How long do kids need to live in NY state before being considered resident?
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How long do kids need to live in NY state before being considered resident?
Hello all. I send out a desperate plea for information, to clarify something.
My husband has been working in NY for the last 4 months, and constantly pressuring me to join him, with our two small children. I have been resistant because I like where I am and the children are in a good school, and the money offered didn't seem life-changing enough to warrant a move.
Now they have upped the money to $200k and it seems undeniable that we would save there, and we are struggling in the UK.
However, in making a last-ditch effort to resolve this, I have found out that if I gave it a go for a year, after only six months the children would be considered resident and I would be unable to come back to the UK with them without my husband's permission.
Could anyone confirm whether this is correct? If so it would mean I can't give it a meaningful go without putting myself at this awful risk. He says he would not do that, but I do believe we are headed for a split regardless, and just like I would, I would expect him to do all he can to hang onto his kids. So he probably WOULD do that and a verbal promise not to is meaningless.
Any words of advice/clarification gladly received.
My husband has been working in NY for the last 4 months, and constantly pressuring me to join him, with our two small children. I have been resistant because I like where I am and the children are in a good school, and the money offered didn't seem life-changing enough to warrant a move.
Now they have upped the money to $200k and it seems undeniable that we would save there, and we are struggling in the UK.
However, in making a last-ditch effort to resolve this, I have found out that if I gave it a go for a year, after only six months the children would be considered resident and I would be unable to come back to the UK with them without my husband's permission.
Could anyone confirm whether this is correct? If so it would mean I can't give it a meaningful go without putting myself at this awful risk. He says he would not do that, but I do believe we are headed for a split regardless, and just like I would, I would expect him to do all he can to hang onto his kids. So he probably WOULD do that and a verbal promise not to is meaningless.
Any words of advice/clarification gladly received.
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Re: How long do kids need to live in NY state before being considered resident?
Whoa! Don't do it if you're heading for a split.
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Re: How long do kids need to live in NY state before being considered resident?
If you are "heading for a split" why would you move continents to be with him?
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Re: How long do kids need to live in NY state before being considered resident?
In order to have tried everything, and tried to keep the children with their dad... and walk away knowing I have.
Can anyone clarify the 6-month thing?
Can anyone clarify the 6-month thing?
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I have not heard of it being set in stone like that.
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I think you need to talk to a counselor.
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Re: How long do kids need to live in NY state before being considered resident?
No, I just need to know how long before the kids are considered resident. I just felt I should give a bit of background rather than ask a bald question.
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What visa would it be on?
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thanks, Sir Eccles. He is on L1 and I have L2.
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Sure, Sally, and I welcome opinions as well as facts, but I hoped it was clear from my post that I am aware it is very risky and that I should steer clear. But I can't steer clear on these grounds without being sure of my facts first.
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Ok, that's an upside you could work and be independent. Is the company filing greencards? I'm guessing after only 4 months it is too early to say.
Also how many kids and how old?
Also how many kids and how old?
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No, no green cards in the offing at the moment. Would my being independent affect whether I needed his permission to bring the boys back if we can't settle or I am too homesick?
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Oh, and two children, 6 and 1.
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Just thinking out loud, if a family on L1 and L2 visas has a divorce. I assume the L2 for the spouse would end and the spouse would have to leave. What would happen to the L2 for the kids? I don't know the answer.