How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
Feb 1st 2005, 7:49 pm
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How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
I am going to marry my US fiancée and our initial plan was that we
would live in the US. We downloaded forms and documentation from the
BCIS web site and were busy for a few weeks. The more info we got, the
less the whole process looked feasible.
- He would have to sign an affidavit for me, basically promising to
guarantee for me for several years, which I just did not feel like
something I should ask a fiancée to do.
- After waiting maybe a year in my home country, I would get married
in the US but I would not be able to work and would have to wait for
an unspecified amount of time amounting to several months, again a
very uncomfortable condition to be in when you're newly wed, unless of
course you don't need to work to make a living.
- I would have to be interviewed at least twice to check on my
marriage intentions/status and good faith and I would be basically in
limbo until the last interview after two years, following which after
an unspecified amount of time, maybe months, I might finally get
permanent residence (unless of course BCIS would get my fingerprints
wrong, in which case I would wait maybe a year rather than months)
- In the mean time, if I understand correctly, I would be wise not to
travel back to my home country as over-zealous airline or immigration
officials might not allow me back into the US
- Also, I would be well advised to spend several thousand dollars to
have an immigration lawyer assist us in the process.
In short, we gave it up. As it is much easier to enter any European
country as a husband of a EU citizen, he is coming to live in Europe
and I am not made to feel like a beggar by BCIS with my spouse as
garantor.
However, I understand from the media that countless number of
immigrants legally acquire permanent residence in the US every year,
so much so that a major issue currently in the news is that many of
these people do not even speak English.
Now here is my question, for any patient reader that might have
followed me so far:
*** how can an immigrant from some third world country, with scanty
knowledge of English and precious little personal fortune, evidently a
common situation, jump successfully thru all BCIS's hoops? Yet they do
it in their thousands***
Sheila
would live in the US. We downloaded forms and documentation from the
BCIS web site and were busy for a few weeks. The more info we got, the
less the whole process looked feasible.
- He would have to sign an affidavit for me, basically promising to
guarantee for me for several years, which I just did not feel like
something I should ask a fiancée to do.
- After waiting maybe a year in my home country, I would get married
in the US but I would not be able to work and would have to wait for
an unspecified amount of time amounting to several months, again a
very uncomfortable condition to be in when you're newly wed, unless of
course you don't need to work to make a living.
- I would have to be interviewed at least twice to check on my
marriage intentions/status and good faith and I would be basically in
limbo until the last interview after two years, following which after
an unspecified amount of time, maybe months, I might finally get
permanent residence (unless of course BCIS would get my fingerprints
wrong, in which case I would wait maybe a year rather than months)
- In the mean time, if I understand correctly, I would be wise not to
travel back to my home country as over-zealous airline or immigration
officials might not allow me back into the US
- Also, I would be well advised to spend several thousand dollars to
have an immigration lawyer assist us in the process.
In short, we gave it up. As it is much easier to enter any European
country as a husband of a EU citizen, he is coming to live in Europe
and I am not made to feel like a beggar by BCIS with my spouse as
garantor.
However, I understand from the media that countless number of
immigrants legally acquire permanent residence in the US every year,
so much so that a major issue currently in the news is that many of
these people do not even speak English.
Now here is my question, for any patient reader that might have
followed me so far:
*** how can an immigrant from some third world country, with scanty
knowledge of English and precious little personal fortune, evidently a
common situation, jump successfully thru all BCIS's hoops? Yet they do
it in their thousands***
Sheila
Feb 1st 2005, 9:23 pm
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Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
"sheila" <[email protected]> wrote in message
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> - He would have to sign an affidavit for me, basically promising to
> guarantee for me for several years, which I just did not feel like
> something I should ask a fiancée to do.
I can't imagine why you would have a problem with this. You're just asking
that he will make sure you don't become a public charge. I think most
spouses would be willing to help out if their other half couldn't work
anyway. My husband (a US citizen, who signed such an affidavit for me) was
actually unemployed for a while, and I supported him. I didn't feel that was
unreasonable.
> - After waiting maybe a year in my home country, I would get married
> in the US but I would not be able to work and would have to wait for
> an unspecified amount of time amounting to several months, again a
> very uncomfortable condition to be in when you're newly wed, unless of
> course you don't need to work to make a living.
What visa are you talking about? A K-1? If you want to be able to work as
soon as you arrive in the US, maybe marry in your home country and get a
K-3? There are various options and most of them don't take as long as you
seem to be implying.
> - I would have to be interviewed at least twice to check on my
> marriage intentions/status and good faith and I would be basically in
> limbo until the last interview after two years, following which after
> an unspecified amount of time, maybe months, I might finally get
> permanent residence (unless of course BCIS would get my fingerprints
> wrong, in which case I would wait maybe a year rather than months)
I was interviewed twice. Once to get permanent residence, then again to
remove the conditions from my card. If your marriage is real, you have
nothing to worry about with the interviews.
No idea where you get the 'limbo' idea from. After your first interview,
you're a permanent resident. You get a green card. It's not limbo.
I never had a problem with my fingerprints. I hadn't heard that as a common
problem.
> - In the mean time, if I understand correctly, I would be wise not to
> travel back to my home country as over-zealous airline or immigration
> officials might not allow me back into the US
When you apply for permanent residence, apply for advance parole at the same
time, then you can travel with no problems, assuming you're not planning on
going back for years at a time. Once you get permanent residence, your green
card will let you in.
> - Also, I would be well advised to spend several thousand dollars to
> have an immigration lawyer assist us in the process.
Unless you have something like a dodgy criminal record, or have been refused
entry to the US before, I see no need for a lawyer. I didn't use one and nor
did any of the other people I know who got permanent residence based on
marriage.
> In short, we gave it up. As it is much easier to enter any European
> country as a husband of a EU citizen, he is coming to live in Europe
> and I am not made to feel like a beggar by BCIS with my spouse as
> garantor.
> However, I understand from the media that countless number of
> immigrants legally acquire permanent residence in the US every year,
> so much so that a major issue currently in the news is that many of
> these people do not even speak English.
I don't believe it is a requirement to speak English to become a US
permanent resident. That is only important when you become a US citizen.
> Now here is my question, for any patient reader that might have
> followed me so far:
> *** how can an immigrant from some third world country, with scanty
> knowledge of English and precious little personal fortune, evidently a
> common situation, jump successfully thru all BCIS's hoops? Yet they do
> it in their thousands***
I imagine they follow the proper procedures, rather than listening to the
type of bizarre, inaccurate advice you've apparently been receiving.
Immigration based on marriage is not difficult. Maybe filling in all those
forms is too time-consuming for you. For me, it didn't seem to much like
hard work.
Lucy
news:[email protected] m...
> - He would have to sign an affidavit for me, basically promising to
> guarantee for me for several years, which I just did not feel like
> something I should ask a fiancée to do.
I can't imagine why you would have a problem with this. You're just asking
that he will make sure you don't become a public charge. I think most
spouses would be willing to help out if their other half couldn't work
anyway. My husband (a US citizen, who signed such an affidavit for me) was
actually unemployed for a while, and I supported him. I didn't feel that was
unreasonable.
> - After waiting maybe a year in my home country, I would get married
> in the US but I would not be able to work and would have to wait for
> an unspecified amount of time amounting to several months, again a
> very uncomfortable condition to be in when you're newly wed, unless of
> course you don't need to work to make a living.
What visa are you talking about? A K-1? If you want to be able to work as
soon as you arrive in the US, maybe marry in your home country and get a
K-3? There are various options and most of them don't take as long as you
seem to be implying.
> - I would have to be interviewed at least twice to check on my
> marriage intentions/status and good faith and I would be basically in
> limbo until the last interview after two years, following which after
> an unspecified amount of time, maybe months, I might finally get
> permanent residence (unless of course BCIS would get my fingerprints
> wrong, in which case I would wait maybe a year rather than months)
I was interviewed twice. Once to get permanent residence, then again to
remove the conditions from my card. If your marriage is real, you have
nothing to worry about with the interviews.
No idea where you get the 'limbo' idea from. After your first interview,
you're a permanent resident. You get a green card. It's not limbo.
I never had a problem with my fingerprints. I hadn't heard that as a common
problem.
> - In the mean time, if I understand correctly, I would be wise not to
> travel back to my home country as over-zealous airline or immigration
> officials might not allow me back into the US
When you apply for permanent residence, apply for advance parole at the same
time, then you can travel with no problems, assuming you're not planning on
going back for years at a time. Once you get permanent residence, your green
card will let you in.
> - Also, I would be well advised to spend several thousand dollars to
> have an immigration lawyer assist us in the process.
Unless you have something like a dodgy criminal record, or have been refused
entry to the US before, I see no need for a lawyer. I didn't use one and nor
did any of the other people I know who got permanent residence based on
marriage.
> In short, we gave it up. As it is much easier to enter any European
> country as a husband of a EU citizen, he is coming to live in Europe
> and I am not made to feel like a beggar by BCIS with my spouse as
> garantor.
> However, I understand from the media that countless number of
> immigrants legally acquire permanent residence in the US every year,
> so much so that a major issue currently in the news is that many of
> these people do not even speak English.
I don't believe it is a requirement to speak English to become a US
permanent resident. That is only important when you become a US citizen.
> Now here is my question, for any patient reader that might have
> followed me so far:
> *** how can an immigrant from some third world country, with scanty
> knowledge of English and precious little personal fortune, evidently a
> common situation, jump successfully thru all BCIS's hoops? Yet they do
> it in their thousands***
I imagine they follow the proper procedures, rather than listening to the
type of bizarre, inaccurate advice you've apparently been receiving.
Immigration based on marriage is not difficult. Maybe filling in all those
forms is too time-consuming for you. For me, it didn't seem to much like
hard work.
Lucy
Feb 2nd 2005, 3:24 am
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Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
Firstly, there is no BCIS but there is a USCIS
Secondly, the K-1 fiancee visa is one of the easiest to get if you don't have a criminal record or any bans from entering the US or any communicable diseases.
Thirdly, every USC spouse has to complete and affidavit of support for their spouse or immediate relative. There is no way around it. For the K-1 it is the I-134 and later for adjustment of status it is the I-864. The USCIS wants to be sure that if you collect any mean tested benefits that someone will reimburse the US government for their expenditures.
Fourthly, the wait for an employment authorization document is at most 90 days from date of filing. So you don't work for 90 days. Big deal.
Fifthly, what is this limbo you are talking about? Once you apply for adjustment after entrance on a K-1 and marriage you are not in limbo for a pending permanent resident. You can apply for the right to travel and as long you don't have an overstay of 180 days or more you should be find with traveling outside of the US for brief periods of time.
Sixthly, there might not be two interviews for adjustment. There is the consulate interview for the K-1 and the initial and usually only interview for the adjustment of status in the US. Most people do not have to interview for removal of conditions if they are adjusted before their second wedding anniversary.
Seventhly, I would not be so prone to hysterics right now. The US government has rules and regulations in place for the emigration of people from all countries into the US. You being the love interest of a USC have the easiest route of them all to toe.
Eightly, the choice is yours as to where you live. Since you don't like the USCIS rules and regulations, then don't come here. If you and he can live in the EU, then go for it. Just remind your husband that as a USC he has to file US income tax every year on the money he earns outside of the US.
Have a good life and try a different attitude, you might be surprised to find it is a pleasanter life than you thought with the one you currently have.
Secondly, the K-1 fiancee visa is one of the easiest to get if you don't have a criminal record or any bans from entering the US or any communicable diseases.
Thirdly, every USC spouse has to complete and affidavit of support for their spouse or immediate relative. There is no way around it. For the K-1 it is the I-134 and later for adjustment of status it is the I-864. The USCIS wants to be sure that if you collect any mean tested benefits that someone will reimburse the US government for their expenditures.
Fourthly, the wait for an employment authorization document is at most 90 days from date of filing. So you don't work for 90 days. Big deal.
Fifthly, what is this limbo you are talking about? Once you apply for adjustment after entrance on a K-1 and marriage you are not in limbo for a pending permanent resident. You can apply for the right to travel and as long you don't have an overstay of 180 days or more you should be find with traveling outside of the US for brief periods of time.
Sixthly, there might not be two interviews for adjustment. There is the consulate interview for the K-1 and the initial and usually only interview for the adjustment of status in the US. Most people do not have to interview for removal of conditions if they are adjusted before their second wedding anniversary.
Seventhly, I would not be so prone to hysterics right now. The US government has rules and regulations in place for the emigration of people from all countries into the US. You being the love interest of a USC have the easiest route of them all to toe.
Eightly, the choice is yours as to where you live. Since you don't like the USCIS rules and regulations, then don't come here. If you and he can live in the EU, then go for it. Just remind your husband that as a USC he has to file US income tax every year on the money he earns outside of the US.
Have a good life and try a different attitude, you might be surprised to find it is a pleasanter life than you thought with the one you currently have.
Feb 2nd 2005, 3:29 am
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Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
Ninthly, what does speaking or not speaking the English language have to do with anything. A majority of the immigrants from many countries come here without English and in fact never learn it and live well. You can have an interpreter at your interview.
Tenthly, any country worth migrating to has hops to jump through. Canada does as those the UK, etc. Some are harder, some are easier. All are expensive.
Eleventhly, if you can read and write English as I hope your fiancee can, you can do it yourself and save some money. But having an attorney assist you is a valuable resource and for someone like yourself who is so quick to get upset, angry and nasty, it would be blessing to have someone in authority with you to stop you from mouthing off at an immigration official. Since your husband has dual citizenship, he has jumped through the hoops already so I'm sure he is not ignorant of what needs to be done.
Tenthly, any country worth migrating to has hops to jump through. Canada does as those the UK, etc. Some are harder, some are easier. All are expensive.
Eleventhly, if you can read and write English as I hope your fiancee can, you can do it yourself and save some money. But having an attorney assist you is a valuable resource and for someone like yourself who is so quick to get upset, angry and nasty, it would be blessing to have someone in authority with you to stop you from mouthing off at an immigration official. Since your husband has dual citizenship, he has jumped through the hoops already so I'm sure he is not ignorant of what needs to be done.
Originally Posted by Rete
Firstly, there is no BCIS but there is a USCIS
Secondly, the K-1 fiancee visa is one of the easiest to get if you don't have a criminal record or any bans from entering the US or any communicable diseases.
Thirdly, every USC spouse has to complete and affidavit of support for their spouse or immediate relative. There is no way around it. For the K-1 it is the I-134 and later for adjustment of status it is the I-864. The USCIS wants to be sure that if you collect any mean tested benefits that someone will reimburse the US government for their expenditures.
Fourthly, the wait for an employment authorization document is at most 90 days from date of filing. So you don't work for 90 days. Big deal.
Fifthly, what is this limbo you are talking about? Once you apply for adjustment after entrance on a K-1 and marriage you are not in limbo for a pending permanent resident. You can apply for the right to travel and as long you don't have an overstay of 180 days or more you should be find with traveling outside of the US for brief periods of time.
Sixthly, there might not be two interviews for adjustment. There is the consulate interview for the K-1 and the initial and usually only interview for the adjustment of status in the US. Most people do not have to interview for removal of conditions if they are adjusted before their second wedding anniversary.
Seventhly, I would not be so prone to hysterics right now. The US government has rules and regulations in place for the emigration of people from all countries into the US. You being the love interest of a USC have the easiest route of them all to toe.
Eightly, the choice is yours as to where you live. Since you don't like the USCIS rules and regulations, then don't come here. If you and he can live in the EU, then go for it. Just remind your husband that as a USC he has to file US income tax every year on the money he earns outside of the US.
Have a good life and try a different attitude, you might be surprised to find it is a pleasanter life than you thought with the one you currently have.
Secondly, the K-1 fiancee visa is one of the easiest to get if you don't have a criminal record or any bans from entering the US or any communicable diseases.
Thirdly, every USC spouse has to complete and affidavit of support for their spouse or immediate relative. There is no way around it. For the K-1 it is the I-134 and later for adjustment of status it is the I-864. The USCIS wants to be sure that if you collect any mean tested benefits that someone will reimburse the US government for their expenditures.
Fourthly, the wait for an employment authorization document is at most 90 days from date of filing. So you don't work for 90 days. Big deal.
Fifthly, what is this limbo you are talking about? Once you apply for adjustment after entrance on a K-1 and marriage you are not in limbo for a pending permanent resident. You can apply for the right to travel and as long you don't have an overstay of 180 days or more you should be find with traveling outside of the US for brief periods of time.
Sixthly, there might not be two interviews for adjustment. There is the consulate interview for the K-1 and the initial and usually only interview for the adjustment of status in the US. Most people do not have to interview for removal of conditions if they are adjusted before their second wedding anniversary.
Seventhly, I would not be so prone to hysterics right now. The US government has rules and regulations in place for the emigration of people from all countries into the US. You being the love interest of a USC have the easiest route of them all to toe.
Eightly, the choice is yours as to where you live. Since you don't like the USCIS rules and regulations, then don't come here. If you and he can live in the EU, then go for it. Just remind your husband that as a USC he has to file US income tax every year on the money he earns outside of the US.
Have a good life and try a different attitude, you might be surprised to find it is a pleasanter life than you thought with the one you currently have.
Feb 2nd 2005, 4:27 am
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Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
Originally Posted by Rete
Have a good life and try a different attitude, you might be surprised to find it is a pleasanter life than you thought with the one you currently have.
Nice summation though...man I've gotta been bored to mention that...anyway, night all
Feb 2nd 2005, 9:41 am
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Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
Originally Posted by Bob
Didn't realise there was such a word as pleasanter
Nice summation though...man I've gotta been bored to mention that...anyway, night all
Nice summation though...man I've gotta been bored to mention that...anyway, night all
Thought that was what the internet was all about....reinventing language ;-)
Feb 5th 2005, 1:35 pm
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Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
Since he's now coming over, why don't you guys apply for an immigrant visa at your local embassy or consulate? It'll probably take 2-3 months, and once your approved, you have full permanent resident/green card status as soon as you've passed the border inspection and entered the USA.
Originally Posted by Sheila
I am going to marry my US fiancée and our initial plan was that we
would live in the US. We downloaded forms and documentation from the
BCIS web site and were busy for a few weeks. The more info we got, the
less the whole process looked feasible.
- He would have to sign an affidavit for me, basically promising to
guarantee for me for several years, which I just did not feel like
something I should ask a fiancée to do.
- After waiting maybe a year in my home country, I would get married
in the US but I would not be able to work and would have to wait for
an unspecified amount of time amounting to several months, again a
very uncomfortable condition to be in when you're newly wed, unless of
course you don't need to work to make a living.
- I would have to be interviewed at least twice to check on my
marriage intentions/status and good faith and I would be basically in
limbo until the last interview after two years, following which after
an unspecified amount of time, maybe months, I might finally get
permanent residence (unless of course BCIS would get my fingerprints
wrong, in which case I would wait maybe a year rather than months)
- In the mean time, if I understand correctly, I would be wise not to
travel back to my home country as over-zealous airline or immigration
officials might not allow me back into the US
- Also, I would be well advised to spend several thousand dollars to
have an immigration lawyer assist us in the process.
In short, we gave it up. As it is much easier to enter any European
country as a husband of a EU citizen, he is coming to live in Europe
and I am not made to feel like a beggar by BCIS with my spouse as
garantor.
However, I understand from the media that countless number of
immigrants legally acquire permanent residence in the US every year,
so much so that a major issue currently in the news is that many of
these people do not even speak English.
Now here is my question, for any patient reader that might have
followed me so far:
*** how can an immigrant from some third world country, with scanty
knowledge of English and precious little personal fortune, evidently a
common situation, jump successfully thru all BCIS's hoops? Yet they do
it in their thousands***
Sheila
would live in the US. We downloaded forms and documentation from the
BCIS web site and were busy for a few weeks. The more info we got, the
less the whole process looked feasible.
- He would have to sign an affidavit for me, basically promising to
guarantee for me for several years, which I just did not feel like
something I should ask a fiancée to do.
- After waiting maybe a year in my home country, I would get married
in the US but I would not be able to work and would have to wait for
an unspecified amount of time amounting to several months, again a
very uncomfortable condition to be in when you're newly wed, unless of
course you don't need to work to make a living.
- I would have to be interviewed at least twice to check on my
marriage intentions/status and good faith and I would be basically in
limbo until the last interview after two years, following which after
an unspecified amount of time, maybe months, I might finally get
permanent residence (unless of course BCIS would get my fingerprints
wrong, in which case I would wait maybe a year rather than months)
- In the mean time, if I understand correctly, I would be wise not to
travel back to my home country as over-zealous airline or immigration
officials might not allow me back into the US
- Also, I would be well advised to spend several thousand dollars to
have an immigration lawyer assist us in the process.
In short, we gave it up. As it is much easier to enter any European
country as a husband of a EU citizen, he is coming to live in Europe
and I am not made to feel like a beggar by BCIS with my spouse as
garantor.
However, I understand from the media that countless number of
immigrants legally acquire permanent residence in the US every year,
so much so that a major issue currently in the news is that many of
these people do not even speak English.
Now here is my question, for any patient reader that might have
followed me so far:
*** how can an immigrant from some third world country, with scanty
knowledge of English and precious little personal fortune, evidently a
common situation, jump successfully thru all BCIS's hoops? Yet they do
it in their thousands***
Sheila
Feb 5th 2005, 2:36 pm
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Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
Originally Posted by Karlshammar
Since he's now coming over, why don't you guys apply for an immigrant visa at your local embassy or consulate? It'll probably take 2-3 months, and once your approved, you have full permanent resident/green card status as soon as you've passed the border inspection and entered the USA.
Not like other consulates in other countries....there very nice and quick in london, but they still won't see anybody.
Feb 5th 2005, 7:48 pm
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Location: Austin, TX
Posts: 99
Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
Originally Posted by Sheila
*** how can an immigrant from some third world country, with scanty
knowledge of English and precious little personal fortune, evidently a
common situation, jump successfully thru all BCIS's hoops?
knowledge of English and precious little personal fortune, evidently a
common situation, jump successfully thru all BCIS's hoops?
Feb 6th 2005, 7:13 am
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Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
Originally Posted by Sheila
I am going to marry my US fiancée and our initial plan was that we
would live in the US. We downloaded forms and documentation from the
BCIS web site and were busy for a few weeks. The more info we got, the
less the whole process looked feasible.
- He would have to sign an affidavit for me, basically promising to
guarantee for me for several years, which I just did not feel like
something I should ask a fiancée to do.
- After waiting maybe a year in my home country, I would get married
in the US but I would not be able to work and would have to wait for
an unspecified amount of time amounting to several months, again a
very uncomfortable condition to be in when you're newly wed, unless of
course you don't need to work to make a living.
- I would have to be interviewed at least twice to check on my
marriage intentions/status and good faith and I would be basically in
limbo until the last interview after two years, following which after
an unspecified amount of time, maybe months, I might finally get
permanent residence (unless of course BCIS would get my fingerprints
wrong, in which case I would wait maybe a year rather than months)
- In the mean time, if I understand correctly, I would be wise not to
travel back to my home country as over-zealous airline or immigration
officials might not allow me back into the US
- Also, I would be well advised to spend several thousand dollars to
have an immigration lawyer assist us in the process.
In short, we gave it up. As it is much easier to enter any European
country as a husband of a EU citizen, he is coming to live in Europe
and I am not made to feel like a beggar by BCIS with my spouse as
garantor.
However, I understand from the media that countless number of
immigrants legally acquire permanent residence in the US every year,
so much so that a major issue currently in the news is that many of
these people do not even speak English.
Now here is my question, for any patient reader that might have
followed me so far:
*** how can an immigrant from some third world country, with scanty
knowledge of English and precious little personal fortune, evidently a
common situation, jump successfully thru all BCIS's hoops? Yet they do
it in their thousands***
Sheila
would live in the US. We downloaded forms and documentation from the
BCIS web site and were busy for a few weeks. The more info we got, the
less the whole process looked feasible.
- He would have to sign an affidavit for me, basically promising to
guarantee for me for several years, which I just did not feel like
something I should ask a fiancée to do.
- After waiting maybe a year in my home country, I would get married
in the US but I would not be able to work and would have to wait for
an unspecified amount of time amounting to several months, again a
very uncomfortable condition to be in when you're newly wed, unless of
course you don't need to work to make a living.
- I would have to be interviewed at least twice to check on my
marriage intentions/status and good faith and I would be basically in
limbo until the last interview after two years, following which after
an unspecified amount of time, maybe months, I might finally get
permanent residence (unless of course BCIS would get my fingerprints
wrong, in which case I would wait maybe a year rather than months)
- In the mean time, if I understand correctly, I would be wise not to
travel back to my home country as over-zealous airline or immigration
officials might not allow me back into the US
- Also, I would be well advised to spend several thousand dollars to
have an immigration lawyer assist us in the process.
In short, we gave it up. As it is much easier to enter any European
country as a husband of a EU citizen, he is coming to live in Europe
and I am not made to feel like a beggar by BCIS with my spouse as
garantor.
However, I understand from the media that countless number of
immigrants legally acquire permanent residence in the US every year,
so much so that a major issue currently in the news is that many of
these people do not even speak English.
Now here is my question, for any patient reader that might have
followed me so far:
*** how can an immigrant from some third world country, with scanty
knowledge of English and precious little personal fortune, evidently a
common situation, jump successfully thru all BCIS's hoops? Yet they do
it in their thousands***
Sheila
I know EXACTLY how you feel I have been working with a lawyer now since 1999 and spent thousands of dollars only to find that the route he had suggested I take to obtain a green card did not pan out,so 16500 dollars in the hole I decided to resort to plan B which is to marry my long time boyfriend who is obviously a Us citizen. I just find it so frustrating that I have invested the last 18 years of my entire earnings in a house, furniture, etc and am well educated and have a lot to offer the community yet we are treated like we are only here to leech off of the country and for us to live here is made vertually impossible with all the obsticals that with have to overecome and endure YET there are so many people here that barely speak the language and are not too bright or financially well off yet they seem to simply walk through the immigration door without too much hassle and it seems that the brits have more trouble than anyone else, whats up with that
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Feb 6th 2005, 9:29 am
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Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
Originally Posted by tickedoff
... am well educated and have a lot to offer the community yet we are treated like we are only here to leech off of the country and for us to live here is made vertually impossible with all the obsticals that ...
I can see how well-educated you are. I was "vertually" shocked to find that even though English is NOT my first language and I AM originally from a third-world country, I have been spelling the word "vertually" wrong since High School. Thank you so much Mr/Ms. well-educated, "better than others" Brit who barely knows how to spell. Now there's one little "obstical" I have pointed out for you to chew on, i.e READ SPELLING FOR DUMMIES!!
Feb 6th 2005, 9:54 am
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Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
They are not treating you as if you are there to leech off the country. They are treating you in a manner meant to reveal IF you are there to leech off the country. Now, looking at your attitude, spelling and demeanor, it is not surprising that you might be subject to some extra scrutiny. I hope you don't write like that in your applications or correspondence with the USCIS, because that will almost certainly lead to trouble.
As for you investing a lot of money in a house, what do you expect? You chose to invest the money before you even knew if you're allowed to stay here. That's your choice, but do you think the USCIS should be forced to just rubber-stamp your application because you chose to buy a house?
As for you investing a lot of money in a house, what do you expect? You chose to invest the money before you even knew if you're allowed to stay here. That's your choice, but do you think the USCIS should be forced to just rubber-stamp your application because you chose to buy a house?
Originally Posted by tickedoff
Hi Sheila
I know EXACTLY how you feel I have been working with a lawyer now since 1999 and spent thousands of dollars only to find that the route he had suggested I take to obtain a green card did not pan out,so 16500 dollars in the hole I decided to resort to plan B which is to marry my long time boyfriend who is obviously a Us citizen. I just find it so frustrating that I have invested the last 18 years of my entire earnings in a house, furniture, etc and am well educated and have a lot to offer the community yet we are treated like we are only here to leech off of the country and for us to live here is made vertually impossible with all the obsticals that with have to overecome and endure YET there are so many people here that barely speak the language and are not too bright or financially well off yet they seem to simply walk through the immigration door without too much hassle and it seems that the brits have more trouble than anyone else, whats up with that
I know EXACTLY how you feel I have been working with a lawyer now since 1999 and spent thousands of dollars only to find that the route he had suggested I take to obtain a green card did not pan out,so 16500 dollars in the hole I decided to resort to plan B which is to marry my long time boyfriend who is obviously a Us citizen. I just find it so frustrating that I have invested the last 18 years of my entire earnings in a house, furniture, etc and am well educated and have a lot to offer the community yet we are treated like we are only here to leech off of the country and for us to live here is made vertually impossible with all the obsticals that with have to overecome and endure YET there are so many people here that barely speak the language and are not too bright or financially well off yet they seem to simply walk through the immigration door without too much hassle and it seems that the brits have more trouble than anyone else, whats up with that
Feb 6th 2005, 2:44 pm
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Posts: 7,598
Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
Originally Posted by tickedoff
Hi Sheila
I know EXACTLY how you feel I have been working with a lawyer now since 1999 and spent thousands of dollars only to find that the route he had suggested I take to obtain a green card did not pan out,so 16500 dollars in the hole I decided to resort to plan B which is to marry my long time boyfriend who is obviously a Us citizen. I just find it so frustrating that I have invested the last 18 years of my entire earnings in a house, furniture, etc and am well educated and have a lot to offer the community yet we are treated like we are only here to leech off of the country and for us to live here is made vertually impossible with all the obsticals that with have to overecome and endure YET there are so many people here that barely speak the language and are not too bright or financially well off yet they seem to simply walk through the immigration door without too much hassle and it seems that the brits have more trouble than anyone else, whats up with that
I know EXACTLY how you feel I have been working with a lawyer now since 1999 and spent thousands of dollars only to find that the route he had suggested I take to obtain a green card did not pan out,so 16500 dollars in the hole I decided to resort to plan B which is to marry my long time boyfriend who is obviously a Us citizen. I just find it so frustrating that I have invested the last 18 years of my entire earnings in a house, furniture, etc and am well educated and have a lot to offer the community yet we are treated like we are only here to leech off of the country and for us to live here is made vertually impossible with all the obsticals that with have to overecome and endure YET there are so many people here that barely speak the language and are not too bright or financially well off yet they seem to simply walk through the immigration door without too much hassle and it seems that the brits have more trouble than anyone else, whats up with that
Feb 6th 2005, 8:13 pm
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Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
Originally Posted by Trent
I can see how well-educated you are. I was "vertually" shocked to find that even though English is NOT my first language and I AM originally from a third-world country, I have been spelling the word "vertually" wrong since High School. Thank you so much Mr/Ms. well-educated, "better than others" Brit who barely knows how to spell. Now there's one little "obstical" I have pointed out for you to chew on, i.e READ SPELLING FOR DUMMIES!!
Feb 7th 2005, 1:37 pm
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American Expat
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 7,598
Re: How do they do it? - Yet they do it in their thousands!
Originally Posted by tickedoff
thanks for the spelling lesson Trent, I was not wanting advise on spelling but thanks anyway. I was not aware that a type O made one a moron, but now I know.I was unaware that we were in the classroom here and being judged, I thought this was a place where you could get some help, MY MISTAKE!
