Relocate my U.S. Spouse/Dual child to UK without me
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Relocate my U.S. Spouse/Dual child to UK without me
Advise please as I'm not even sure this is possible! Thank you in advance.
I'm a UK citizen on a U.S. green card for 20 years. My kids are dual, and my wife U.S.
I'm considering sending the kids to school in the UK, but it would have to be with my wife and I would remain working in the U.S thus meeting all financial requirements.
Has anybody done this? My family has only visited and never resided.
Thanks for any insight.
I'm a UK citizen on a U.S. green card for 20 years. My kids are dual, and my wife U.S.
I'm considering sending the kids to school in the UK, but it would have to be with my wife and I would remain working in the U.S thus meeting all financial requirements.
Has anybody done this? My family has only visited and never resided.
Thanks for any insight.
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To live in the UK your wife would need a visa.
Options:
- work visa
- student visa
- investment visa
- settlement visa (this would depend on YOU sponsoring her with you (at least initially) living and working in UK)
If wife has European ancestry then obtaining a European passport would mean she could live in UK.
Options:
- work visa
- student visa
- investment visa
- settlement visa (this would depend on YOU sponsoring her with you (at least initially) living and working in UK)
If wife has European ancestry then obtaining a European passport would mean she could live in UK.
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My job is U.S. based and non-transferable so my moving back isn't an option. My wife wouldn't need to work, but would be the parent looking after our British children. Sponsoring her wouldn't be an issue as long as I don't have to be there too.
She's Italian going back 4 or 5 generations, and with patchy paperwork that's probably not a realistic option.
Seems I'd have to send my kids to stay with relatives which breaks up the family and doesn't make much sense?
She's Italian going back 4 or 5 generations, and with patchy paperwork that's probably not a realistic option.
Seems I'd have to send my kids to stay with relatives which breaks up the family and doesn't make much sense?
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My job is U.S. based and non-transferable so my moving back isn't an option. My wife wouldn't need to work, but would be the parent looking after our British children. Sponsoring her wouldn't be an issue as long as I don't have to be there too.
She's Italian going back 4 or 5 generations, and with patchy paperwork that's probably not a realistic option.
Seems I'd have to send my kids to stay with relatives which breaks up the family and doesn't make much sense?
She's Italian going back 4 or 5 generations, and with patchy paperwork that's probably not a realistic option.
Seems I'd have to send my kids to stay with relatives which breaks up the family and doesn't make much sense?
If he wanted to send his children to school in the States and he did not want to relocate to the States, he could quite happily send his children to the States but his wife would not be able to go without a relevant visa - and she would not get a settlement visa without him going with her.
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It's very strange folk from other nations can plant their whole families into the UK, seemingly without restrictions, but a British citizen married for 20 years can't send his British kids home with their mother (who doesn't need to work) now they're school age.
Yet I'm sure I could find a Polish Nanny to look after them, which is apparently preferable to their own mum.
Bizzare.
Thank you. I guess boarding school, an au-pair, or an extended family member are the only options.
Yet I'm sure I could find a Polish Nanny to look after them, which is apparently preferable to their own mum.
Bizzare.
Thank you. I guess boarding school, an au-pair, or an extended family member are the only options.
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It's very strange folk from other nations can plant their whole families into the UK, seemingly without restrictions, but a British citizen married for 20 years can't send his British kids home with their mother (who doesn't need to work) now they're school age.
Yet I'm sure I could find a Polish Nanny to look after them, which is apparently preferable to their own mum.
Bizzare.
Thank you. I guess boarding school, an au-pair, or an extended family member are the only options.
Yet I'm sure I could find a Polish Nanny to look after them, which is apparently preferable to their own mum.
Bizzare.
Thank you. I guess boarding school, an au-pair, or an extended family member are the only options.
I'm sure your children could be schooled in the same country where their parents live if you truly don't want to break up the family. Surely that's preferable to having a nanny or au pair raise them.
For an immigrant you have a very large chip on your shoulder about other immigrants.
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Why would you want to be separated from your wife and kids? I'm confused?
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Many expats send their kids to boarding school in UK, always have. Asians in particular think a few years in a UK school will be of great future benefit for their kids. Mum doesn't go with them! Yes, if you have family they can stay with whilst at school that would be the best solution if you are determined for them to have a UK education. However, as San Diego Girl says, are US schools that Bad??
Oh, a Polish nanny is OK 'cos Poland is in the EU so Freedom of movement applies which trumps Mum staying with the kids if she's not an EU national.Does your wife qualify for an Italian passport? If so then getting her one, if possible, will solve your problem as she can then remain in UK under Freedom of Movement rules. Stupid, but that's the law as it currently stands.
Oh, a Polish nanny is OK 'cos Poland is in the EU so Freedom of movement applies which trumps Mum staying with the kids if she's not an EU national.Does your wife qualify for an Italian passport? If so then getting her one, if possible, will solve your problem as she can then remain in UK under Freedom of Movement rules. Stupid, but that's the law as it currently stands.
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There is a reason why boarding schools exist.
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Is he trying to satisfy residence requirements for UK University domestic fees? I don't think sending them to boarding school will work for that.
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Our solution to getting around the unstisfactory American education system (if that is indeed the OP's motivation) was for me to home school our daughter. Didn't turn out too badly either. If you can afford to have mum stay home I can recommend it.
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We've met quite a few Mums in Winchester that send their kids to Pilgrims School and as far as I know it's the kid that holds the visa and Mum 'tags along' based on that. They are mostly Chinese (as they're the only ones that can afford it). I don't know the ins and outs but it seems like it can be done. I only know this because Mrs TB goes to lunch with them now and then, I guess because of her they think we're rich
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My job is U.S. based and non-transferable so my moving back isn't an option. My wife wouldn't need to work, but would be the parent looking after our British children. Sponsoring her wouldn't be an issue as long as I don't have to be there too.
She's Italian going back 4 or 5 generations, and with patchy paperwork that's probably not a realistic option.
Seems I'd have to send my kids to stay with relatives which breaks up the family and doesn't make much sense?
She's Italian going back 4 or 5 generations, and with patchy paperwork that's probably not a realistic option.
Seems I'd have to send my kids to stay with relatives which breaks up the family and doesn't make much sense?
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Just a thought; somewhat ironically if your children weren't British citizens and required a Tier 4 student visa to study in the UK then your wife could have obtained a special 12 month visitor visa on account of her children being schooled in the UK, but since they are, she can't.