|Jan 26th 2010, 1:31 pm||#1|
Joined: Feb 2000
Forum Usage Guidelines - READ BEFORE POSTING!
The Marriage Based forum is an "information exchange" for members to discuss and share their immigration experiences. Moving abroad is a serious, and sometimes complicated endeavour, and we ask that members (in addition to our site rules) adhere to the following guidelines in order that this section can remain an important and useful discussion resource:
Thank you for reading.
|Jan 29th 2011, 8:38 pm||#3|
Re: Forum Usage Guidelines - READ BEFORE POSTING!
Some excellent resources for old members and new alike. Please consider reading these:
The Help Vampire: A Spotter’s Guide
Help Vampires are found in every public online community, from those nearest to our hearts to those furthest from our principles.
Instead of consuming of ill-gotten hemoglobin, these vampires suck the very life and energy out of people. By nature they feed on generous individuals who tend towards helping others, and leave their victims exhausted, bitter and dispirited.
#2: Cease Enabling Behavior
Reward self-help and helping others.
Be friendly. People and Help Vampires are much more likely to become useful members of the community if they’re met with kindness and encouragement rather than condescension and spite.
(Thanks, Sue, for this find!)
Thanks to nettlebed for this contribution:
How to ask a question
When posting questions to a professional forum or newsgroup it is vital to format the question and it's content in a proper way in order to greatly increase the possibility for quickly receiving a good answer, and thus saving you time and frustration.
It's because of the cloudy.