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iiz Oct 15th 2017 9:36 pm

Bit of advice please
 
My husband wants to within the next few years start spending 3 months in Thailand and 3 months here in the UK, rolling. The thing is he wants to have a relationship there while maintaining our marriage here and returning to the family home while he is spending his time in the UK. Do you think this is actually practical in any sense? God any advice on this matter would be appreciated I am going out of my mind trying to work this out with out involving friends

Pulaski Oct 15th 2017 10:25 pm

Re: Bit of advice please
 

Originally Posted by iiz (Post 12361726)
.... he wants to have a relationship there while maintaining our marriage here .....

I'm sorry, but does that mean what I think it means? :blink:

If it does mean what I think it means then IMO he has a decision to make, or you make the decision for him!

DandNHill Oct 16th 2017 3:07 am

Re: Bit of advice please
 

Originally Posted by Pulaski (Post 12361742)
I'm sorry, but does that mean what I think it means? :blink:

If it does mean what I think it means then IMO he has a decision to make, or you make the decision for him!

I'm thinking what Pulaski is thinking. It would be a huge no no to me!
Hubby would have to chose me or another person...
How long have you been married? Is this the kind of thing he has done throughout?

scrubbedexpat100 Oct 16th 2017 1:58 pm

Re: Bit of advice please
 

Originally Posted by Pulaski (Post 12361742)
I'm sorry, but does that mean what I think it means? :blink:

If it does mean what I think it means then IMO he has a decision to make, or you make the decision for him!



Originally Posted by DandNHill (Post 12361827)
I'm thinking what Pulaski is thinking. It would be a huge no no to me!
Hubby would have to chose me or another person...
How long have you been married? Is this the kind of thing he has done throughout?



Agree with above. The expression that springs to mind is, can't have your cake and eat it too!!

scot47 Oct 16th 2017 5:19 pm

Re: Bit of advice please
 
Some people are into polygamous marriages. In your place I would tell him to hit the road and not come back

Joe Vgn Nov 13th 2017 7:40 am

Re: Bit of advice please
 
Strange wedding concept, you maybe should reconsider your relationship with your husband !


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