Who was your first?
Jan 30th 2018, 5:28 am
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Who was your first?
A comment from Miss Anne had me thinking.
Who was your first and how did it happen? No need to be too specific (keep it workplace safe).
Who was your first and how did it happen? No need to be too specific (keep it workplace safe).
Jan 30th 2018, 7:17 am
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Who was yours?
Jan 30th 2018, 7:18 am
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Jan 30th 2018, 7:20 am
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Re: Who was your first?
I think it was your mom if i recall correctly, or your sister. Or maybe both together 
Anyhow your dad has the video of it so just check with him
Anyhow your dad has the video of it so just check with him
Jan 30th 2018, 7:22 am
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That made me chuckle.
But I'm curious as to whether it was man or woman. Guess it depends when someone knows their preference for sure. I wonder how many gay people have had straight relationships first compared to those who just know their preference from when preferences become a thing in those teenage years.
But I'm curious as to whether it was man or woman. Guess it depends when someone knows their preference for sure. I wonder how many gay people have had straight relationships first compared to those who just know their preference from when preferences become a thing in those teenage years.
Jan 30th 2018, 7:32 am
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Re: Who was your first?
That made me chuckle.
But I'm curious as to whether it was man or woman. Guess it depends when someone knows their preference for sure. I wonder how many gay people have had straight relationships first compared to those who just know their preference from when preferences become a thing in those teenage years.
But I'm curious as to whether it was man or woman. Guess it depends when someone knows their preference for sure. I wonder how many gay people have had straight relationships first compared to those who just know their preference from when preferences become a thing in those teenage years.
Jan 30th 2018, 7:50 am
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Re: Who was your first?
Both happen. Quite a few started out with the opposite gender due to societal pressures and denial (or confusion stemming from societal pressures). But far less likely these days as it is decidedly a much more open (and theoretically tolerant) world.
Jan 30th 2018, 8:50 am
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Re: Who was your first?
Anyway.
Mine was a girlfriend at college when I was 16.
Who was yours?
Jan 30th 2018, 8:59 am
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That's what I'd have guessed. Lots of people starting with the opposite because of pressure but much less pressure today (or much more inclusiveness / acceptance today, depends which way you look at it).
Anyway.
Mine was a girlfriend at college when I was 16.
Who was yours?
Anyway.
Mine was a girlfriend at college when I was 16.
Who was yours?
Then she invited me to her rooms and that's when I panicked and came up with some cockamamie story about needing to be somewhere to help a mate.
A week later at a party, a third year eyed me and said you're coming back to my college. I said I suppose I am. And I never looked back.
Jan 30th 2018, 9:09 am
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Jan 30th 2018, 9:54 am
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My first was also at college, although unlike DXB's it was at Newnham. Fairly unrememberable for both parties. The savage shit came later for me.
Jan 30th 2018, 10:16 am
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Has anyone kept track of former lovers to see what they're up to these days? FB is a huge help. So is LinkedIn.