Lack of Clothes - again
May 17th 2012, 7:50 am
#106
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
Mathematist, Of course noone wants to think of a family member working in the sex industry, mostly because we don't want to think of our relatives having sex at all let alone earning money from it. Personally I think there are several levels of working girls, those who are forced into it by criminals which is obviously horrific. Those who see sex as a way of earning money and do it as they are desperate. Those who may have done it once as a desperation and then think actually its not as bad and continue to do it to supplement their income rather than work minimum wage jobs and then there are those that earn a lot of money and may enjoy it.
I've known many girls over the years who have worked in the industry in one form or another from lapdancing, to porn stars to escorts, hell I even looked at working on sexlines once (I didn't as my work picked up), they are interesting girls to talk to,do I judge them for what they do- actually I take my hat off to them as I think it is a hard job to do,I think for some girls it ruins their ability to have a healthy relationship with men, for others they can switch off fine. This poster seems switched on, she isnt saying pity me or anything like that, so who am I to judge, I would be more inclined to judge the men who use her services.
I've known many girls over the years who have worked in the industry in one form or another from lapdancing, to porn stars to escorts, hell I even looked at working on sexlines once (I didn't as my work picked up), they are interesting girls to talk to,do I judge them for what they do- actually I take my hat off to them as I think it is a hard job to do,I think for some girls it ruins their ability to have a healthy relationship with men, for others they can switch off fine. This poster seems switched on, she isnt saying pity me or anything like that, so who am I to judge, I would be more inclined to judge the men who use her services.
May 17th 2012, 7:56 am
#107
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
Its too easy to try win an argument by personalising it to this level, regarding your daughter. Of course not many people are going to be ok with this kind of choice for a family member.
However it's a cheap tactic, I would not want my daughter to be in the police, in the army, and lots of various other professions but I would never suggest to exclude others from joining
However it's a cheap tactic, I would not want my daughter to be in the police, in the army, and lots of various other professions but I would never suggest to exclude others from joining
May 17th 2012, 8:00 am
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
Mathematist, Of course noone wants to think of a family member working in the sex industry, mostly because we don't want to think of our relatives having sex at all let alone earning money from it. Personally I think there are several levels of working girls, those who are forced into it by criminals which is obviously horrific. Those who see sex as a way of earning money and do it as they are desperate. Those who may have done it once as a desperation and then think actually its not as bad and continue to do it to supplement their income rather than work minimum wage jobs and then there are those that earn a lot of money and may enjoy it.
I've known many girls over the years who have worked in the industry in one form or another from lapdancing, to porn stars to escorts, hell I even looked at working on sexlines once (I didn't as my work picked up), they are interesting girls to talk to,do I judge them for what they do- actually I take my hat off to them as I think it is a hard job to do,I think for some girls it ruins their ability to have a healthy relationship with men, for others they can switch off fine. This poster seems switched on, she isnt saying pity me or anything like that, so who am I to judge, I would be more inclined to judge the men who use her services.
I've known many girls over the years who have worked in the industry in one form or another from lapdancing, to porn stars to escorts, hell I even looked at working on sexlines once (I didn't as my work picked up), they are interesting girls to talk to,do I judge them for what they do- actually I take my hat off to them as I think it is a hard job to do,I think for some girls it ruins their ability to have a healthy relationship with men, for others they can switch off fine. This poster seems switched on, she isnt saying pity me or anything like that, so who am I to judge, I would be more inclined to judge the men who use her services.
May 17th 2012, 8:01 am
#109
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
Its too easy to try win an argument by personalising it to this level, regarding your daughter. Of course not many people are going to be ok with this kind of choice for a family member.
However it's a cheap tactic, I would not want my daughter to be in the police, in the army, and lots of various other professions but I would never suggest to exclude others from joining
However it's a cheap tactic, I would not want my daughter to be in the police, in the army, and lots of various other professions but I would never suggest to exclude others from joining
Of course, some ladies are in the industry due to desperate circumstances and need help and big respect for all for all the organisations working tirelessly to get them off the street.
OK, last post now on this now as I feel it's getting nowhere. Apologies if I have upset, offended anyone too and I hope Brit Nat can find a more suitable form of employment in the future.
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May 17th 2012, 8:07 am
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
Lame response. Police, army etc... are respectable professions, being a prozzy clearly isn't and is in a completely different category. It clearly becomes double standards and 'touchy' if it's closer to home mate, clearly and you haven't answered the question.
Of course, some ladies are in the industry due to desperate circumstances and need help and big respect for all for all the organisations working tirelessly to get them off the street.
OK, last post now on this now as I feel it's getting nowhere. Apologies if I have upset, offended anyone too and I hope Brit Nat can find a more suitable form of employment in the future.
Of course, some ladies are in the industry due to desperate circumstances and need help and big respect for all for all the organisations working tirelessly to get them off the street.
OK, last post now on this now as I feel it's getting nowhere. Apologies if I have upset, offended anyone too and I hope Brit Nat can find a more suitable form of employment in the future.
I chose police and army not because of any level of respectability but because you are in a job that places you in dangerous situations, sometimes with the possibility of being killed.
May 17th 2012, 8:09 am
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
lol millhouse 0800knickers
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May 17th 2012, 8:16 am
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
Not offended in the least, and I don't have a daughter so its not based on being closer to home for me.
I chose police and army not because of any level of respectability but because you are in a job that places you in dangerous situations, sometimes with the possibility of being killed.
I chose police and army not because of any level of respectability but because you are in a job that places you in dangerous situations, sometimes with the possibility of being killed.
When I meant closer to home, did not mean personally you but should it happen to family/friends, people think differently, so why promote it, rather than condemn it in the first place....
AND would people like prozzies going about their business close to home, round the corner regardless of the fact if they call themselves are escorts or another title?
I wouldn't, regardless of the type of clientele involved...
Is a little amount of poison bad for you or a lot?
May 17th 2012, 8:26 am
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
Very very last one...
When I meant closer to home, did not mean personally you but should it happen to family/friends, people think differently, so why promote it, rather than condemn it in the first place....
AND would people like prozzies going about their business close to home, round the corner regardless of the fact if they call themselves are escorts or another title?
I wouldn't, regardless of the type of clientele involved...
Is a little amount of poison bad for you or a lot?
When I meant closer to home, did not mean personally you but should it happen to family/friends, people think differently, so why promote it, rather than condemn it in the first place....
AND would people like prozzies going about their business close to home, round the corner regardless of the fact if they call themselves are escorts or another title?
I wouldn't, regardless of the type of clientele involved...
Is a little amount of poison bad for you or a lot?
This is 2012 you know, people have sex. I would probably say she is more careful, cleaner and discreet than someone pissed up on a thursday night in Barasti's taking another ex pat home to ride 'bareback'
They want to work next to me, thats fine if they dont disturb me. What do I care what happens consensualy behind their own 4 walls..........
May 17th 2012, 8:57 am
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
Seems I missed a fair amount but I had to go get my fix of drugs before I pounded the streets in my mini skirt and thigh high boots....I was actually in the gym!
I think if your mind is closed on certain area's of life then you will never accept anybody's point of view that differs from your own....Before I became a 'prozzy' I had a seedy image in my head of the girls that provide and the guys that seek, it has changed of course otherwise I would not be doing it...my job can be as seedy as you make it!
A bit about me that will probably break some of the typical stereotyping
I am 37 years old, have a degree, was a teacher, teaching Autistic children on a 1 to 1 basis. I also worked with kids that had been kicked out of mainstream school they were abusive and violent. Most of these kids were in the Government care as the 'parents' abused or neglected them. I have a lot of time and patience for kids.
My son is in his first year at uni, he went to a Grammar school, grade A student and no detentions! He is polite, well mannered and very cultured. Of course he does not know what I do....why should he?
Reason for doing what I am doing?
Some guys seem to think the law is on the womans side after a separation, not always the case! I have a nice house back in the UK but after 16 years of separation my ex want's half....we were not married and this is why it's messy!
He has not paid a penny towards the house in all these years and took himself to uni so did not pay for our son for about 6 years, when he did pay he lied about his wages! Anyway the time has come to get him off the paper work, do I sell the house in the currant state of housing market? No, the house has lost about 80k in value although because I am paying him off this is in my favour!
Unfortunately the law says that it is a binding contract same as any other contract but things are slowly changing. A woman in same situation as me took her ex to court, she got 90% he got 10%.
So there you have it, a bit of an insight into my world.
Will I go back to teaching after....of course!! I loved my job and it's very rewarding although I still consider myself a teacher....just teaching different things to a different age group
How many guys and girls these day just hook up after meeting in a bar once?
Another thing, I am independent, see who I want to see and only offer the things I enjoy doing however I have become aware of sex trafficking in the ME. Yes it happens world wide but I think most country's do actually try and do something about it....Not the ME.
A place I used to advertise on was clearly being used by disgusting sex traffickers, I informed the site and they have now closed that section down. It would be nice if more people were aware and alert of such situations and maybe left the independent 'prozzy' alone!
I think if your mind is closed on certain area's of life then you will never accept anybody's point of view that differs from your own....Before I became a 'prozzy' I had a seedy image in my head of the girls that provide and the guys that seek, it has changed of course otherwise I would not be doing it...my job can be as seedy as you make it!
A bit about me that will probably break some of the typical stereotyping
I am 37 years old, have a degree, was a teacher, teaching Autistic children on a 1 to 1 basis. I also worked with kids that had been kicked out of mainstream school they were abusive and violent. Most of these kids were in the Government care as the 'parents' abused or neglected them. I have a lot of time and patience for kids.
My son is in his first year at uni, he went to a Grammar school, grade A student and no detentions! He is polite, well mannered and very cultured. Of course he does not know what I do....why should he?
Reason for doing what I am doing?
Some guys seem to think the law is on the womans side after a separation, not always the case! I have a nice house back in the UK but after 16 years of separation my ex want's half....we were not married and this is why it's messy!
He has not paid a penny towards the house in all these years and took himself to uni so did not pay for our son for about 6 years, when he did pay he lied about his wages! Anyway the time has come to get him off the paper work, do I sell the house in the currant state of housing market? No, the house has lost about 80k in value although because I am paying him off this is in my favour!
Unfortunately the law says that it is a binding contract same as any other contract but things are slowly changing. A woman in same situation as me took her ex to court, she got 90% he got 10%.
So there you have it, a bit of an insight into my world.
Will I go back to teaching after....of course!! I loved my job and it's very rewarding although I still consider myself a teacher....just teaching different things to a different age group
How many guys and girls these day just hook up after meeting in a bar once?
Another thing, I am independent, see who I want to see and only offer the things I enjoy doing however I have become aware of sex trafficking in the ME. Yes it happens world wide but I think most country's do actually try and do something about it....Not the ME.
A place I used to advertise on was clearly being used by disgusting sex traffickers, I informed the site and they have now closed that section down. It would be nice if more people were aware and alert of such situations and maybe left the independent 'prozzy' alone!
May 17th 2012, 9:17 am
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
For those with blinkered views of prostitutes I suggest you read a few chapters of Belle de Jour for a different view.
The human trafficking, drugs and pimping aspect is beyond vile, but that is invariable when men are involved and controlling the process. If one adult want to have sex with another adult, both are consenting and it is behind closed doors then that is their business, no one else's. If money changes hands that is their call too.
I am not saying it's a great profession, but it's never going to stop is it? And for the guys who are complaining, have a look at your own gender as to why this continues.
The human trafficking, drugs and pimping aspect is beyond vile, but that is invariable when men are involved and controlling the process. If one adult want to have sex with another adult, both are consenting and it is behind closed doors then that is their business, no one else's. If money changes hands that is their call too.
I am not saying it's a great profession, but it's never going to stop is it? And for the guys who are complaining, have a look at your own gender as to why this continues.
May 17th 2012, 9:39 am
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
Seems I missed a fair amount but I had to go get my fix of drugs before I pounded the streets in my mini skirt and thigh high boots....I was actually in the gym!
I think if your mind is closed on certain area's of life then you will never accept anybody's point of view that differs from your own....Before I became a 'prozzy' I had a seedy image in my head of the girls that provide and the guys that seek, it has changed of course otherwise I would not be doing it...my job can be as seedy as you make it!
A bit about me that will probably break some of the typical stereotyping
I am 37 years old, have a degree, was a teacher, teaching Autistic children on a 1 to 1 basis. I also worked with kids that had been kicked out of mainstream school they were abusive and violent. Most of these kids were in the Government care as the 'parents' abused or neglected them. I have a lot of time and patience for kids.
My son is in his first year at uni, he went to a Grammar school, grade A student and no detentions! He is polite, well mannered and very cultured. Of course he does not know what I do....why should he?
Reason for doing what I am doing?
Some guys seem to think the law is on the womans side after a separation, not always the case! I have a nice house back in the UK but after 16 years of separation my ex want's half....we were not married and this is why it's messy!
He has not paid a penny towards the house in all these years and took himself to uni so did not pay for our son for about 6 years, when he did pay he lied about his wages! Anyway the time has come to get him off the paper work, do I sell the house in the currant state of housing market? No, the house has lost about 80k in value although because I am paying him off this is in my favour!
Unfortunately the law says that it is a binding contract same as any other contract but things are slowly changing. A woman in same situation as me took her ex to court, she got 90% he got 10%.
So there you have it, a bit of an insight into my world.
Will I go back to teaching after....of course!! I loved my job and it's very rewarding although I still consider myself a teacher....just teaching different things to a different age group
How many guys and girls these day just hook up after meeting in a bar once?
Another thing, I am independent, see who I want to see and only offer the things I enjoy doing however I have become aware of sex trafficking in the ME. Yes it happens world wide but I think most country's do actually try and do something about it....Not the ME.
A place I used to advertise on was clearly being used by disgusting sex traffickers, I informed the site and they have now closed that section down. It would be nice if more people were aware and alert of such situations and maybe left the independent 'prozzy' alone!
I think if your mind is closed on certain area's of life then you will never accept anybody's point of view that differs from your own....Before I became a 'prozzy' I had a seedy image in my head of the girls that provide and the guys that seek, it has changed of course otherwise I would not be doing it...my job can be as seedy as you make it!
A bit about me that will probably break some of the typical stereotyping
I am 37 years old, have a degree, was a teacher, teaching Autistic children on a 1 to 1 basis. I also worked with kids that had been kicked out of mainstream school they were abusive and violent. Most of these kids were in the Government care as the 'parents' abused or neglected them. I have a lot of time and patience for kids.
My son is in his first year at uni, he went to a Grammar school, grade A student and no detentions! He is polite, well mannered and very cultured. Of course he does not know what I do....why should he?
Reason for doing what I am doing?
Some guys seem to think the law is on the womans side after a separation, not always the case! I have a nice house back in the UK but after 16 years of separation my ex want's half....we were not married and this is why it's messy!
He has not paid a penny towards the house in all these years and took himself to uni so did not pay for our son for about 6 years, when he did pay he lied about his wages! Anyway the time has come to get him off the paper work, do I sell the house in the currant state of housing market? No, the house has lost about 80k in value although because I am paying him off this is in my favour!
Unfortunately the law says that it is a binding contract same as any other contract but things are slowly changing. A woman in same situation as me took her ex to court, she got 90% he got 10%.
So there you have it, a bit of an insight into my world.
Will I go back to teaching after....of course!! I loved my job and it's very rewarding although I still consider myself a teacher....just teaching different things to a different age group
How many guys and girls these day just hook up after meeting in a bar once?
Another thing, I am independent, see who I want to see and only offer the things I enjoy doing however I have become aware of sex trafficking in the ME. Yes it happens world wide but I think most country's do actually try and do something about it....Not the ME.
A place I used to advertise on was clearly being used by disgusting sex traffickers, I informed the site and they have now closed that section down. It would be nice if more people were aware and alert of such situations and maybe left the independent 'prozzy' alone!
do you travel ? ever in Riyadh...ahem !
May 17th 2012, 9:47 am
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
May 17th 2012, 9:49 am
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
you've still not answered my question. 
May 17th 2012, 9:51 am
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
Seems I missed a fair amount but I had to go get my fix of drugs before I pounded the streets in my mini skirt and thigh high boots....I was actually in the gym!
I think if your mind is closed on certain area's of life then you will never accept anybody's point of view that differs from your own....Before I became a 'prozzy' I had a seedy image in my head of the girls that provide and the guys that seek, it has changed of course otherwise I would not be doing it...my job can be as seedy as you make it!
A bit about me that will probably break some of the typical stereotyping
I am 37 years old, have a degree, was a teacher, teaching Autistic children on a 1 to 1 basis. I also worked with kids that had been kicked out of mainstream school they were abusive and violent. Most of these kids were in the Government care as the 'parents' abused or neglected them. I have a lot of time and patience for kids.
My son is in his first year at uni, he went to a Grammar school, grade A student and no detentions! He is polite, well mannered and very cultured. Of course he does not know what I do....why should he?
Reason for doing what I am doing?
Some guys seem to think the law is on the womans side after a separation, not always the case! I have a nice house back in the UK but after 16 years of separation my ex want's half....we were not married and this is why it's messy!
He has not paid a penny towards the house in all these years and took himself to uni so did not pay for our son for about 6 years, when he did pay he lied about his wages! Anyway the time has come to get him off the paper work, do I sell the house in the currant state of housing market? No, the house has lost about 80k in value although because I am paying him off this is in my favour!
Unfortunately the law says that it is a binding contract same as any other contract but things are slowly changing. A woman in same situation as me took her ex to court, she got 90% he got 10%.
So there you have it, a bit of an insight into my world.
Will I go back to teaching after....of course!! I loved my job and it's very rewarding although I still consider myself a teacher....just teaching different things to a different age group
How many guys and girls these day just hook up after meeting in a bar once?
Another thing, I am independent, see who I want to see and only offer the things I enjoy doing however I have become aware of sex trafficking in the ME. Yes it happens world wide but I think most country's do actually try and do something about it....Not the ME.
A place I used to advertise on was clearly being used by disgusting sex traffickers, I informed the site and they have now closed that section down. It would be nice if more people were aware and alert of such situations and maybe left the independent 'prozzy' alone!
I think if your mind is closed on certain area's of life then you will never accept anybody's point of view that differs from your own....Before I became a 'prozzy' I had a seedy image in my head of the girls that provide and the guys that seek, it has changed of course otherwise I would not be doing it...my job can be as seedy as you make it!
A bit about me that will probably break some of the typical stereotyping
I am 37 years old, have a degree, was a teacher, teaching Autistic children on a 1 to 1 basis. I also worked with kids that had been kicked out of mainstream school they were abusive and violent. Most of these kids were in the Government care as the 'parents' abused or neglected them. I have a lot of time and patience for kids.
My son is in his first year at uni, he went to a Grammar school, grade A student and no detentions! He is polite, well mannered and very cultured. Of course he does not know what I do....why should he?
Reason for doing what I am doing?
Some guys seem to think the law is on the womans side after a separation, not always the case! I have a nice house back in the UK but after 16 years of separation my ex want's half....we were not married and this is why it's messy!
He has not paid a penny towards the house in all these years and took himself to uni so did not pay for our son for about 6 years, when he did pay he lied about his wages! Anyway the time has come to get him off the paper work, do I sell the house in the currant state of housing market? No, the house has lost about 80k in value although because I am paying him off this is in my favour!
Unfortunately the law says that it is a binding contract same as any other contract but things are slowly changing. A woman in same situation as me took her ex to court, she got 90% he got 10%.
So there you have it, a bit of an insight into my world.
Will I go back to teaching after....of course!! I loved my job and it's very rewarding although I still consider myself a teacher....just teaching different things to a different age group
How many guys and girls these day just hook up after meeting in a bar once?
Another thing, I am independent, see who I want to see and only offer the things I enjoy doing however I have become aware of sex trafficking in the ME. Yes it happens world wide but I think most country's do actually try and do something about it....Not the ME.
A place I used to advertise on was clearly being used by disgusting sex traffickers, I informed the site and they have now closed that section down. It would be nice if more people were aware and alert of such situations and maybe left the independent 'prozzy' alone!
May 17th 2012, 9:51 am
#120
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Re: Lack of Clothes - again
As for chat, can be about anything and everything....I have learnt a lot about different cultures and it's not all to do with sex! I have some very interesting conversations.