scrubbedexpat141

"batty boys"

Charl01

Nah Mission it is ok, I don't do men, boys or anything with a bigger d*ck that my own

mission

Miss Ann Thrope

Dearest Mission, reluctantly I must play nanny again and point out that it's really not ok to normalise that expression especially given the horrors so many gay Jamaicans have had to go through (since that's where the term comes from). Many kids in school have a miserable childhood and adolescence having that term hurled at them along with all the other attendant abuse and bullying that usually follows. It hurts; it really does.

I can understand the casual use among friends and I'm sure your gay friends are quite ok with you jokingly using it with them. But here on this impersonal forum it comes across very differently. Wouldn't your point have sounded just as funny saying "Saudi pretty boys" or even just "Saudi boys"?

Just saying....

IKnowNothing

Oh for goodness sake!

mission

MISS ANNE since i like you i give you my heartfelt apology

mission

it's ok - MISS ANNE, like everyone else on this forum can convey how they feel/think - no harm done

Miss Ann Thrope

OK, I wish that you would have an experience that enables you to know what it feels like having that term thrown at you every day for your school life. LGBT kids commit suicide at more than 5 times the average rate.



Ok, I counted to 10 and just deleted the sentence I had written to follow that.

Miss Ann Thrope

No apology needed habibti, just to remember that the crowd on here sometimes may not be as enlightened as those you mix with socially so let's not feed them alibis for spewing their hateful bile....

IKnowNothing

If the liberal left hadn't started wrapping kids in cotton wool all those years ago (no one loses in a sports day, you're all winners), then the problem wouldn't have escalated to where it is today.

LBGT kids? oh come on, it's the new, "I'm different, don't discriminate me cos I'm different". Toilets can be used by whoever the individual relates too? Really?

Why change rules of acceptance to "include" the 0.01% - or whatever?

That's democracy isn't it, the minority doesn't run the country - even though they're more vocal.

1,2,3,4....

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ETA, I have no problem with anyone worshipping or idolising or getting up to anything pretty much (obvious exceptions), but don't force your views on others. I don't, i live and let live, what someone does in their bedrooms is entirely up to them, as long as consenting adults are included.

You want to wear a frock? Fine, it's been done for years, but some mother and daughter in the Ladies don't want to see some hairy arsed builder after 8 guiness and a curry the previous night in their loos!

jam25mack

Is the term 'shirt lifter' acceptable?

scrubbedexpat141

You're either trolling hard or so obsessed with this sort of thing you can't see the irony here?

Miss Ann Thrope

Again, you want to defend the use of hate speech by diverting the argument to some stupid alt-right point about toilets and changing rooms. You just want the right to bully people who are different from you and not get called out for it. Sorry, that era has passed thankfully.

Miss Ann Thrope

Meet me outside and try it...

jam25mack

Try what? Asking you the same question or attempting to lift your shirt? And what reaction should I be expecting? A punch or a smile?

I'm sure the LBGT community has tons of terms for hetrosexuals too tho. So what are they?