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Old Dec 3rd 2016, 1:34 pm   #1
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I know a few of you at least have been wanting me to do an update so here it is.

We left Dunedin on the 29th October, the day after we had left our house for the last time, it took us only 10 days to sell the house but we agreed with the buyer for us to stay in there until we left the country. Because we have a baby boy we decided to break the journey up and have a bit of a holiday, we did 10 days on Australia's Sunshine Coast and then 4 nights in Central Hong Kong.

We'd never been able to afford a holiday to Australia before so this was our first visit and we were totally blown away with the place, it didn't take long to realise why so many Kiwi's head over there. The weather, access to busy places, the much lower costs of things and from what I could gather people made a lot more money. I don't have one bad thing to say about the place, we looked in the Estate Agents windows and property around the very nice area (Mooloolaba) we were staying looked pretty reasonable. So before leaving Australia I think we both realised getting our NZ citizenship earlier this year was probably a good decision, we'd only really put in for citizenship as when our boy was born he was granted citizenship so it made sense for us all to have it. We then had 4 nights in Hong Kong, after 5 years living at the end of the earth in Dunedin where nothing ever really happens Hong Kong was the shock to the system we needed, our baby boy loved it, it was an assault on our senses and he just loved getting in his front pack attached to my front and going off walking around the busy city streets. We even managed to take him to HK Disneyland.

So we eventually arrived back in Manchester on the 12th November, when we finally touched down we felt a huge sense of being 'home', when we took off from Dunedin we felt nothing, not one emotion, it was pretty tough leaving our house that we had put so much effort into but leaving the country didn't ignite even one bit of emotion which surprised us both.

We're now back living at my mums house, she's moved out to her sisters and we have the house to ourselves. I can't begin to tell you the difference we feel living in a warm insulated double glazed modern house, it's been lovely. She's got big solar panels so we get free electricity during the day, she has a fancy hot electric water system and a powerful combi boiler for the heating all run via wifi. She gets her electricity, gas, mobile, broadband, telephone for much less than I was just paying for electricity in NZ, it just doesn't make sense. Being back in the UK is still taking some getting used to though, everywhere is just so much busier than we remembered, you find yourself being a bit more cautious around people but other than that nothing much has changed. Seeing so many fancy cars was weird though, I think I became used to so many 20+ year old battered 4x4 'trucks' everywhere.

The biggest difference we've found so far as expected is the cost of almost everything, everything is just so cheap. We both went to Aldi the other week and we just couldn't believe it. We'd shopped at Aldi in Australia and things were about half the price of NZ but Aldi in the UK is even cheaper. We took a trolley round and bought loads of groceries, before going through the checkout we both guessed the stuff in the trolley would have come to around NZ$160 in Countdown. The checkout girl scanned everything through within about 4 seconds (honestly, the checkout people are like machines) and it came to £34, at first I thought she must have missed some items off. Money became a huge problem for us in NZ and out of all our problems we had especially having a baby without any family support around us money was always the issue that caused the most problems between the wife and I. I hated arguing over it so much and I still hate how much of an issue it became, we had enough issues to deal with when we became parents but sadly money was the biggest problem we had.

We have no jobs lined up, we just packed up and left. I'd been applying for loads of jobs all over the UK and I'd had a couple of nibbles but nothing solid. On our third day back I got on the train to Sheffield and went to meet a recruitment agency, he promised to find me something but I quickly realised it's not what I wanted, I should go for my Plan B. I'll explain what my Plan B is, in the last few weeks before leaving our house in Dunedin a valuer came out to look at the place, funnily enough he was a bloke called Mike Barnsley. We got chatting about one thing and another and he commented on the tiling in the kitchen, toilet and bathroom. I explained I'd done it myself as the tiling quotes I had got were staggering, he was that impressed with my handy work he said I should take it up full time explaining how there was a massive shortage of tilers in NZ and Aus. After a bit of research I found out it was the same in the UK, so I booked myself onto a tiling course for when we arrived back in the UK. And that's where I've been for the last 2 weeks, learning how to run a successful and very profitable tiling operation. I can't bare the thought of working for anymore crap bosses, no more working with angry, useless colleagues, I've had as much as I can take. Two of my 4 jobs in NZ have been for companies with serious financial problems, I've worked with some total prats and I've worked for managers and owners that must struggle to wipe their owns arses. So that's that, I'm going to be my own boss from now on, I've not even got any business cards ready, no website, I've done zero marketing and without even trying I'm already getting work coming in, I've got a grands worth of work to do next week and when I'm fully operational the work is going to be flooding in. I start my first job on Tuesday doing a hall and kitchen floor.

I don't think we'll be back in the UK forever but for now it's the right place for us to be, our boy need to get to know his family and I'm in a position where I can change careers which puts us in a much stronger position when we head off again. We don't regret anything about our move to NZ, it's taught us so many valuable lessons and we've had plenty of ups and downs, there will always be a place in my heart for NZ.
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Old Dec 3rd 2016, 9:18 pm   #2
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What a great update Matt. So pleased that you're settling back in quickly. Good on you for acquiring a new skill and starting a business from it. I wish you every success with it.

I've been to Aussie a couple of times now and it's a great country. OH lived in Sydney from 18 months old for 5 years. Sadly his parents never thought to apply for citizenship . I think of Australia as a grown-up country in comparison to NZ.

Enjoy your little boy's first 'proper' Christmas
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Old Dec 4th 2016, 8:24 am   #3
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Good one Matt, very heartwarming update and good to hear that things are on the up for you.
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Old Dec 4th 2016, 2:33 pm   #4
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Welcome back! Your update sums up pretty much our experiences and feelings. We've been back 6 months now. It has been hard going especially on the job front for DH but I am very happy to be back in the UK. We too are in Manchester but finding it way too busy so will be moving to quieter British pastures next month. Good luck
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Always impressed when people change careers and make a success of it. Well done!
Tiling eh..,might be my way of getting out of the public sector!
Will be good for you to have that as an option if and when you move to Aus.
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If I may interject with a boring bit of BIP advice: if your son was born in NZ then he will only be a British citizen by descent meaning if he has own children abroad and the other parent isn't British-born then your grandchildren won't be entitled to British citizenship unless your son has spent three consecutive years in the UK before they are born.

It sounds like you may stay put for the foreseeable future and so will likely achieve this easily but if you do plan on leaving again then it would be a good idea to start to put together evidence of your son's UK residence now. Difficult when he's so young but saving any official correspondence with his name on in a file, doctor's letters for instance, could prove very worthwhile later on.
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If I may interject with a boring bit of BIP advice: if your son was born in NZ then he will only be a British citizen by descent meaning if he has own children abroad and the other parent isn't British-born then your grandchildren won't be entitled to British citizenship unless your son has spent three consecutive years in the UK before they are born.

It sounds like you may stay put for the foreseeable future and so will likely achieve this easily but if you do plan on leaving again then it would be a good idea to start to put together evidence of your son's UK residence now. Difficult when he's so young but saving any official correspondence with his name on in a file, doctor's letters for instance, could prove very worthwhile later on.
Thanks for the advice. Didn't know any of that.
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Five years?! WTF, I thought you had been in Dunedin for one or two, tops. How time flies!

Glad to hear your exit went smoothly and to plan. I do love NZ but I don't miss it.
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Great update Matt, thanks for all of that - very informative.
Best of luck with settling back in and good luck with the tiling career.
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