Help..........
#1
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Help..........
when I phoned my dad today he told me that mum had some tests today and they have found something but they don't know what, is in her stomach. they are saying it could be a cyst or something else,
now I am so mixed up I just don't know what to do my head is everywhere, we move out of our house on the 23th sept and flights are booked for the 4th
Oct.
I know this may sound crass but many years ago my parents were going to Aus via the £10 Pom but my Nan got ill and they pulled out at the last minute, in away I hope I am right and in away I hope I am wrong,
now I am so mixed up I just don't know what to do my head is everywhere, we move out of our house on the 23th sept and flights are booked for the 4th
Oct.
I know this may sound crass but many years ago my parents were going to Aus via the £10 Pom but my Nan got ill and they pulled out at the last minute, in away I hope I am right and in away I hope I am wrong,
#2
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I understand your stress and concern it must be just awful for you If it were my Mum I know she'd insist that we go to Oz regardless, otherwise she's feel guilty and think she would be holding us back.
I think your Mother may feel the same, especially given that they were in the same position years ago. Good luck with your decisions. Kathy
I think your Mother may feel the same, especially given that they were in the same position years ago. Good luck with your decisions. Kathy
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First off, dont panic, could be something completely harmless and nothing to worry about.
Hope she is Ok
Hope she is Ok
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Originally Posted by rangersman
when I phoned my dad today he told me that mum had some tests today and they have found something but they don't know what, is in her stomach. they are saying it could be a cyst or something else,
now I am so mixed up I just don't know what to do my head is everywhere, we move out of our house on the 23th sept and flights are booked for the 4th
Oct.
I know this may sound crass but many years ago my parents were going to Aus via the £10 Pom but my Nan got ill and they pulled out at the last minute, in away I hope I am right and in away I hope I am wrong,
now I am so mixed up I just don't know what to do my head is everywhere, we move out of our house on the 23th sept and flights are booked for the 4th
Oct.
I know this may sound crass but many years ago my parents were going to Aus via the £10 Pom but my Nan got ill and they pulled out at the last minute, in away I hope I am right and in away I hope I am wrong,
All I can say is thoughts are with you & will send some k (not much comfort I know )
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It's true, you tend to think the worst. We got back from Oz last year and my Dad was in hospital. He'd been peeing pure blood. They found some little tumours, polips or something (not sure how you spell it). We were told they could be cancerous. It put us through hell, when they investigated further they weren't cancerous. But more may grow in the future which might be. I remeber the feeling. It's best to wait til you have all the facts... sent you some karma also.
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thank you for your replys, my head is so mixed up, I know I have to continue
but that doesnt make it any easier, thanks again.
but that doesnt make it any easier, thanks again.
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Re: Help..........
Originally Posted by rangersman
when I phoned my dad today he told me that mum had some tests today and they have found something but they don't know what, is in her stomach. they are saying it could be a cyst or something else,
now I am so mixed up I just don't know what to do my head is everywhere, we move out of our house on the 23th sept and flights are booked for the 4th
Oct.
I know this may sound crass but many years ago my parents were going to Aus via the £10 Pom but my Nan got ill and they pulled out at the last minute, in away I hope I am right and in away I hope I am wrong,
now I am so mixed up I just don't know what to do my head is everywhere, we move out of our house on the 23th sept and flights are booked for the 4th
Oct.
I know this may sound crass but many years ago my parents were going to Aus via the £10 Pom but my Nan got ill and they pulled out at the last minute, in away I hope I am right and in away I hope I am wrong,
1. Thinking of you......pls keep us posted
2. Not crass - a realistic and obvious thought.
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Re: Help..........
Originally Posted by rangersman
when I phoned my dad today he told me that mum had some tests today and they have found something but they don't know what, is in her stomach. they are saying it could be a cyst or something else,
now I am so mixed up I just don't know what to do my head is everywhere, we move out of our house on the 23th sept and flights are booked for the 4th
Oct.
I know this may sound crass but many years ago my parents were going to Aus via the £10 Pom but my Nan got ill and they pulled out at the last minute, in away I hope I am right and in away I hope I am wrong,
now I am so mixed up I just don't know what to do my head is everywhere, we move out of our house on the 23th sept and flights are booked for the 4th
Oct.
I know this may sound crass but many years ago my parents were going to Aus via the £10 Pom but my Nan got ill and they pulled out at the last minute, in away I hope I am right and in away I hope I am wrong,
Hi Nicola !
This must be your M-I-L ??
I posted on your thread in "nursing " last week.
You guys really are having a rough time !
How's your sister now ?
No advice , just thinking of you all at this tough time.
All the best,
Tass.
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Oh Nicola,
Sorry to hear about your mum, I'm sure she will be fine. It just seems to be one thing on top of another for you. Hopefully everthing will work out OK and you will be sunning yourself here in Perth at the end of October.
Tracey
PS Did you get my PM?
Sorry to hear about your mum, I'm sure she will be fine. It just seems to be one thing on top of another for you. Hopefully everthing will work out OK and you will be sunning yourself here in Perth at the end of October.
Tracey
PS Did you get my PM?