neal

Following advice from Bondipom have come here.
We are at the end of our visa app./passed meds/police checks etc but have had to fight with hubbys ex-wife to get meds done for children from previous marriage who aren't coming with us.
Finally after a two month delay she consented and took them and we had an e-mail from Adelaide last Friday to say the meds were in their possession and we would here from them in due course.
This morning ex-wife has phoned in fight-mode regretting allowing the meds to go ahead and saying that she can stop us from getting our visa.
What we would really like to know is now that the meds are in the possession of Adelaide is there anyway she can retract them,and is there anything else she can do to stop us from going???
Grateful of any help please!!!Mrs.Neal

neal

Hmmmmm.....think I've messed up-was trying to post on the immigration thread but have clicked on new topic instead....it's the stress you know.....Mrs.N

Luke I Amyofath

let the woman foam at the mouth, theres bugger all she can do.
you got the kids meds done, it doesnt matter what she says / does. the only thing to be careful of I is that your applications are very truthful because if this woman has some dirt of a legal nature, she may use it.
Other than that good luck

neal

Nope -we're good boys and girls in this house.....

karen and andy

It sounds like your'e going to be better off away from here, can't get much further than the other side of the world.

Good luck to you.

Cheers

Karen and Andy.

neal

Tried to post on this thread last night but it doesn't seem to have come up......
We are having trouble with medicals for children from hubbys previous marriage.Have eventually got ex to take children for meds and Adelaide have e-mailed to sat they are in possession of them.Ex is now regretting allowing them to go ahead and says she can stop us from getting our visa.
Is it possible she can retract meds even though they're in Adelaides possession?And IS there anything else she can do to prevent us from going?
We would appreciate any advice PLEASE-Bondip[om suggested this was the place to get some help!!Mrs.Neal

ptlabs

I detached your earlier post (and this one as well) from the FAQ thread. It should rightfully be in a thread of its own.

Peter

neal

Peter,am probably being dim but where am I looking now to get some advice from you about this??Mrs.N

ptlabs

Not dim at all.

You should talk through this with a registered agent with experience dealing with former partners in an application. Questions of custody of children, the right to remove the kids from a country, refusal to take penal and medical clearances, etc can be discussed with the agent.

I would think that once the ex-wife has allowed the kids to do the medicals, there's little she can do to invalidate them once they are in ASPC's hands. Hence my mentioning of the question of custody instead.

Peter

bondipom

Just Bumping up for Neal

neal

Thanks BP-no change as yet.General opinion seems to be that the meds can't be retracted but feel ilke we're living under a cloud at the mo.The support and sense of humour on here keep you sane(just about)...Mrs.N

bondipom

I cannot see how the meds can be retracted but as ptlabs says the issues of custody come into play. How that relates to legal practise, the Hague Convention and Australian immigration is a complicated field that this forum will struggle with.

This is as far I my knowledge goes and I normally steer clear of this type of thread because I have no children.