AOS Problem is getting worse
#16
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Have you contacted the bar assoc in your state or AILA to see if there is anyone who does pro bono work and would at least give you a consult?
I personally think you're going to have to make preparations to go home and should probably focus your attention on that.
Good luck
I personally think you're going to have to make preparations to go home and should probably focus your attention on that.
Good luck
#17
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With a tear in my eye I thank you all for your advice.Also how do I go about contacting this AILA?
Originally Posted by sibsie
Have you contacted the bar assoc in your state or AILA to see if there is anyone who does pro bono work and would at least give you a consult?
I personally think you're going to have to make preparations to go home and should probably focus your attention on that.
Good luck
I personally think you're going to have to make preparations to go home and should probably focus your attention on that.
Good luck
#18
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Originally Posted by kittya2004
With a tear in my eye I thank you all for your advice.Also how do I go about contacting this AILA?
#20
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Originally Posted by inquisitive40
Hi
Realistically I do no think you can stay in the US if you are not gonna stay with him, regardless of what lawyer you hire.
Realistically I do no think you can stay in the US if you are not gonna stay with him, regardless of what lawyer you hire.
#21
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Originally Posted by ray6
If you have not already done AOS your chances of being allowed to stay are virtually zero or less... but good luck
#22
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What is this VAWA I-360 what does it mean and where can I find it.
Originally Posted by Matthew Udall
So you have looked at her facts and ruled out any possibility of a VAWA I-360?
#23
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Originally Posted by Matthew Udall
So you have looked at her facts and ruled out any possibility of a VAWA I-360?
#24
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Okay I justr found it on the USCI site and I have not been a physically abused spouse. I do not think I qualify for that I am not sure as I do not know the law here. I do have someone who will sponsor me does that help or do I have to do it through my marriage. This is really breaking me down.
Originally Posted by kittya2004
What is this VAWA I-360 what does it mean and where can I find it.
#25
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He has never physically hit me he has only emotionally hurt me yelling at me, threatening me ect so I don't think I qualify.
Originally Posted by kittya2004
Okay I justr found it on the USCI site and I have not been a physically abused spouse. I do not think I qualify for that I am not sure as I do not know the law here. I do have someone who will sponsor me does that help or do I have to do it through my marriage. This is really breaking me down.
#26
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Originally Posted by kittya2004
Okay I justr found it on the USCI site and I have not been a physically abused spouse. I do not think I qualify for that I am not sure as I do not know the law here. I do have someone who will sponsor me does that help or do I have to do it through my marriage. This is really breaking me down.
#27
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I dunno Ray he threatened me that if i didn't work to pay him back his money for lodging my paperwork that he would bring me down and have me deported by saying our marriage was a sham. I entered my marriage in good faith he just wanted his money back or else. judge that for yourself darl all I know is that i worked my tail off and I paid him his money back and got it in writing to so he can never come and ask for it again.
Originally Posted by ray6
If not battered ..would you say extreme cruelty!!
#28
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Originally Posted by kittya2004
Ray if I go back then I abandon my AOS I have not been in the USA as long as most others but I am growing to like here. I am just looking for a lawyer that I can hopefully pay off as this is no fault of my own. I really dnt know what else to say only that I dnt want to have to suffer and leave b/c he has no idea how to even take care of mimself let alone me ( his wife ) Thanx for your advice it Ray and have a great day.
I am so sorry to hear about your situation, I remember your post back in May under the other name.
As Ray has stated if you haven't filed for AOS.. your chances to stay in the US are Zero. Why do you want to stay in the US?, You haven't establish a life here yet. I don't want to sound mean but if your husband is that bad I will leave and if you really want to settle down in the US, I would find another way to get here.
Good Luck and keep us updated!!
Chin up!! ((Kittya)
#29
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Hi Hypertweeky
I am in the USA and I have filed for AOS back in July of last year I just haven't gotten to the interview stage yet. I do have a life here I have my in laws who regardless of my hubby I think they are great i ahve my friends that I have made. It may not sound like much of a life to you but it is to me, and it is mine. By the way i took no offense to your words at all and thank you for your thoughts
I am in the USA and I have filed for AOS back in July of last year I just haven't gotten to the interview stage yet. I do have a life here I have my in laws who regardless of my hubby I think they are great i ahve my friends that I have made. It may not sound like much of a life to you but it is to me, and it is mine. By the way i took no offense to your words at all and thank you for your thoughts
Originally Posted by Hypertweeky
Hey there Kittya:
I am so sorry to hear about your situation, I remember your post back in May under the other name.
As Ray has stated if you haven't filed for AOS.. your chances to stay in the US are Zero. Why do you want to stay in the US?, You haven't establish a life here yet. I don't want to sound mean but if your husband is that bad I will leave and if you really want to settle down in the US, I would find another way to get here.
Good Luck and keep us updated!!
Chin up!! ((Kittya)
I am so sorry to hear about your situation, I remember your post back in May under the other name.
As Ray has stated if you haven't filed for AOS.. your chances to stay in the US are Zero. Why do you want to stay in the US?, You haven't establish a life here yet. I don't want to sound mean but if your husband is that bad I will leave and if you really want to settle down in the US, I would find another way to get here.
Good Luck and keep us updated!!
Chin up!! ((Kittya)
#30
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Originally Posted by kittya2004
I dunno Ray he threatened me that if i didn't work to pay him back his money for lodging my paperwork that he would bring me down and have me deported by saying our marriage was a sham. I entered my marriage in good faith he just wanted his money back or else. judge that for yourself darl all I know is that i worked my tail off and I paid him his money back and got it in writing to so he can never come and ask for it again.
Ouch!!! Kittya, If I were you I would run away from him, he seems like a dangerous guy
Good Luck girlie!!