blenky16

Here let me grab you a coffee as well, as I am still looking for the spot where I said there was a "blenky scale of sicko-pervertedness", or that I even know what the degrees are by definition (as I am sure there is nothing that truly exists).... I am just making the statement that there are various degrees, in my opinion, of pervertedness. As you mentioned, you have done what you have done or seen, and then there are those who are pedophiles, rapists, etc... shall I lump you in the same category? Or would you too (like myself) belive that they are on a completely different scale of what some might consider perverted behaviour?

Ray

Oh!! you are so way out there... its actually the other way around... Men get paid far more... they have much more
difficulty performing on camera and therefore are more
reluctant....

not that I know about these things ...must have read it in a book..

blenky16

LOL

krissyv

Thanks DCMark - I've advised my friends to start calling me sick kris....
I'm sorry that you object to me sharing my problem with people on this thread. But I would like to put this out there - everything that is said is true and I have documentry proof to back up every single allegation - as a practising lawyer, I undestand the best defence to defamation / slander is the truth and without that & evidence of that I would NEVER make such statements....

There probably is another side to the story and maybe he is right that I'm a b**tch, wh**e, and so ugly that he was forced into cheating on me...and if thats true then yes, you had a valid point.

I saw this site as a forum to discuss issues and i have made sure that I have taken every opinion for what it is and respected it. I would not label people merely because I did not agree with their opinion. While you may not agree with what I have share with this forum, I would appreciate if you don't tell me that I'm sick - just say that you don't agree with my approach.

BTW I'm 26, never cheated, this is my 4th boyfriend EVER. I've never been divorced - and I really thought I was going to marry this guy. And he reinforced that opinion with calls and emails every day until I confronted him about his cheating.
I would never do anything to hurt him or his career and as I said in past postings any venegefull thoughts were just that- thoughts, because I am hurt & angry and just venting to get through this incredible difficult time in my life.

Thanks
Krissy

DCMark

SO WHAT if everything is true? It has nothing to do with marriage visa issues. It has nothing to do with anyone on this list. This list is not a court of law and this list is not where you have to show documentary evidence.

You came here with a question somewhat related to marriage, in terms of his ability to get you banned for life. The resident attorneys answered that on page one. The rest of the details about your relationship is what I see as totally out of place here.

I am sorry you had your heart broken. Its happened to me. It sucks but don't make it worse.

Stealth

Well said Sir... well said!

krissyv

Cool - thanks for your opinion
Krissy

Leslie

Actually I do not consider prostitution or pornography perverted. Those two things by themselves are generally just an escape from hornliness (combination of horny and lonely). Sexual exploration and expression are by no means what any of us are actually discussing here. What two consenting adults (or one consenting adult for that matter)do will not even figure into the equasion. I also do not think infidelity is perverted.

When I made the comment about pervy behaviour, I was specifically referring to dentist and/or doctors that molest female patients while under anesthesia. I think that behaviour IS perverted.

Leslie

Ray

Ok... is that it now !!! back to normal....My hamster has been refused a visa..what can I do ...

DCMark

And you are not sick, thats was unfair of me to say.

Leslie

I know a really sexy guinea pig that will marry him for money. How does his family feel about inter-species marriage??

krissyv

Thanks for that - and I have taken on board your criticism of the information I posted. My lips are sealed now!

Krissy

Ray

I have always wanted to say this to you (lol)

"SLAP" what a perverted suggestion

David9287

Hi KrissyV,
davidM here,
I must say the information you gave "us all" was maybe a little over the top but "if you're really hurting," I'm sorry to hear it...........
Never put anything in writing that you wouldn't want on the 5 o:clock news......lol.
Loose lips sink ships..... but what about the.. NEVER MIND???? Sweeitie just kidding!!!!!!!
If you relationship was ment to be, it would be. Let the guy go, keep the ring or give it back, it's up to you.
Take care, hope it works out for you.

Leslie

That was really cool Mark.

This conversation at some points has gotten pretty sick(ening). However, what krissy is doing is cathartic. It is a ritual that women share with girlfriends all the time. Surely, guys do it too? It doesn't accomplish much, but it makes us feel better. She is doing it in this forum because she wasn't getting much support at home due to criticism of the "long distance" thing. True, everybody is getting kind of wild but it has distracted her for the moment.

Leslie