Stressed out hubby!!!

Old May 17th 2007, 10:46 am
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My hubbys having a very stressfull time at work and its starting to really effect him. Theres a staff psychologist he can talk to but hes worried that if he has time off from work thats stress related it might cause problems with our medicals for the visa.

He doesnt have any mental health problems but deals with a lot of trauma patients from Iraq and is finding the pressure from the government and hiarrachy hard to deal with, as well as looking after injured soldiers.

Personally id rather he just sorts himself out and not worry about the medicals so i was hoping someone could advise me on the sort of questions and checks they do on the mental health side of things.

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I dont think they do mental health checks..Well I dont think I did one
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I dont think they do mental health checks..Well I dont think I did one
half of the folk on this board wouldn't have got visas, me included
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I had to provide a medical for a job once and had previously been taking anti-depressants for insomnia. I just asked the doc if she had to mention it and she said no. It wasn't like I had a serious mental disorder. I doubt it would have to be disclosed in a medical. Plus from what I can gather here people can go to doctors other than their own doctor for a medical certificate so he just wouldn't mention it?

My husband has been treated for anxiety (so moving to Oz is going to be fun!!) but I'm not worried that it'll affect a medical exam. I'll be reading other replies with interest!

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I dont think they do mental health checks..Well I dont think I did one
Hmmm How would I know if they did one?
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the fact that you're querying your own reply suggests they probably should have done one!
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the fact that you're querying your own reply suggests they probably should have done one!
If you check with DIAC, querying your own replies is deemed acceptable. However, reporting yourself to a Moderator would be considered as barking.

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so you'd fit right in then? According to my bro who lives in Sydney they're all pretty barking down under!
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