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Old Mar 19th 2018, 2:43 am
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Hubby calls me the boss at times... At least he knows his place. Lol 🤣🤣
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Old Mar 19th 2018, 12:04 pm
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I hear it a lot by people back home, but have yet to hear it here.
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Old Mar 19th 2018, 1:29 pm
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My husband used to introduce me as his 'little bowl of acid'. He stopped after a while but it entertained him at the time. The Boss, The Little Lady, My Good Wife etc etc, they're all vaguely patronising but relatively harmless.
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As lansbury (I never know if your name starts with a lower case 'l' or a capital 'I') pointed out, SWMBO is pretty close.

I occasionally, jokingly and with much love, refer to mine as my accountant, but a) I'm shite with money so I need to be watched and b) I was raised in a very matriarchal family, so I'm not either unfamiliar with, nor bothered by the idea of a woman in charge and if my wife is either figuratively or literally 'the boss', I'm all good
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Default Re: Why do many American men refer to their wife's as their "boss"?

Originally Posted by moneypenny20
My husband used to introduce me as his 'little bowl of acid'.
Wasn't that one of the epithets Basil used for Sybil in Fawlty Towers?
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Originally Posted by rpjs
Wasn't that one of the epithets Basil used for Sybil in Fawlty Towers?
It certainly sounds like one of them. I can picture him saying it through a forced smile.
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'My first wife' - always gets that annoyed stare.
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I sometimes call my wife The Boss, but she is Bruce Springsteen.
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Originally Posted by chawkins99
'My first wife' - always gets that annoyed stare.
As does "current wife"

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The worst thing you can get from a wife/girlfriend is the F word.

"Fine." Even worse is when it's combined with folding the arms.
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Can't say I've ever heard it someone refer to their wife as the boss in the US, certainly did in the UK though.

One of the common ones here I've heard seems to be 'old lady'. They're either a member of the Hell's Angels or some other Motorcycle Club, or their wives are just old...?
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Originally Posted by BenK91

One of the common ones here I've heard seems to be 'old lady'. They're either a member of the Hell's Angels or some other Motorcycle Club, or their wives are just old...?
That was such a thing in the sixties. For those of us who happily used the term then, it has become a little more appropriate than we’d care to admit now!
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Originally Posted by Nutmegger
That was such a thing in the sixties. For those of us who happily used the term then, it has become a little more appropriate than we’d care to admit now!
swiftly followed by a black-eye if you were to say it now?
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swiftly followed by a black-eye if you were to say it now?
That and a week-long freeze out!
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Old Mar 20th 2018, 2:01 am
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Default Re: Why do many American men refer to their wife's as their "boss"?

Originally Posted by rpjs
Wasn't that one of the epithets Basil used for Sybil in Fawlty Towers?
I think so, much of his repartee comes from that or Life of Brian.
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