bad or I will start to hate Sydney, a city I used to love.
It’s not home here.
Mikey
I just had a lot more disposable income living in Europe than I do here, I don’t see the point in me staying in place where every week you just get by and can’t afford to do everything you want to do.
I’ve also noticed since coming back things that I really miss that I did’nt think mattered to me, like Culture for one. The food, Ok, yes food here is nice, but compared to the range you get overseas! Or now just finding things here that irritate me so much. I’m starting to get sick of the whole attitude that “Australia is the best country in the world” It’s certainly not! You know, silly things like that, which I think will get worse over time.
It was just a wrong choice to come back, I know that now and at least I’ll never wonder, I just hope it doesn’t get to bad or I will start to hate Sydney, a city I used to love.
It’s not home here.
Mikey
#85
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Re: Not welcome / Not belonging feeling
Oh don’t get me wrong Sydney is a great place, just with the cost of things now I find that I can just get buy, but not much left over at the end of the week, and when you struggle in Oz, you really struggle.
I just had a lot more disposable income living in Europe than I do here, I don’t see the point in me staying in place where every week you just get by and can’t afford to do everything you want to do.
I’ve also noticed since coming back things that I really miss that I did’nt think mattered to me, like Culture for one. The food, Ok, yes food here is nice, but compared to the range you get overseas! Or now just finding things here that irritate me so much. I’m starting to get sick of the whole attitude that “Australia is the best country in the world” It’s certainly not! You know, silly things like that, which I think will get worse over time.
It was just a wrong choice to come back, I know that now and at least I’ll never wonder, I just hope it doesn’t get to bad or I will start to hate Sydney, a city I used to love.
It’s not home here.
Mikey
I just had a lot more disposable income living in Europe than I do here, I don’t see the point in me staying in place where every week you just get by and can’t afford to do everything you want to do.
I’ve also noticed since coming back things that I really miss that I did’nt think mattered to me, like Culture for one. The food, Ok, yes food here is nice, but compared to the range you get overseas! Or now just finding things here that irritate me so much. I’m starting to get sick of the whole attitude that “Australia is the best country in the world” It’s certainly not! You know, silly things like that, which I think will get worse over time.
It was just a wrong choice to come back, I know that now and at least I’ll never wonder, I just hope it doesn’t get to bad or I will start to hate Sydney, a city I used to love.
It’s not home here.
Mikey
Have you thought about giving Melbourne a go - less of a rat race than Sydney but still plenty of opportunities.
#86
Re: Not welcome / Not belonging feeling
Hey Mikey,
Things have become a whole lot more expensive everywhere recently. It's a worldwide phenomenom.
Fuel in the UK has risen 30% in the past 12 months.(£1.31 a litre of diesel yesterday and £1.18 a litre of petrol)My shopping bill has risen by about the same amount. Wheat and cereal crop prices are at an all time high, because of poor crops for the last 3 years and increased demand. (a loaf of bread now costs around £1.29) Dairy prices went wild a year ago and a pint of milk is almost 50p now.
Stupid things that are not necessities have stayed the same (games consoles, dvd's and CD's are the same) Interest rates have risen, because of the credit crunch.
There are a plethora of members here who can not sell their house for love nor money, many people are losing 10's of 1000's of £'s and selling at knock down prices.... People are having their home reposessed, because the interest rate on the mortgage has risen beyond their means.
Redundancies are on the increase.
You choose to live in one of the most expensive cities in the world..... but don't go imagining that Ireland is the same price as when you left it, because it simply is not. Things change markets change and we should be aware that we purchase everything in a global market....
Is it worth playing 3 billy goat's gruff, imagining the grass is cheaper elsewhere. I don't think so.... If you are unhappy with your environment then move by all means, but if the source of all your disappointment is financial, don't expect to find cheaper living in Europe, it's just the same Shit in a different bucket!
Ali x
Things have become a whole lot more expensive everywhere recently. It's a worldwide phenomenom.
Fuel in the UK has risen 30% in the past 12 months.(£1.31 a litre of diesel yesterday and £1.18 a litre of petrol)My shopping bill has risen by about the same amount. Wheat and cereal crop prices are at an all time high, because of poor crops for the last 3 years and increased demand. (a loaf of bread now costs around £1.29) Dairy prices went wild a year ago and a pint of milk is almost 50p now.
Stupid things that are not necessities have stayed the same (games consoles, dvd's and CD's are the same) Interest rates have risen, because of the credit crunch.
There are a plethora of members here who can not sell their house for love nor money, many people are losing 10's of 1000's of £'s and selling at knock down prices.... People are having their home reposessed, because the interest rate on the mortgage has risen beyond their means.
Redundancies are on the increase.
You choose to live in one of the most expensive cities in the world..... but don't go imagining that Ireland is the same price as when you left it, because it simply is not. Things change markets change and we should be aware that we purchase everything in a global market....
Is it worth playing 3 billy goat's gruff, imagining the grass is cheaper elsewhere. I don't think so.... If you are unhappy with your environment then move by all means, but if the source of all your disappointment is financial, don't expect to find cheaper living in Europe, it's just the same Shit in a different bucket!
Ali x
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Re: Not welcome / Not belonging feeling
but don't go imagining that Ireland is the same price as when you left it, because it simply is not. Things change markets change and we should be aware that we purchase everything in a global market....
If you are unhappy with your environment then move by all means, but if the source of all your disappointment is financial, don't expect to find cheaper living in Europe, it's just the same Shit in a different bucket!
Ali x
Dublin is a lot more expensive than Sydney, but the wages (in my industry at least) are much better. In October when we decided to move here, we had 1 month to get things organised, in that 1 month we saved up over AUD$10,000. Just to come back, there is no way on earth we could save that in 1 month in Australia.
But it’s not just financial, I prefer Europe, it’s my home and it’s where my heart is, not Australia. Like I said, in Australia I can afford to live, but just. The difference for me is too large, this time last year I was living in Ireland flying to Paris on the weekends to buy clothes! Now it’s a struggle to go see my family in Perth $600 for a flight.
It’s just too much of a difference for me here, everything is different from home, the people, the life, the place.
Me and my partner will be moving back next year, although not Ireland, we are going to head for France as that’s the dream, we should be able to save up enough within a year to get there, I speak French and my Partner already has an opportunity to work there, we found the cost of things very cheap there, loved the place and couldn’t believe how cheap apartments where compared to Ireland and the UK.
If it fails and goes belly up then we will just head on over back to Ireland. Still young in our early 20's so have plenty of time to balls things up, plenty of mistakes to learn from also, this being one of them.
Mikey
Last edited by Mikeyc; Jun 12th 2008 at 7:03 am.
#88
Re: Not welcome / Not belonging feeling
Good Lord!!!
I couldn't afford to live in Paris! Just had a chat with a recruitment consultant in Adelaide, who informed me that my salary will be about the same as it is here.
I guess that working in banking is valued differently in Australia to Europe. You may have to take into account that Ireland is in the Euro Zone and so didn't take the same hit as the UK did when the sub prime market fell in America. Being in Banking you will know that the governor of the Central European Bank (a Frenchman!) planned better for this crisis and was able to bail out lenders quickly by injecting billions of Euros into the system. No such facility was set up by the Bank of England. He warns though that the crisis is ongoing and will continue to challenge Europe for the next few years..... You may find it difficult to get a mortgage as a consequence.... The French property market is as stagnant as the UK one at the moment. I know of at least 3 people who have been trying to sell their second homes for years, so you'll probably be able to pick up a bargain.
With reference to flights to Perth.... are you travellling 1st Class? Seriously, I just did a quick search on Virgin blue and found return flights for $360.... that's way different to £600 you quoted!
All in all, everything is down to personal experience and expectation. Once you find that you are unhappy with one aspect of your existence then the other things start to niggle more and more until you find there is no way to get away from the fact that you don't want to be there anymore.
Lastly, very few people earn $10,000 in a month total! So I guess that you have VERY different expectations to most of us mere mortals on here..... If I could save that sort of money and live every month, I would certainly be considering what I was leaving behind VERY carefully before I made the move anywhere, I would be looking to maintain that sort of disposable income!
I couldn't afford to live in Paris! Just had a chat with a recruitment consultant in Adelaide, who informed me that my salary will be about the same as it is here.
I guess that working in banking is valued differently in Australia to Europe. You may have to take into account that Ireland is in the Euro Zone and so didn't take the same hit as the UK did when the sub prime market fell in America. Being in Banking you will know that the governor of the Central European Bank (a Frenchman!) planned better for this crisis and was able to bail out lenders quickly by injecting billions of Euros into the system. No such facility was set up by the Bank of England. He warns though that the crisis is ongoing and will continue to challenge Europe for the next few years..... You may find it difficult to get a mortgage as a consequence.... The French property market is as stagnant as the UK one at the moment. I know of at least 3 people who have been trying to sell their second homes for years, so you'll probably be able to pick up a bargain.
With reference to flights to Perth.... are you travellling 1st Class? Seriously, I just did a quick search on Virgin blue and found return flights for $360.... that's way different to £600 you quoted!
All in all, everything is down to personal experience and expectation. Once you find that you are unhappy with one aspect of your existence then the other things start to niggle more and more until you find there is no way to get away from the fact that you don't want to be there anymore.
Lastly, very few people earn $10,000 in a month total! So I guess that you have VERY different expectations to most of us mere mortals on here..... If I could save that sort of money and live every month, I would certainly be considering what I was leaving behind VERY carefully before I made the move anywhere, I would be looking to maintain that sort of disposable income!
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LOL, that’s for both of us, not just me, it was AUD $5,000 each, so we are still pretty mortal. And yes being able to save that in 1 month compared to what we can save no has made us see how big a mistake we actually made.
But hey, if we didn’t come out here would never have known. At least now when we go back we won’t sit and think “do we miss Australia”.
Mikey