Helping my UKC husband adjust to life in the US
#47
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Re: Helping my UKC husband adjust to life in the US
#52
Re: Helping my UKC husband adjust to life in the US
This, .... it's what I was about to post.
Replacing British things with a poor and/or overpriced imitation isn't IMHO going to help him adjust. It is more likely to encourage him to dwell on what he left behind and/or is missing.
I was never a soccer, rugby, or cricket fan, but I immediately replaced my interest in F1, touring cars and DTM with CART/Indy and NASCAR, and I have been to races at several tracks between PA and GA, and a good number here in NC, though having one of the biggest tracks within a day's drive (there and back same day) certainly helped.
I could never come to terms with paying $4 for a packet of McVities biscuits or similarly outrageously priced British groceries. I "caved" recently and finally bought a jar of Marmite after 13 years.
Replacing British things with a poor and/or overpriced imitation isn't IMHO going to help him adjust. It is more likely to encourage him to dwell on what he left behind and/or is missing.
I was never a soccer, rugby, or cricket fan, but I immediately replaced my interest in F1, touring cars and DTM with CART/Indy and NASCAR, and I have been to races at several tracks between PA and GA, and a good number here in NC, though having one of the biggest tracks within a day's drive (there and back same day) certainly helped.
I could never come to terms with paying $4 for a packet of McVities biscuits or similarly outrageously priced British groceries. I "caved" recently and finally bought a jar of Marmite after 13 years.
Participating, that might be a bit tricky depending on the sport and the location, but out my way, there's cricket, rugby, footy and netball all easily available in the Boston and metrowest area.
#53
Re: Helping my UKC husband adjust to life in the US
I don't think I've seen the sun in about two months! Grey grey grey. Give me a 30 degree Thanksgiving please! Although I appreciate California needs some rain.
The husband is keen to go see some MLS games. Not to replace the premiere league, but he enjoys the game. He's also a fan of basketball, which is a lot easier to find on TV then rugby.
The husband is keen to go see some MLS games. Not to replace the premiere league, but he enjoys the game. He's also a fan of basketball, which is a lot easier to find on TV then rugby.
#54
Re: Helping my UKC husband adjust to life in the US
I don't think I've seen the sun in about two months! Grey grey grey. Give me a 30 degree Thanksgiving please! Although I appreciate California needs some rain.
The husband is keen to go see some MLS games. Not to replace the premiere league, but he enjoys the game. He's also a fan of basketball, which is a lot easier to find on TV then rugby.
The husband is keen to go see some MLS games. Not to replace the premiere league, but he enjoys the game. He's also a fan of basketball, which is a lot easier to find on TV then rugby.
I understand the draw to be near family - it was a major factor in my decision to move back to the UK. It's my brother's birthday today and we're all going over for lunch. It was those things I missed being in the US.
#55
Re: Helping my UKC husband adjust to life in the US
And even though my part of the northeast coast has had an uncharacteristic drought all summer long, lately there's been so much rain I AM feeling a bit tired of it now.... In fact, tomorrow's rain is not at all welcome here on the coast, even though we don't have the 7-foot mountains of snow that poor Buffalo, NY, has to worry about. What we do have is a huge volume of still-falling autumn leaves that choke all the local road drains, turning some streets into mini rivers of unexpected depth.
Hope some of this overabundance of rain can fall on California though.... We've had enough now over this side of the country.
#56
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Re: Helping my UKC husband adjust to life in the US
Fair points. Though in this day and age, one does not have to give up on the sports that they like as most of them are easily available to watch online these days.
Participating, that might be a bit tricky depending on the sport and the location, but out my way, there's cricket, rugby, footy and netball all easily available in the Boston and metrowest area.
Participating, that might be a bit tricky depending on the sport and the location, but out my way, there's cricket, rugby, footy and netball all easily available in the Boston and metrowest area.
My doctor told me he played cricket in West Hills park.
#57
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Re: Helping my UKC husband adjust to life in the US
I don't think I've seen the sun in about two months! Grey grey grey. Give me a 30 degree Thanksgiving please! Although I appreciate California needs some rain.
The husband is keen to go see some MLS games. Not to replace the premiere league, but he enjoys the game. He's also a fan of basketball, which is a lot easier to find on TV then rugby.
The husband is keen to go see some MLS games. Not to replace the premiere league, but he enjoys the game. He's also a fan of basketball, which is a lot easier to find on TV then rugby.
The craft beer scene here is great, and growing rapidly. It's good fun searching out and trying them, even if someone else has to drive you home afterwards!
I have found meeting expats (face-to-face and in this forum) to be helpful. Sharing tips, contacts, food suppliers, bars etc. is a good way to integrate yourself into the community.
#58
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Re: Helping my UKC husband adjust to life in the US
Fair points. Though in this day and age, one does not have to give up on the sports that they like as most of them are easily available to watch online these days.
Participating, that might be a bit tricky depending on the sport and the location, but out my way, there's cricket, rugby, footy and netball all easily available in the Boston and metrowest area.
Participating, that might be a bit tricky depending on the sport and the location, but out my way, there's cricket, rugby, footy and netball all easily available in the Boston and metrowest area.
#59
Re: Helping my UKC husband adjust to life in the US
I have next to no interest in (gridiron) football, basketball or baseball, but I keep enough of an eye on the sports headlines (exactly as I did with soccer news when I lived in the UK) so I can participate in casual conversations "over the garden fence" or "at the water cooler" so I don't sound like a complete plonker who just stepped of the plane.
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Re: Helping my UKC husband adjust to life in the US
Settling into the "expat community" maybe, but that has bü99er all to with settling into living life as an American in America.
I have next to no interest in (gridiron) football, basketball or baseball, but I keep enough of an eye on the sports headlines (exactly as I did with soccer news when I lived in the UK) so I can participate in casual conversations "over the garden fence" or "at the water cooler" so I don't sound like a complete plonker who just stepped of the plane.
I have next to no interest in (gridiron) football, basketball or baseball, but I keep enough of an eye on the sports headlines (exactly as I did with soccer news when I lived in the UK) so I can participate in casual conversations "over the garden fence" or "at the water cooler" so I don't sound like a complete plonker who just stepped of the plane.