Originally Posted by BlueScottyGirl
Can't say I've ever been a fan of the CSA because of the way they persue fathers and the fact that the children don't get everything the CSA collect. It's good to know that you gentlemen have found a way to deal directly with your childrens mothers. At least all the money you're paying out for the upkeep and financial security of the children you created is going straight where it's needed.
Shame you have to go all the way to Ireland though. what about contact with your children? sorry if that's such a personal question but won't you miss them if you can't see them as much as you enjoy now? I know Irelands only a skip across the water but it's not exactly down the road, is it?
Ah well, good luck to you both. Hope you still manage to keep a standard of living what with all that maintenance you're paying and the high cost of living over here...still, you won't be wanting to start dating and raising another family now, would you?..you'd be really lucky if you could afford it all! At least any woman you take up with will be able to see how you treat the family back in Britain and know that should things not work out, she'll be well taken care off.
BSG (Bloody Stupid Git)
Go f**k yerself! How dare you be so rude.
You know 10% of a story and nothing about the CSA.
They were taking £200 a week from me and giving my ex £90 which she spent on drugs while my kids went hungry. The other £110 week went to the govt coffers to account for "other" missing parents.
I pay maintennace to my ex as that is a Court Order and nothing to do with the CSA.
I have a trust fund set up for the kids which gets regular substantial payments which they get when they are 18 so my thieving ex can't get hold of it.
My ex stopped me seeing the kids by spinning a web of lies.
I managed to get ONE of them to live with me as the Social Services saw fit to split up a brother and sister as my ex nearly killed my daughter.
We now live in Australia and all are hurting not seeing the one left in London but the ex simply wont let us.
Ignorant twat you are.
What goes round comes round............Famous saying in Ireland.