News not good or bad
#1
News not good or bad
Had a full survey done last week, Tuesday and we haven't heard at all from the person whether it was good or bad, I tried to get an angle on it but couldn't estate agents have left a message with the persons solicitor but no reply
We had a no show last night ,things seem to be going from bad to worse. I got really upset in work the other day and burst into tears I just couldn't stop, so not like me. Just had enough other things also made me feel like this but I felt so pathetic after, but I needed it.
I find it incredible that you cannot find out whether it was a good or bad survey
I keeping thining now that we are never going to sell it or what if the building is a mess
We had a no show last night ,things seem to be going from bad to worse. I got really upset in work the other day and burst into tears I just couldn't stop, so not like me. Just had enough other things also made me feel like this but I felt so pathetic after, but I needed it.
I find it incredible that you cannot find out whether it was a good or bad survey
I keeping thining now that we are never going to sell it or what if the building is a mess
#2
Re: News not good or bad
Originally posted by Carrianne
Had a full survey done last week, Tuesday and we haven't heard at all from the person whether it was good or bad, I tried to get an angle on it but couldn't estate agents have left a message with the persons solicitor but no reply
We had a no show last night ,things seem to be going from bad to worse. I got really upset in work the other day and burst into tears I just couldn't stop, so not like me. Just had enough other things also made me feel like this but I felt so pathetic after, but I needed it.
I find it incredible that you cannot find out whether it was a good or bad survey
I keeping thining now that we are never going to sell it or what if the building is a mess
Had a full survey done last week, Tuesday and we haven't heard at all from the person whether it was good or bad, I tried to get an angle on it but couldn't estate agents have left a message with the persons solicitor but no reply
We had a no show last night ,things seem to be going from bad to worse. I got really upset in work the other day and burst into tears I just couldn't stop, so not like me. Just had enough other things also made me feel like this but I felt so pathetic after, but I needed it.
I find it incredible that you cannot find out whether it was a good or bad survey
I keeping thining now that we are never going to sell it or what if the building is a mess
It will all come good, need a flood of tears sometimes to clear the air!!!!
will keep everything crossed for you
Teresa
#3
Thank you swifts, I do keep telling myself and I do not crumble under such basic circumstances but in a year I have got married, decided to have children, then our visa was rushed through the system, forcing a speedy move, got our visa now selling house, quite a lot, I know I need a long holiday doing bugger all
Thans for you support x
Thans for you support x
#4
Originally posted by Carrianne
Thank you swifts, I do keep telling myself and I do not crumble under such basic circumstances but in a year I have got married, decided to have children, then our visa was rushed through the system, forcing a speedy move, got our visa now selling house, quite a lot, I know I need a long holiday doing bugger all
Thans for you support x
Thank you swifts, I do keep telling myself and I do not crumble under such basic circumstances but in a year I have got married, decided to have children, then our visa was rushed through the system, forcing a speedy move, got our visa now selling house, quite a lot, I know I need a long holiday doing bugger all
Thans for you support x
good luck
Teresa
and a few of these help us all
#5
Re: News not good or bad
Originally posted by Carrianne
Had a full survey done last week, Tuesday and we haven't heard at all from the person whether it was good or bad, I tried to get an angle on it but couldn't estate agents have left a message with the persons solicitor but no reply
We had a no show last night ,things seem to be going from bad to worse. I got really upset in work the other day and burst into tears I just couldn't stop, so not like me. Just had enough other things also made me feel like this but I felt so pathetic after, but I needed it.
I find it incredible that you cannot find out whether it was a good or bad survey
I keeping thining now that we are never going to sell it or what if the building is a mess
Had a full survey done last week, Tuesday and we haven't heard at all from the person whether it was good or bad, I tried to get an angle on it but couldn't estate agents have left a message with the persons solicitor but no reply
We had a no show last night ,things seem to be going from bad to worse. I got really upset in work the other day and burst into tears I just couldn't stop, so not like me. Just had enough other things also made me feel like this but I felt so pathetic after, but I needed it.
I find it incredible that you cannot find out whether it was a good or bad survey
I keeping thining now that we are never going to sell it or what if the building is a mess
Hi Carrianne
You have my deepest of sympathy. I know exactly how you are feeling burst into tears watching Trisha the other day pathetic I know. We had to wait 2 weeks for the results of the survey on our property and the wait nearly killed me, but it will be worth it in the end. We also had 2 no shows to view the property and one guy that came who looked a bit dodgy don't think I would have sold to him if he had put an offer in (he scared me)
You have had a lot of stress over a relatively short space of time but the good times are ahead and i know that you will succeed in your new life
All the best and keep your chin up
debbie
#6
They say that marriage, moving and divorse are the most stressful things to do - they forgot about waiting for visa and you do most of them in one year??? mad or what
Good luck carriane things will look up adn you will sell - quicker on the scottish system than we can anyway.
Good luck carriane things will look up adn you will sell - quicker on the scottish system than we can anyway.
#7
Crocodile Member
Joined: Jan 2003
Location: Wurtulla, Sunshine Coast. Crikey Terri, That's a BIG ONE!
Posts: 179
Re: News not good or bad
Carrianne, you know we're all with you 100% on this one. Anyone who has been in this situation, and trying to sell a house will know how traumatic it gets as time goes on.
You just have to keep telling yourself "It will sell, It will sell". Easier said than done I know, but it's true.
Everything always turns out right in the end - and if it's not alright, then it's not the end yet! Hang in there.
Andy
You just have to keep telling yourself "It will sell, It will sell". Easier said than done I know, but it's true.
Everything always turns out right in the end - and if it's not alright, then it's not the end yet! Hang in there.
Andy
Originally posted by Carrianne
Had a full survey done last week, Tuesday and we haven't heard at all from the person whether it was good or bad, I tried to get an angle on it but couldn't estate agents have left a message with the persons solicitor but no reply
We had a no show last night ,things seem to be going from bad to worse. I got really upset in work the other day and burst into tears I just couldn't stop, so not like me. Just had enough other things also made me feel like this but I felt so pathetic after, but I needed it.
I find it incredible that you cannot find out whether it was a good or bad survey
I keeping thining now that we are never going to sell it or what if the building is a mess
Had a full survey done last week, Tuesday and we haven't heard at all from the person whether it was good or bad, I tried to get an angle on it but couldn't estate agents have left a message with the persons solicitor but no reply
We had a no show last night ,things seem to be going from bad to worse. I got really upset in work the other day and burst into tears I just couldn't stop, so not like me. Just had enough other things also made me feel like this but I felt so pathetic after, but I needed it.
I find it incredible that you cannot find out whether it was a good or bad survey
I keeping thining now that we are never going to sell it or what if the building is a mess
#8
Hang in there Carrianne. You have done a lot of stressful things in one year. You are doing well to cope with it all without collapsing!!
You still have quite a lot of time to go before you want to leave, so I am sure things will work out for you.
You still have quite a lot of time to go before you want to leave, so I am sure things will work out for you.
#9
Finally made it
Joined: Jan 2003
Location: Perth
Posts: 210
Won't be long now Carriane. If it's any help, I badgered our buyers surveyor when he came round and although they cannot tell us the result he did say to make sure our buyers got on to their lenders asap as he would be sending the report in 2 days time. He further explained that no property is ever perfect from a surveyors point of view but all the lenders are looking for are major problems, otherwise they are not interested and just want a yes or no answer. Obviously if your buyers are paying for a bells and whistles survey it would be slightly different.
Keep your chin up and your glass full.
Steph
Keep your chin up and your glass full.
Steph
#10
Hi,
Thank you all, it is nice to have support from people who are going through the same thing. The survey was sent to him on Thursday last week, so we have just made the assumption that he is not going to buy it and move on.
The no show phoned the estate agents and something ropped up and she hadn't got our number to call so she is coming back again today.
I shall have a couple of as it's my half day today boy do I love flexi time.
I shall keep you informed. xx
Thank you all, it is nice to have support from people who are going through the same thing. The survey was sent to him on Thursday last week, so we have just made the assumption that he is not going to buy it and move on.
The no show phoned the estate agents and something ropped up and she hadn't got our number to call so she is coming back again today.
I shall have a couple of as it's my half day today boy do I love flexi time.
I shall keep you informed. xx
#11
Sorry things aren`t moving quickly for you, hopefully it will sort itself out in the end.
Enjoy your or two or even more.
Can sort of understand the stress but we are still early on in the process so i figure i will probably writing such things early next year.
Take it easy girl
footie chick xx
Enjoy your or two or even more.
Can sort of understand the stress but we are still early on in the process so i figure i will probably writing such things early next year.
Take it easy girl
footie chick xx