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gosh have i forgotton anything
its too late now though:scared:
how i long for a settee
only 1 more family do and thats it, on a more serious note visited my mums grave and said goodbye just wanted to post that this was more emotional than i had thought, said my goodbyes to her all over again
still people saying i am doing the wrong thing
as the tv programme says " get a life"
arlene
its too late now though:scared:
how i long for a settee
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only 1 more family do and thats it, on a more serious note visited my mums grave and said goodbye just wanted to post that this was more emotional than i had thought, said my goodbyes to her all over again
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still people saying i am doing the wrong thing
as the tv programme says " get a life"
arlene
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ARLENE!!!!!!!!
YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!
Nearly there now, anything you've forgotton will come back to you, i'm sure.
Chill out, relax, be happy and enjoy!
Oh, and good luck, not that you'll need it.
YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!!!
Nearly there now, anything you've forgotton will come back to you, i'm sure.
Chill out, relax, be happy and enjoy!
Oh, and good luck, not that you'll need it.
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Originally posted by arlene
gosh have i forgotton anything
its too late now though:scared:
how i long for a settee
only 1 more family do and thats it, on a more serious note visited my mums grave and said goodbye just wanted to post that this was more emotional than i had thought, said my goodbyes to her all over again
still people saying i am doing the wrong thing
as the tv programme says " get a life"
arlene
gosh have i forgotton anything
its too late now though:scared:
how i long for a settee
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only 1 more family do and thats it, on a more serious note visited my mums grave and said goodbye just wanted to post that this was more emotional than i had thought, said my goodbyes to her all over again
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still people saying i am doing the wrong thing
as the tv programme says " get a life"
arlene
I did the grave thing to Arlene a couple of days before we left, just to let them know where we were going etc. It was probably more emotional than saying goodbye to some of the living.
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Originally posted by arlene
gosh have i forgotton anything
its too late now though:scared:
how i long for a settee
only 1 more family do and thats it, on a more serious note visited my mums grave and said goodbye just wanted to post that this was more emotional than i had thought, said my goodbyes to her all over again
still people saying i am doing the wrong thing
as the tv programme says " get a life"
arlene
gosh have i forgotton anything
its too late now though:scared:
how i long for a settee
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only 1 more family do and thats it, on a more serious note visited my mums grave and said goodbye just wanted to post that this was more emotional than i had thought, said my goodbyes to her all over again
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still people saying i am doing the wrong thing
as the tv programme says " get a life"
arlene
Good luck arlene, make sure you let us know how you get along once you're there!
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Good luck to you. We are going to perth 1st june and have had similar comments made about doing wrong thing. Better to try and fail than to never try at all. If you dont take risks in life then you get nothing its better to sit back in years to come and say at least i tried it rather than WHAT IF. The very best of luck to you if you have survived the whole emigration process then you will make it work when you arrive in Oz. I read a book a few years ago about people taking risks and having knock backs it was called FEEL THE FEAR AND DO IT ANYWAY. Just keep saying this to yourself as its the fear of the unknown that makes it exciting and keeps your spirit alive.
all the very best for future you can do it.
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all the very best for future you can do it.
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Just to let you know that i am thinking of you mate, hope that you have a fantastic flight and that you really do 'get a new life down under'!
with love and hugs
Rach, Mark and Chanelle xxxxxxxxxx
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Everything will be fine, go have fun and relax a little. I hope that it is everything you dreamed of.
Take care and good luck
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Arlene,
We wish you every success on the other side There is no way you are doing the wrong thing. Go out there and enjoy your new life.
PM us with your private email address so we can keep in touch via email when we get there.
Good luck to you both
We wish you every success on the other side There is no way you are doing the wrong thing. Go out there and enjoy your new life.
PM us with your private email address so we can keep in touch via email when we get there.
Good luck to you both
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Originally posted by arlene
gosh have i forgotton anything
its too late now though:scared:
how i long for a settee
only 1 more family do and thats it, on a more serious note visited my mums grave and said goodbye just wanted to post that this was more emotional than i had thought, said my goodbyes to her all over again
still people saying i am doing the wrong thing
as the tv programme says " get a life"
arlene
gosh have i forgotton anything
its too late now though:scared:
how i long for a settee
![Big Grin](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/biggrin.gif)
only 1 more family do and thats it, on a more serious note visited my mums grave and said goodbye just wanted to post that this was more emotional than i had thought, said my goodbyes to her all over again
![Sad](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/sad.gif)
still people saying i am doing the wrong thing
as the tv programme says " get a life"
arlene
Oh MY Goodnes!!!
Are you going already!?!?!?!?!?
Arlene, I hope you all have a very safe trip...enjoy the excitement of it all!!!!
I hope it all works out wonderfully for you - which i know it will - and dont forget to stick 2 fingers up at the nhs as you go!!!!!
good luck hunny......i wish you all the love and luck in the world!!!
let us know how you get on !!!!!
sue
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sue
thanks so much, now the time seems to be flying by, not enough time to say goodbye to family members, (without sounding strange but those with us and those who are not anymore)
everything is so surreal and the butterflies have disappeared and a general excitement has kicked in
WE KNOW what we are doing is right for us and our family and had a great consversation with my dad today who when i asked am i being selfish replied that he thought i was being more selfish in staying for his sake
arlene
thanks so much, now the time seems to be flying by, not enough time to say goodbye to family members, (without sounding strange but those with us and those who are not anymore)
everything is so surreal and the butterflies have disappeared and a general excitement has kicked in
WE KNOW what we are doing is right for us and our family and had a great consversation with my dad today who when i asked am i being selfish replied that he thought i was being more selfish in staying for his sake
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had a great consversation with my dad today who when i asked am i being selfish replied that he thought i was being more selfish in staying for his sake
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What a great dad you have Arlene,
hugs Rach x
arlene [/QUOTE]
What a great dad you have Arlene,
hugs Rach x
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Arlene
I just want to wish you and your family the best of luck in your new lives i am sure you will have a ball
Make sure you keep in touch as you will be sorely missed on this site...
footie xxx
I just want to wish you and your family the best of luck in your new lives i am sure you will have a ball
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Make sure you keep in touch as you will be sorely missed on this site...
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Enjoy the experience Arlene, after all, you'll nly do it once!!!
Post something when you get her4e - we'll be watching
Good luck mate
Post something when you get her4e - we'll be watching
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Hi Arlene!!!
Wow 4 days!!!!Go girl
Havn't been on for a while, Billabong keeps hoggin' the puter
He just wants to get more posts than me and a dancin' kangaroo from Pollyanna
Good luck mate and as Chris said let us know your email address so we can keep in touch on the other side!!!
He's probably posted that we sold the house and have booked the flights for the 21st August!!:scared:
Anita xx
Wow 4 days!!!!Go girl
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Havn't been on for a while, Billabong keeps hoggin' the puter
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He just wants to get more posts than me and a dancin' kangaroo from Pollyanna
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Good luck mate and as Chris said let us know your email address so we can keep in touch on the other side!!!
He's probably posted that we sold the house and have booked the flights for the 21st August!!:scared:
Anita xx