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Old Nov 24th 2003, 12:47 am
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Can anyone tell me what the correct (?) response is to

"Hello, how are you?"


In France it's easy and the conversation goes along the lines:
Bonjour, ca va?
ca va et vous?
ca va ...
and then you get on with it. But here
if I answer back "fantastic (well we have just won the cup!), how are you? " it just doesn't seem to work.

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Old Nov 24th 2003, 12:51 am
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Originally posted by topcat
Can anyone tell me what the correct (?) response is to

"Hello, how are you?"


In France it's easy and the conversation goes along the lines:
Bonjour, ca va?
ca va et vous?
ca va ...
and then you get on with it. But here
if I answer back "fantastic (well we have just won the cup!), how are you? " it just doesn't seem to work.

Puzzled,
TC
I usually answer 'Terrific, and getting better'. This tends to really piss people off. I said that to one girl who said 'What are you ON?' When I said 'endorphins!' she said 'I KNEW there were drugs involved!!'

People who answer 'How are you' with 'not bad' usually get a response from me along the lines of 'Well, that's just one step above chin-quivering misery! Cheer up!'
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Old Nov 24th 2003, 12:53 am
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Originally posted by topcat
Can anyone tell me what the correct (?) response is to

"Hello, how are you?"


In France it's easy and the conversation goes along the lines:
Bonjour, ca va?
ca va et vous?
ca va ...
and then you get on with it. But here
if I answer back "fantastic (well we have just won the cup!), how are you? " it just doesn't seem to work.

Puzzled,
TC
It goes like this...

"How, ya goin"

"How, ya goin"

Note the lack of question marks...these are rote responses, not an invitation for conversation.
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Try "good, thanks" - can't remember where I picked it up from, I think it was what my mates in Tassie always said.
Seems to go down alright anyway.
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I go with "good, thanks" as standard response - try it out, or even "yeah, good thanks"
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Originally posted by jayr
I go with "good, thanks" as standard response - try it out, or even "yeah, good thanks"
A man of many words I see Jayr!
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Ditto

Good thanks seems to be the way to go... Feels a bit weird to begin with.
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Originally posted by DianeOZ
Ditto

Good thanks seems to be the way to go... Feels a bit weird to begin with.
Yeah, I feel I'm being rude if I don't return the question... even though I'm obviously not that interested in how the checkout person really is doing!

The same question is always asked in the states, but somehow it is much less irritating here.

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Originally posted by MrsDagboy
A man of many words I see Jayr!

I found that "I'm very well thank you, how are you today?" wasn't the expected response to the Coles checkout assistant pretty early on
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Originally posted by jayr
I found that "I'm very well thank you, how are you today?" wasn't the expected response to the Coles checkout assistant pretty early on
And a fast learner too .
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Originally posted by MrsDagboy
And a fast learner too .

The one I still struggle with how to respond to is when the pizza delivery guy asks "So how's your evening so far?" - I suppose "yeah, good thanks" would still work and I never want to ask the question back " Good thanks, how's yours, delivered many pizzas??"
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Originally posted by jayr
The one I still struggle with how to respond to is when the pizza delivery guy asks "So how's your evening so far?" - I suppose "yeah, good thanks" would still work and I never want to ask the question back " Good thanks, how's yours, delivered many pizzas??"
Try it, I have, you usually get very startled looks & they dont quite know what to say .
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I'm stumped when I get asked that question at 8.30am in Coles on a Saturday morning. Usually "OK so far but it's still early" (POM alert - doom & gloom)

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Originally posted by DianeOZ
I'm stumped when I get asked that question at 8.30am in Coles on a Saturday morning. Usually "OK so far but it's still early" (POM alert - doom & gloom)

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On a similar vein to above you could try "Good thanks, how's yours? Checked many things out?"
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Originally posted by Florida_03
It goes like this...

"How, ya goin"

"How, ya goin"

Note the lack of question marks...these are rote responses, not an invitation for conversation.
I find it is more like "ha ya gon".

There is no standard reply but you could say

"bonza mate ha bat yself"
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