What was the final straw for you?
#91
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Re: What was the final straw for you?
Originally Posted by TraceyW
LOL!! Totally agree. There is no soul. No heart to this place. We are going over East as soon as I've finished uni. I will go completely ga-ga if I stay here for ever. After all, there's only so much 'laid back' I can do!
#92
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Re: What was the final straw for you?
I went back to the UK in July for a month and I really felt like I'd buried the ghost of going home. I couldn't wait to get back to Oz. The first month or so back here were great. It was good to be back with hubby and in my house again. But as the months have rolled on I am getting all those feelings again of "is this it? Is this my lot in life?". We have decided to go over to Brisbane on a rekkie next year, if we like it, we'll move over. If we don't it's back to Blighty for us. Hubby is desperately hoping I like Brisbane. He really doesn't want to go home. Time will tell.
#93
Re: What was the final straw for you?
Originally Posted by TraceyW
LOL!! Totally agree. There is no soul. No heart to this place. We are going over East as soon as I've finished uni. I will go completely ga-ga if I stay here for ever. After all, there's only so much 'laid back' I can do!
#94
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Re: What was the final straw for you?
Originally Posted by toandfro
I hate to tell you this but it's no better over here the differece between UK and Aust. is that in UK 5miles is a world of difference here 5000miles makes no difference at all.
#95
Re: What was the final straw for you?
Originally Posted by TraceyW
Oh heck! I was hoping that having The Gold Coast, Surfers Parasite, rainforests and mountains may help me a bit.
#96
Re: What was the final straw for you?
just read the whole thread, and i'm now definitely keeping my house in the uk.
we've only been here 2 months, and i must admit, we have settled really well. both working, living in a nice area, kids settled......but............i just don't get this overwhelming desire to make this my permanent home.
i want to experience everything i can, but i know deep down, that one day i will go "home".....and i agree, that home is where your heart is.
there is nothing here that i dislike, we have friends, enjoy ourselves when we have days off, but i just have a feeling deep down, that this is not going to be forever.
we've only been here 2 months, and i must admit, we have settled really well. both working, living in a nice area, kids settled......but............i just don't get this overwhelming desire to make this my permanent home.
i want to experience everything i can, but i know deep down, that one day i will go "home".....and i agree, that home is where your heart is.
there is nothing here that i dislike, we have friends, enjoy ourselves when we have days off, but i just have a feeling deep down, that this is not going to be forever.
#97
Re: What was the final straw for you?
Originally Posted by tinkerbell
just read the whole thread, and i'm now definitely keeping my house in the uk.
we've only been here 2 months, and i must admit, we have settled really well. both working, living in a nice area, kids settled......but............i just don't get this overwhelming desire to make this my permanent home.
i want to experience everything i can, but i know deep down, that one day i will go "home".....and i agree, that home is where your heart is.
there is nothing here that i dislike, we have friends, enjoy ourselves when we have days off, but i just have a feeling deep down, that this is not going to be forever.
we've only been here 2 months, and i must admit, we have settled really well. both working, living in a nice area, kids settled......but............i just don't get this overwhelming desire to make this my permanent home.
i want to experience everything i can, but i know deep down, that one day i will go "home".....and i agree, that home is where your heart is.
there is nothing here that i dislike, we have friends, enjoy ourselves when we have days off, but i just have a feeling deep down, that this is not going to be forever.
#98
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Joined: Oct 2006
Location: Kings Moss, UK - it's a bit like Emmerdale
Posts: 1,389
Re: What was the final straw for you?
Originally Posted by tinkerbell
just read the whole thread, and i'm now definitely keeping my house in the uk.
we've only been here 2 months, and i must admit, we have settled really well. both working, living in a nice area, kids settled......but............i just don't get this overwhelming desire to make this my permanent home.
i want to experience everything i can, but i know deep down, that one day i will go "home".....and i agree, that home is where your heart is.
there is nothing here that i dislike, we have friends, enjoy ourselves when we have days off, but i just have a feeling deep down, that this is not going to be forever.
we've only been here 2 months, and i must admit, we have settled really well. both working, living in a nice area, kids settled......but............i just don't get this overwhelming desire to make this my permanent home.
i want to experience everything i can, but i know deep down, that one day i will go "home".....and i agree, that home is where your heart is.
there is nothing here that i dislike, we have friends, enjoy ourselves when we have days off, but i just have a feeling deep down, that this is not going to be forever.
We sold up and have lost loadsamoney.
#99
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Re: What was the final straw for you?
We've been very lucky on house sales and purchases. We've doubled our money since being here. Perth property market has worked well for us.
Let's just hope it doesn't crash in the next two years!
I still reckon that the decision to go home is harder than the decision to come here. Every single day I wonder what should we do? As the years roll on our kids are getting more Ozziefied, my hubby gets more settled and I get more confused!
My hubby still thinks of the UK like this: immigrants, crime, filth, rain, rain,rain, frosts, expensive, box like houses, more rain, grey, and crap. Can't you just tell he loves his homeland!
Let's just hope it doesn't crash in the next two years!
I still reckon that the decision to go home is harder than the decision to come here. Every single day I wonder what should we do? As the years roll on our kids are getting more Ozziefied, my hubby gets more settled and I get more confused!
My hubby still thinks of the UK like this: immigrants, crime, filth, rain, rain,rain, frosts, expensive, box like houses, more rain, grey, and crap. Can't you just tell he loves his homeland!
#100
Re: What was the final straw for you?
Originally Posted by LouiseD
Keep it, keep it and keep it again!!
We sold up and have lost loadsamoney.
We sold up and have lost loadsamoney.
the only reason we didn't sell, was because we were in a fortunate position and didn't need the cash to come over, and i didn't have the nerve to cut all my ties.
i love my house, spent a lot of money on it, renovating and extending it, and i know that if i sold it now, and then wanted to buy it again, i wouldn't be able to afford it. I would hate to move back, see my home, and know that i would never be able to afford to live there.
i know some people think i might not be committed to making
oz work, but i'm protecting my interests further down the line. i get comfort from knowing that my home is there, if and when i'm ready to go home.
#101
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Re: What was the final straw for you?
Originally Posted by tinkerbell
thanks,
the only reason we didn't sell, was because we were in a fortunate position and didn't need the cash to come over, and i didn't have the nerve to cut all my ties.
i love my house, spent a lot of money on it, renovating and extending it, and i know that if i sold it now, and then wanted to buy it again, i wouldn't be able to afford it. I would hate to move back, see my home, and know that i would never be able to afford to live there.
i know some people think i might not be committed to making
oz work, but i'm protecting my interests further down the line. i get comfort from knowing that my home is there, if and when i'm ready to go home.
the only reason we didn't sell, was because we were in a fortunate position and didn't need the cash to come over, and i didn't have the nerve to cut all my ties.
i love my house, spent a lot of money on it, renovating and extending it, and i know that if i sold it now, and then wanted to buy it again, i wouldn't be able to afford it. I would hate to move back, see my home, and know that i would never be able to afford to live there.
i know some people think i might not be committed to making
oz work, but i'm protecting my interests further down the line. i get comfort from knowing that my home is there, if and when i'm ready to go home.
#102
Re: What was the final straw for you?
Originally Posted by TraceyW
You sensible lady you!
#103
Re: What was the final straw for you?
Originally Posted by tinkerbell
thanks,
the only reason we didn't sell, was because we were in a fortunate position and didn't need the cash to come over, and i didn't have the nerve to cut all my ties.
i love my house, spent a lot of money on it, renovating and extending it, and i know that if i sold it now, and then wanted to buy it again, i wouldn't be able to afford it. I would hate to move back, see my home, and know that i would never be able to afford to live there.
i know some people think i might not be committed to making
oz work, but i'm protecting my interests further down the line. i get comfort from knowing that my home is there, if and when i'm ready to go home.
the only reason we didn't sell, was because we were in a fortunate position and didn't need the cash to come over, and i didn't have the nerve to cut all my ties.
i love my house, spent a lot of money on it, renovating and extending it, and i know that if i sold it now, and then wanted to buy it again, i wouldn't be able to afford it. I would hate to move back, see my home, and know that i would never be able to afford to live there.
i know some people think i might not be committed to making
oz work, but i'm protecting my interests further down the line. i get comfort from knowing that my home is there, if and when i'm ready to go home.
#104
Re: What was the final straw for you?
Originally Posted by TraceyW
My hubby still thinks of the UK like this: immigrants, crime, filth, rain, rain,rain, frosts, expensive, box like houses, more rain, grey, and crap. Can't you just tell he loves his homeland!
Above all tell him to stop reading the F___ing Daily Mail
Last edited by FPM; Nov 8th 2006 at 11:57 pm.
#105
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Joined: Jun 2006
Location: Qld oz
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Re: What was the final straw for you?
Originally Posted by TraceyW
LOL!! Totally agree. There is no soul. No heart to this place. We are going over East as soon as I've finished uni. I will go completely ga-ga if I stay here for ever. After all, there's only so much 'laid back' I can do!