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Old Aug 14th 2007, 5:34 pm
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Originally Posted by lisag8070
Wow really, in what way, sorry just curious as this seems surreal.

Mind you saying that, if I sat down and added up all the countless bills that seem to be arriving I think we'd be in the same boat..I think I'll add up all my bills for a normal month (not inc car repairs or maintenance) and see what I come up with..
We spend more per year on property taxes here than we did on our mortgage/rates/utilities combined in the UK.
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Originally Posted by lanky spoken here
I have been in USA for 3 years now, and enjoy living in the US very much.

It took me a while to adjust to the different work ethic situation and a more relaxing way of life as opposed to a constant "making ends meet" in England.

I can sympathise with people arriving and after a few years becoming unhappy with life here, BUT you have to work at it. I take a yearly holiday with my USA wife to England, visit parents and friends and enjoy it , but at the same time, I am glad to get back on a plane to Texas.

Its so depressing to wake up to grey skies, council tax bills and having to make a choice whether to eat or pay bills, as I used to do in Lancashire.

We live modestly in USA, car & truck 4 acres and detached house paid for, with nice sunshine and very few bills. <<snip>>
The material things may make you happy about living in the States. However, there's a lot more to life than that for some. I don't include religion.
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[QUOTE=lanky spoken here;5188166]I have been in USA for 3 years now, and enjoy living in the US very much.


"England has just become too expensive these days, which saddens me, as summer in England is indeed glorious and wonderful, with days out and watching football or cricket."

Are you basing, "England has just become too expensive" on the $2 to the pound exchange rate?
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P.S. Glad to know your doing good and have found your perfect place..

Thank You! Its lovely here in rural Texas, with no lungfuls of car pollution when I open the window, lol. Sometimes its like living in Dorset without the expense, lol
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Originally Posted by lanky spoken here
I have been in USA for 3 years now, and enjoy living in the US very much.


"England has just become too expensive these days, which saddens me, as summer in England is indeed glorious and wonderful, with days out and watching football or cricket."

Are you basing, "England has just become too expensive" on the $2 to the pound exchange rate?
Reg. Frank R.
When I went to the US in 2005, a terraced house in Northern England cost 50,000 quid ..2 years later its 100,000 quid.
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Thank You! Its lovely here in rural Texas, with no lungfuls of car pollution when I open the window, lol. Sometimes its like living in Dorset without the expense, lol
But aren't you so far away from everything...
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When I went to the US in 2005, a terraced house in Northern England cost 50,000 quid ..2 years later its 100,000 quid.


We bought this house in August '98...it's tripled in value now...maybe more.

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Originally Posted by southern comfort
Does "rural" mean out in the countryside like in the UK ? must be lovely then
Yeah my village population is 950 and its just like living in Shepton Mallet, Somerset...minus the cider and plus the heat, which I enjoy...roll on 105 degrees!
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But aren't you so far away from everything...
he's only 40 odd miles from downtown Houston if I'm reading his location correctly
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Originally Posted by Celsius
The material things may make you happy about living in the States. However, there's a lot more to life than that for some. I don't include religion.

and for the first time i actually agree with you
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Originally Posted by elfman
he's only 40 odd miles from downtown Houston if I'm reading his location correctly
I meant Taxas is so vast...not like here in the NE where there are so many major cities only a few hours drive away. Best of all it's only 6 hrs away from the UK.

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he's only 40 odd miles from downtown Houston if I'm reading his location correctly
if it is 40 miles from downtown houston it is way out in the boonies, believe you me
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if it is 40 miles from downtown houston it is way out in the boonies, believe you me
True but commutable.... I've read of people living 100 miles out of SF/San Jose and commuting every day, and that's really but the only way they can afford to own.
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if it is 40 miles from downtown houston it is way out in the boonies, believe you me
It is lol, I'm 15 miles from Huntsville in the Sam Houston Forest and its just beautiful

See Avatar, New Waverly population 950, its a quiet lovely place.
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It is lol, I'm 15 miles from Huntsville in the Sam Houston Forest and its just beautiful
haha i know where conroe is and huntsville the bloody prison

just given you more k coz figure you need it out there

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