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Old Jul 25th 2017, 6:41 pm
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So after renting for the last 7 years, we finally bought a house 3 months ago. After painting all the rooms, getting new carpets, emptying all the boxes and making the house presentable, we decided to have a housewarming party. First, we invited friends, then we invited our kids friends and their parents, then we decided to invite our some of our neighbors. We went to 6 houses nearest to us and invited them to come to our party. I'll be honest, I didn't expect them to show up. 2 of our neighbors had already been over with gifts (food and flowers) to welcome us to the neighborhood.

Anyway, the day of the party comes and EVERY SINGLE NEIGHBOR we invited came to the party. Some stayed a little while, some stayed a long time. They all brought food or a gift, or alcohol. A couple of them commented on the fact that no one else who has moved in the neighborhood over the last few years has had a housewarming party. One older lady said she had never been invited to a housewarming before. I wondered if it is perhaps a British thing. Our house was packed. There were not enough seats for everyone to sit but no one seemed to mind. Everyone was drinking, eating some of the food that guests brought over, and chatting away. It is now just over a week since we had the party, and all the leftover food is gone, but I have no idea how long it will take us to get through all the alcohol that is left. We have a bottle of Moet in the cupboard, but I am considering keeping that until we get citizenship in 2 years.

If me, my husband or our kids are outside on the porch and a neighbor goes by, they always wave and shout hello to us. Our immediate neighbor thanks us for inviting them everytime she sees me, which is a lot. My kids have said we have set a precedent for people moving into the neighborhood now and everyone will need to have a party. She has also said that we need to have more parties, now that we know they can be a success!

Are housewarming parties a British thing? Surely Americans must have them too?
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Old Jul 25th 2017, 6:48 pm
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Congrats on buying your house! I'm hoping to buy one myself sometime next year

In my limited time (19 months) in Texas - I would say it's definitely a British thing.

I know 3 people who've got new houses in the last year, and nada - no party, nothing. Nice neighborhood, friendly people/neighbors etc.

I was waiting for an invite, ended up going to the pub* with them instead.

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Yes, Americans had the housewarming tradition many years back. Unfortunately, it seems to have drifted to the wayside and there might be a few neighbors, like yours when you first moved in, who will bring a dish to the door and welcome you to the neighborhood.

I thought when we purchased our home five years ago that we would have some neighbors stop by and say hello. Nothing, not even a wave when they drive pass and you're mowing or standing in the driveway. I was very disappointed. I guess people are so insular today that they no longer communicate on a face to face basis which is a shame.

I'm glad you revived it in SC. Your neighbors seemed to delight in viewing your home and getting to know you and you them.
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I was considering throwing one, but the Mrs convinced me the neighbors would find it weird.
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I've been to many housewarming parties in the US, and held one myself when I bought my current place.
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I was considering throwing one, but the Mrs convinced me the neighbors would find it weird.
Just invite the men over for poker night & beer/bbq instead.

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Being Mt P residents ourselves, i feel vaguely miffed that we weren't invited...

Congratulations on the house purchase, we found it a relief after renting and worrying about the landlord renewing or pushing the price up. We bought a couple of years ago and had a belated housewarming/christmas thing that we invited the neighbours to. Whilst we didn't get the 100% turn out that you did, we did get similar sentiments.
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Being Mt P residents ourselves, i feel vaguely miffed that we weren't invited...

Congratulations on the house purchase, we found it a relief after renting and worrying about the landlord renewing or pushing the price up. We bought a couple of years ago and had a belated housewarming/christmas thing that we invited the neighbours to. Whilst we didn't get the 100% turn out that you did, we did get similar sentiments.

You live in Mt P? Hope you enjoy it here. We certainly do. Kids are currently not at all excited about the prospect of being back at school in a couple weeks. I am looking forward to it. Although they do think that we should now start planning a Halloween party. It never ends!

Apparently, I was incorrect about our 100% turnout. I guess it was actually more like 80% as my husband has informed me that 2 neighbors did not come. I may have had a couple beers before guests started arriving.
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Good of you to test the beverages before the guests arrived

Yes, we are in the Creekside neighbourhood and enjoying it a lot. We will have one returning to Middle School shortly and middle daughter joining her elder sister at High School. The latter is about to take her driving test (aged 15!!).

Hallowe'en is a big thing in the neighbourhood, first a kid's candy crawl and later a grown up party that we have never been brave enough to attend. Maybe this year...
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Good of you to test the beverages before the guests arrived

Yes, we are in the Creekside neighbourhood and enjoying it a lot. We will have one returning to Middle School shortly and middle daughter joining her elder sister at High School. The latter is about to take her driving test (aged 15!!).

Hallowe'en is a big thing in the neighbourhood, first a kid's candy crawl and later a grown up party that we have never been brave enough to attend. Maybe this year...
Moultrie Middle? I will have a 7th & 8th grader there this year.
I have no idea what this neighborhood is like at Halloween. I'm already threatening my husband that I am going to get ridiculous decorations for our house and yard!
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Originally Posted by tom169
I was considering throwing one, but the Mrs convinced me the neighbors would find it weird.
Probably if you worded it as a housewarming party. Why not do something for Labor Day. Slip an invite into each neighbor's mailbox and tell them you are inviting them to a BBQ so that you can meet the neighbors. Make sure you have burgers, hot dogs, sausage, bread/rolls, salads and soda, ice tea and beer handy. If not many come, you can freeze what you don't cook.
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Moultrie Middle? I will have a 7th & 8th grader there this year.
I have no idea what this neighborhood is like at Halloween. I'm already threatening my husband that I am going to get ridiculous decorations for our house and yard!
That's the one. Son will be starting 7th grade, daughters terrorising Wando. I look forward with undisguised joy at my wife's purchase of this year's addition to the Halloween decorations
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