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nicanjoe Dec 3rd 2005 4:42 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 
Not that I've been through it, but maybe it would be a good idea to have something planned for after your company leaves. We are planning on leaving for Perth in June and have my parents and sister coming in February, after reading all these post's I'm getting a little nervous about that. Maybe if one has a weekend away with the family, a day trip with friends or something planned a day or two after the people leave, it'll give you something to look forward to and help curb some of the emptyness, just a thought.

Nicanjoe

A dogs life Dec 3rd 2005 5:12 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 
I must be missing the 'family' gene :o We;ve had my Mum and Dad over to visit, 4 months after we arrived and Mrs JTLs Mum Dad and brother over about 8 months after we arrived.

Basically it was good to see them, and good to see them leave again, :D especially my M&D who were here for 2 months, I was happy when they left. I know they will be back (well in a month and a half they'll be back to be precise), so seeing them off at the airport is never a drama.

It probably helps that I've been travelling since I was 22, so I'm used to only seeing my folks once or twice a year, and I don't suffer homesickness cos I haven't lived anywhere long enough to consider calling it home. :(

BadgeIsBack Dec 3rd 2005 7:05 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 

Originally Posted by A dogs life
Basically it was good to see them, and good to see them leave again, :D especially my M&D who were here for 2 months, I was happy when they left. I know they will be back (well in a month and a half they'll be back to be precise), so seeing them off at the airport is never a drama.

It probably helps that I've been travelling since I was 22, so I'm used to only seeing my folks once or twice a year, and I don't suffer homesickness cos I haven't lived anywhere long enough to consider calling it home. :(

We're the same, we love seeing people, but also like it when we are on our own again, after all the family unit comprises of us, not everyone else(!)

biggy Dec 3rd 2005 7:05 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 

Originally Posted by A dogs life
I must be missing the 'family' gene :o We;ve had my Mum and Dad over to visit, 4 months after we arrived and Mrs JTLs Mum Dad and brother over about 8 months after we arrived.

Basically it was good to see them, and good to see them leave again, :D especially my M&D who were here for 2 months, I was happy when they left. I know they will be back (well in a month and a half they'll be back to be precise), so seeing them off at the airport is never a drama.

It probably helps that I've been travelling since I was 22, so I'm used to only seeing my folks once or twice a year, and I don't suffer homesickness cos I haven't lived anywhere long enough to consider calling it home. :(

my inlaws r comin next june for 4 weeks....it will b ffab for first couple weeks then i think they will get on me tits after that,,,unless they take the kids off our hands all the time lol

fraser Dec 3rd 2005 7:08 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 

Originally Posted by biggy
my inlaws r comin next june for 4 weeks....it will b ffab for first couple weeks then i think they will get on me tits after that,,,unless they take the kids off our hands all the time lol

You must have licked that cane toad, you're off your head :scared:

biggy Dec 3rd 2005 7:12 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 

Originally Posted by fraser
You must have licked that cane toad, you're off your head :scared:

meee aff ma heed and how did u come to that conclusion :rolleyes:

fraser Dec 3rd 2005 7:15 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 

Originally Posted by biggy
meee aff ma heed and how did u come to that conclusion :rolleyes:

Looking forward to the inlaws visiting, I knew you were a bit out there but come on :p :D

biggy Dec 3rd 2005 7:17 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 

Originally Posted by fraser
Looking forward to the inlaws visiting, I knew you were a bit out there but come on :p :D

lmao they r gr8 in small doses love then to bits, but a month aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh

fraser Dec 3rd 2005 7:20 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 

Originally Posted by biggy
lmao they r gr8 in small doses love then to bits, but a month aaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh

Mine are coming for two weeks, I'm already having palpatations and breaking out in cold sweats and screaming in my sleep :eek: :eek: :D

glittababe Dec 3rd 2005 7:21 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 

Originally Posted by fraser
Looking forward to the inlaws visiting, I knew you were a bit out there but come on :p :D

a difficult one as not one member of my English residing family (dads side) will come out and see us :( Our friends will, but my sisters have already said that its too far to travel with children and too expensive. I can understand, but we've told them that we'll meet and greet at airport, drive them around, they can stay at our house etc. My dad has point blank refused to go anywhere on a plane as he smokes over 40 a day and wouldn't cope. Mum's family all live in Sydney, so thats not a problem but I'm not close to them! I only spotted one of my cousins in Darling Harbour one time out shopping because he's the spitting image of my Grandad (in his younger days)!

I'm just unloved and unwanted :( woe is me

biggy Dec 3rd 2005 7:22 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 

Originally Posted by fraser
Mine are coming for two weeks, I'm already having palpatations and breaking out in cold sweats and screaming in my sleep :eek: :eek: :D

lol poor u...it will have been 2 years since we saw mine so should b cool...i hope lol I may plan for me and hubby to go away for a couple of days lol

fraser Dec 3rd 2005 7:23 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 

Originally Posted by glittababe
a difficult one as not one member of my English residing family (dads side) will come out and see us :( Our friends will, but my sisters have already said that its too far to travel with children and too expensive. I can understand, but we've told them that we'll meet and greet at airport, drive them around, they can stay at our house etc. My dad has point blank refused to go anywhere on a plane as he smokes over 40 a day and wouldn't cope. Mum's family all live in Sydney, so thats not a problem but I'm not close to them! I only spotted one of my cousins in Darling Harbour one time out shopping because he's the spitting image of my Grandad (in his younger days)!

I'm just unloved and unwanted :( woe is me

Aaaaaaargh K for you, you unloved thing :p
I can't have to spread :o

cranni Dec 3rd 2005 7:27 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 

Originally Posted by fraser
Mine are coming for two weeks, I'm already having palpatations and breaking out in cold sweats and screaming in my sleep :eek: :eek: :D

My mum and dad are coming again in Jan, for 3 mnths cant wait, last time they came i never pegged out washing or brought it in, mum did my ironing.
They baked. They went to bowls so they made their own friends, and they took the kids out to give us a break. It was so nice, and they never complain. Denise

glittababe Dec 3rd 2005 7:29 pm

Re: First really bad few days
 

Originally Posted by fraser
Aaaaaaargh K for you, you unloved thing :p
I can't have to spread :o

I have to look at the positive side. I'll only have to think about me, hubby and boys and not have to listen to any of the daily traumas going on in my siblings lives! I'll only have to buy xmas presents for the said immediate family! My phonebills will be so much cheaper, as I'm not doing all the calling this time round (had $149 per mth last time)! Telstra loved us!

Saving all that money I'll be able to take the boys out on little day trips once in a while!

Just wish my dad would come round to the idea of getting on a plane! I've suggested nicotine patches, gum and the smokers room at Hong Kong airport!

janeyray Dec 4th 2005 1:51 am

Re: First really bad few days
 

Originally Posted by flip
I think that's what I was wondering about. I really do love it here so I should be OK but don't want to rock the boat. So sorry you had it tough - are you more settled now?

Yes thanks, very settled now we are back. It's like we've never been away although we have very good memories and a had wonderful experience and adventure :)


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