Kiwi Men???
Apr 15th 2006, 4:44 am
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Originally Posted by camelot
This answer will probably get me into trouble...but here's my opinion and it's horribly stereotyped and un-PC, but honest......here goes.....
Well, physically they look like they fell out the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down! (only kidding...not)
They belch, swear, watch and play rugby, fish, and cook a mean bbq for which they want to be regarded as cooking-gods.
They are not renowned for being cassanovas, and as for being "friends", they're quite "blokey" which means I dunno if they'd just wanna be "friends with girls", they tend to want to be seen as macho types.
Well, physically they look like they fell out the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down! (only kidding...not)
They belch, swear, watch and play rugby, fish, and cook a mean bbq for which they want to be regarded as cooking-gods.
They are not renowned for being cassanovas, and as for being "friends", they're quite "blokey" which means I dunno if they'd just wanna be "friends with girls", they tend to want to be seen as macho types.
Hi Camelot....... That was very witty regarding the "....this ANSWER will ....get me in trouble....." very funny... lol And I happen to love the "macho" type...... So I'm hoping for a good match between us.... Thank you for the input.....Much appreciated... Cheers......
Apr 15th 2006, 5:18 am
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Originally Posted by CelestialAnnie
And I happen to love the "macho" type......
Kind regards - Camelot
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Apr 15th 2006, 5:34 am
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Originally Posted by camelot
You'll be in heaven down here then - there's loads of macho types!
Kind regards - Camelot
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Apr 15th 2006, 10:07 am
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Me and my mates once were coming up to a group of matlos (navy boys) joggin along the footpath/road, and as we went past we browneyed/moonied them! (dropped our knickers and stuck our bums out the windows of the car).
Next thing we knew, the bloody car came to a grinding halt!. We quickly rearranged our attire as this bunch of fit, flabless lads approached us. Turned out we had a blocked fueline, which they fixed for us and wished us well on our journey!
What a great bunch of guys! And not one of them laughed or took the piss out of us for our antics and the timing of the car's seizure! Real gentlemen *sigh*
Next thing we knew, the bloody car came to a grinding halt!. We quickly rearranged our attire as this bunch of fit, flabless lads approached us. Turned out we had a blocked fueline, which they fixed for us and wished us well on our journey!
What a great bunch of guys! And not one of them laughed or took the piss out of us for our antics and the timing of the car's seizure! Real gentlemen *sigh*
Apr 15th 2006, 10:22 am
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Originally Posted by kiwichild
Me and my mates once were coming up to a group of matlos (navy boys) joggin along the footpath/road, and as we went past we browneyed/moonied them! (dropped our knickers and stuck our bums out the windows of the car).
Next thing we knew, the bloody car came to a grinding halt!. We quickly rearranged our attire as this bunch of fit, flabless lads approached us. Turned out we had a blocked fueline, which they fixed for us and wished us well on our journey!
What a great bunch of guys! And not one of them laughed or took the piss out of us for our antics and the timing of the car's seizure! Real gentlemen *sigh*
Next thing we knew, the bloody car came to a grinding halt!. We quickly rearranged our attire as this bunch of fit, flabless lads approached us. Turned out we had a blocked fueline, which they fixed for us and wished us well on our journey!
What a great bunch of guys! And not one of them laughed or took the piss out of us for our antics and the timing of the car's seizure! Real gentlemen *sigh*
Apr 15th 2006, 10:33 am
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Originally Posted by CelestialAnnie
This question will probably get me in trouble, but I was just wondering what the NZ men are like.... to date? or as lovers? or as friends? Thanks.....
Annie all i can say is i hope your good at massage, cos all the men i meet (yeah theyre Gay) all like to do massage, the men here arnt as tough or rough as aussie men, and are usually careing and thoughtful and seem romantic.
But im a gay bloke, so dunno about what you ladies look for i a guy
good luck and enjoy it
Apr 15th 2006, 10:56 am
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Originally Posted by CelestialAnnie
Hiya Kiwi..... That's so funny......... do you mean that these "matlos" navy boys were NZ'ers??
).To be honest I think you find good, not so good and downright bad in any nationality inc NZers. But generally speaking NZers are usually a bit more laidback. I think you can find decent guys and pigs whether they had a higher education or not. A lot comes down to what their parents were like and how they treated them etc and what level of maturity they are at and what values they hold .
Apr 15th 2006, 11:22 am
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Originally Posted by CelestialAnnie
This question will probably get me in trouble, but I was just wondering what the NZ men are like.... to date? or as lovers? or as friends? Thanks.....
They sometimes need to be gently reminded though that too much alcohol does not a Romeo make
Like all men they aren't prone to sharing their feelings a lot of the unless you can encourage them to do so. Of course exceptions do occur
I believe in the old adage of treating others as you would like to be treated , and if they don't treat you accordingly then 'haul them over the coals' (let them know you are dissatisfied and why and what you expect in a relationship) so they get the picture!
This method usually yields results and if it doesn;t then think about moving on. A relationship is two people communicating, trusting, empathising and working together to grow closer to each other. If you don't feel this happening then you need to sit down and talk about it and develop strategies to improve things.
Good luck
Apr 15th 2006, 12:19 pm
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Originally Posted by kiwichild
This really is down to the individual guy you meet.You can find bastards and darlings in any nationality I am sure. The average Kiwi is far less sports oriented, materialistic, arrogant, superficial or power hungry than their Aussie counterpart and more likely I think to be romantic and considerate in my experience.
They sometimes need to be gently reminded though that too much alcohol does not a Romeo make
Like all men they aren't prone to sharing their feelings a lot of the unless you can encourage them to do so. Of course exceptions do occur
I believe in the old adage of treating others as you would like to be treated , and if they don't treat you accordingly then 'haul them over the coals' (let them know you are dissatisfied and why and what you expect in a relationship) so they get the picture!
This method usually yields results and if it doesn;t then think about moving on. A relationship is two people communicating, trusting, empathising and working together to grow closer to each other. If you don't feel this happening then you need to sit down and talk about it and develop strategies to improve things.
Good luck
They sometimes need to be gently reminded though that too much alcohol does not a Romeo make
Like all men they aren't prone to sharing their feelings a lot of the unless you can encourage them to do so. Of course exceptions do occur
I believe in the old adage of treating others as you would like to be treated , and if they don't treat you accordingly then 'haul them over the coals' (let them know you are dissatisfied and why and what you expect in a relationship) so they get the picture!
This method usually yields results and if it doesn;t then think about moving on. A relationship is two people communicating, trusting, empathising and working together to grow closer to each other. If you don't feel this happening then you need to sit down and talk about it and develop strategies to improve things.
Good luck
That's spot on. In all cases. My Kiwi was the first man I'd ever met who was prepared to accept he might be wrong in an argument and apologise too. That always made me feel that he valued me. Counts for a lot I think. We were in our 30s when we met and had a better idea of what we were looking for in a life-long partner. I couldn't speak for all Kiwi men but my fella would hate if I was clingy or dependent on him for everything. But then, I'd hate if he was like that either. We spend every minute we can together because we know we don't have to. Does that make sense? We've been together nearly 13 years and it just gets better and better. I've been married to an Irishman, went out with an Englishman and a couple of Dutch guys and no way could they compare. Saying all Kiwi men are macho and only like rugby etc.etc. is like saying all English men are boring and only want to spend Saturday afternoons in the pub and talk about football all the time.
Apr 15th 2006, 8:32 pm
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Originally Posted by kiwichild
we browneyed/moonied them! (dropped our knickers and stuck our bums out the windows of the car). Turned out we had a blocked fueline, which they fixed for us and wished us well on our journey!
Must have good eyesight too!
Apr 15th 2006, 11:06 pm
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Originally Posted by CelestialAnnie
Hiya Kiwi..... That's so funny......... do you mean that these "matlos" navy boys were NZ'ers??
Hey you......
The more of us kiwi's you try the better the opinion you'll have of us....enjoy it !!!!!
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Apr 16th 2006, 6:18 am
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Originally Posted by Batty
That's spot on. In all cases. My Kiwi was the first man I'd ever met who was prepared to accept he might be wrong in an argument and apologise too. That always made me feel that he valued me. Counts for a lot I think. We were in our 30s when we met and had a better idea of what we were looking for in a life-long partner. I couldn't speak for all Kiwi men but my fella would hate if I was clingy or dependent on him for everything. But then, I'd hate if he was like that either. We spend every minute we can together because we know we don't have to. Does that make sense? We've been together nearly 13 years and it just gets better and better. I've been married to an Irishman, went out with an Englishman and a couple of Dutch guys and no way could they compare. Saying all Kiwi men are macho and only like rugby etc.etc. is like saying all English men are boring and only want to spend Saturday afternoons in the pub and talk about football all the time.
Well, they all sound like wonderful men from New Zealand........... mmmmmm....... happy days are here....... lol
Apr 16th 2006, 8:44 pm
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Originally Posted by CelestialAnnie
Wow.... this NZ'er is 6'4" tall, handsome, a Scorpio and very romantic..... I think I'm in love......... Well, they all sound like wonderful men from New Zealand........... mmmmmm....... happy days are here....... lol
Well, they all sound like wonderful men from New Zealand........... mmmmmm....... happy days are here....... lolgood on yer girl, but there all like that (well most) all tall and very good looking, walk around wellington and its like my neck aches so much as head is darting all over the place, theyre everywhere
he sounds like a keeper though
Apr 16th 2006, 10:53 pm
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Theres loads of good looking men here...... mmmmmmm.... 
I know I shouldnt be looking but hey ho....
I know I shouldnt be looking but hey ho....
Apr 16th 2006, 11:03 pm
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Re: Kiwi Men???
Originally Posted by thebears
We are easy going, hard working ( ) some woman have found our endowment a problem 
To date - well always seem to have instant acceptance for seconds
Lovers - thats personal and can't comment on behalf of other guys - but we do go the extra mile to satisfy.
Friends - most important, friendship valued highly - dont discount its importance.
Kiwi (happily married with Chinese wife)
) some woman have found our endowment a problem To date - well always seem to have instant acceptance for seconds
Lovers - thats personal and can't comment on behalf of other guys - but we do go the extra mile to satisfy.
Friends - most important, friendship valued highly - dont discount its importance.
Kiwi (happily married with Chinese wife)
Out of curiosity, why did you marry a Chinese lady when there are plenty of Kiwi women 'available'?
Or was it a case that no Kiwi woman in her right mind would have you ;-)