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Myself and friends were having a debate last night.

One of my friends met a girl on holiday who he may or may not have got pregnant (she is confirming this week).

He does not want to marry the mother but wants to see the kid grow up and move to the US.

I said he couldn't get a visa / green card for being the parent until the child is 21. Am I correct as he seemed to think otherwise.
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I said he couldn't get a visa / green card for being the parent until the child is 21. Am I correct as he seemed to think otherwise.
Unless he's willing to marry the child's mother (or some other USC) or find some other visa (employment-based or investment-based) to get him to the US, you are correct. A USC must be 21 in order to sponsor a parent for an immigrant visa.

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..... One of my friends met a girl on holiday who he may or may not have got pregnant. ....... He does not want to marry the mother ......
I can understand that. I wouldn't want to marry a woman who sleeps with someone she meets casually on holiday!
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Haha! Pulaski! Also something we pointed out. Maybe a bit harsh but he is a plonker.
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child support may bring him in touch with reality.
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Sounds like he read about anchor babies and thought "I'll get her pregnant and be able to move out the States ........"

Yuk ....
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There is DAPA but he will have missed the cut off.
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If I was in his shoes I'd be definitely requiring a DNA test.
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Originally Posted by Pulaski
I can understand that. I wouldn't want to marry a woman who sleeps with someone she meets casually on holiday!
Hey........ he slept with her pretty casually too - unprotected sex; so he does not sound like a keeper either
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Here come the BE misandrists.
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Originally Posted by ols-london
Myself and friends were having a debate last night.

One of my friends met a girl on holiday who he may or may not have got pregnant (she is confirming this week).

He does not want to marry the mother but wants to see the kid grow up and move to the US.

I said he couldn't get a visa / green card for being the parent until the child is 21. Am I correct as he seemed to think otherwise.
Friend seems to know FORMER law. However, it is a fairly recent change -- January 1, 1977. Many people seem to not have gotten the word.

Also, another change even more recent, unless the child is born "in wedlock," dad will have to show parental relation and interest. [The dividing point used to be "legitimate" or "legitimated." That is no longer true].
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Hey........ he slept with her pretty casually too - unprotected sex; so he does not sound like a keeper either. ....
That was kinda my point. They deserve each other, but the "relationship" such as it was, was built on a very poor foundation, springs, padding, hormones, and alcohol presumably.

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Something like that! In Amsterdam. We lost him for a day or so and he appeared with her!
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What happens in Amsterdam stays in Amsterdam.

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