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Old Jul 7th 2010, 5:43 am
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Default After five years, Australia is starting to grow on me...

I have lived in Oz for five years and have pretty much had an on-off thing about living here. Every year, I decide that we will leave the following year, but don't follow through.

Finally my wife and I are really planning to leave in 2012 and we are even doing up our garden to make it easier for the place to sell. My wife and I joke that once the gardnen is done it might be so nice we won't want to leave!

The funny thing is, now that we have put a time frame on leaving, I have started to enjoy being here and finally after 5 years, Australia is growing on me.

Has it taken anyone else over five years for Australia to finally grow on you?
Or has it started growing on you when you have the clear prospect of leaving?
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Old Jul 7th 2010, 6:46 am
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Yeah I know what you mean, after 5 years it gets into the blood. As much as I love home I don't think I could leave now.
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Old Jul 7th 2010, 7:00 am
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Has it taken anyone else over five years for Australia to finally grow on you?
Or has it started growing on you when you have the clear prospect of leaving?
It actually took me longer, and a return "home", before I realised

But now I am totally settled.
 
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Are you sure you are not just being ground into submission?
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Hell, if you stay in one spot for five years, I'd be amazed if something didn't grow on you!

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Originally Posted by Vash the Stampede
Hell, if you stay in one spot for five years, I'd be amazed if something didn't grow on you!

There HAS to be a culture joke here somewhere.
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Originally Posted by alexleeson
I have lived in Oz for five years and have pretty much had an on-off thing about living here. Every year, I decide that we will leave the following year, but don't follow through.

Finally my wife and I are really planning to leave in 2012 and we are even doing up our garden to make it easier for the place to sell. My wife and I joke that once the gardnen is done it might be so nice we won't want to leave!

The funny thing is, now that we have put a time frame on leaving, I have started to enjoy being here and finally after 5 years, Australia is growing on me.

Has it taken anyone else over five years for Australia to finally grow on you?
Or has it started growing on you when you have the clear prospect of leaving?
Hi Alex, correct me if I've mistaken you for someone else - were you living in Bacchus Marsh?

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The best advice I got from someone was "you have to return home to remind yourself why you left in the first place".
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Default Re: After five years, Australia is starting to grow on me...

Originally Posted by alexleeson
I have lived in Oz for five years and have pretty much had an on-off thing about living here. Every year, I decide that we will leave the following year, but don't follow through.

Finally my wife and I are really planning to leave in 2012 and we are even doing up our garden to make it easier for the place to sell. My wife and I joke that once the gardnen is done it might be so nice we won't want to leave!

The funny thing is, now that we have put a time frame on leaving, I have started to enjoy being here and finally after 5 years, Australia is growing on me.

Has it taken anyone else over five years for Australia to finally grow on you?
Or has it started growing on you when you have the clear prospect of leaving?
It took me about the same time.

I find that it is the subconscious things that make you realise what your feelings for a place are.
I still moan about the place but I caught myself planning to bring my UK pension over the other day. I got a quote for its value and worked out what it would do to my super. It never crossed my mind that the decision meant that I would probably end up staying here for good.
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Default Re: After five years, Australia is starting to grow on me...

Originally Posted by Alexor
The best advice I got from someone was "you have to return home to remind yourself why you left in the first place".
I have made a conscious decision never to refer to the UK as "home", I'm forever correcting people but it matters to me

Q: "Do you miss home?"
A: "Nah, I'll be there in 3 hours"
etc,etc

It's laugh a minute in Vimsville.

I also cannot spell "conscious" without the aid of a spill chucker.
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Originally Posted by Vash the Stampede
Hell, if you stay in one spot for five years, I'd be amazed if something didn't grow on you!



...Or in you!


Been here only just over 1 and half years, and I kind of like it now...

3 and half years more, and pretty sure, I'll start liking Vegemite too...
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Originally Posted by DeadVim
I have made a conscious decision never to refer to the UK as "home"
Same here, only been here 10 weeks tho, but I make a concious effort whether I am talking to people here or family in the UK, not sure why, maybe I think I will settle quicker/easier
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Default Re: After five years, Australia is starting to grow on me...

Originally Posted by Alexor
The best advice I got from someone was "you have to return home to remind yourself why you left in the first place".
I like that! And it appears to be true, plenty of ex-pat friends have finally felt settled in Oz after their first trip 'home'... human nature is we remember things with rose tinted glasses... but there must have been a reason we took the plunge and left
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Originally Posted by Alexor
The best advice I got from someone was "you have to return home to remind yourself why you left in the first place".
So true...
 
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spill chucker.
You need to take it off Kiwi and set it to English.
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