Elvira

And you still maintain everything is honkey-dorey in your marriage???

Noorah101

From a post you made on the first page of this thread: "I don't really care about their decision. My employer said that they will file for H1B soon so I can work and live legally being married to us citizen.
If I don't receive anything within 1 month I'll file the complaint and will sue them."

I guess if your husband refuses to go with you, and you go alone, and they refuse you somehow, I suppose you can revert to this idea.

Rene

kaktus

I'll do that. The corporate lawyer said that they can get me J1 visa and then apply for H1B next year.

Noorah101

Although, I still stick by my advice that it would be much easier for you and your husband to go to this appointment together and just get it done. Then you can stop dealing with all these different visas (probably one of the reasons they looked at your case so carefully).

Just tell him yes, it's for an interview, we both need to be there.

Rene

kaktus

our relationships are not going well this month and he stays at his parents house for a week now:-( It happened before 2 times and i'm sure that we will be fine. But our marriage is real and he said that if there is an interview notice he will go with me.

Elvira

Does the term "euphemism" mean anything to you at all?

Given all that you have reported here about what has happened, do you really think they just want to look at some documents?

In any event, I would have thought that in any dealings with USCIS "better safe than sorry" should prevail...

kaktus

there is nothing I can do. My husband stays in his parents house "for now" he said - so he will only come for an interview.
I don't know what to do. And it will be next week. I don't know if we will back together by that time. I try to talk to him but he is mad at me:-((((

Noorah101

As I suggested, tell him it's for an interview. If he refuses to join you, go there alone and deal with whatever happens.

Rene

ian-mstm

Yes, there is something you can do... you just don't want to do it. Good luck to you!

Ian

pianoplayer

If there is ever a time for a white lie, then this is it. Tell him it is an interview. I dont really believe this is a white lie, since trust me, I believe it is GOING TO BE AN INTERVIEW of which you will be at the losing end if you do not show up with your husband.

Thinking about pursuing a second course of action through your work, before actively pursuing the most viable and immediate approach right now is foolish. Stress the importance of this to your husband - if he is not willing to step up to something this important, I would definitely question the relationship with him.

Good luck