Marrying my Filipino boyfriend

Old Apr 25th 2017, 6:09 am
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Originally Posted by christmasoompa
I've no idea about visas for those coming to the UK, but rest assured, if there is a way the good folks of this forum will find it for you. You are in some very knowledgeable hands, not least BritinParis who is our forum pro.

Unfortunately, it may be that your situation doesn't qualify for any visa, the British government will have blanket policies and eligibility requirements and won't change them for citizens of just one country. If that's the case, then how about living together in a third country so that you can then bring him back to the UK when you're either married or do meet the de facto requirement? Or could he get a work visa for the UK independent of you? Again, I've no idea, but lots on the forum will know and be happy to try and help.

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Unfortunately the UK work visas on exist for highly skilled workers now. Meaning experienced specialists chefs and medical workers. If this was an option we would have most definitely tried this a couple of years ago.
With me going to the Philippines I believe it would be hard for me to get a job there, and as the pay is so low we would not be able to save for the visa.
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Unfortunately the UK work visas on exist for highly skilled workers now. Meaning experienced specialists chefs and medical workers. If this was an option we would have most definitely tried this a couple of years ago.
With me going to the Philippines I believe it would be hard for me to get a job there, and as the pay is so low we would not be able to save for the visa.
That's so true! Beyond the fact that it is difficult (nearly impossible in fact) for foreigners to get work visas here, a GOOD pay rate is around 40,000pesos a month (£600 roughly). Unless you qualify for an Alien Employment Permit - usually working on secondment , the only areas are in the tax free manufacturing zones or working under a foreign contract in a call centre , mainly in Manila. The legal minimum wage here in Cebu by the way is 360pesos (£6.00) a DAY!!!! you'd never earn enough to meet the £18,600 a year for 6 months part of the UK spouse visa even if you were married. I'm afraid you're in for a long slog unless you just live together to meet the EEA family permit rules.
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We cannot live together due to visa's. The situation is so long and hard. We were on the ship which I would class as living together for two 9 month contracts, in-between that I went visited him many times. The annulment has already been going on for 2 years, and we still have no idea how much longer it will last. I was just hoping that the British embassy would realise that they are legally separated, and that as divorce is illegal in the Philippines they would pass that. I'm sure there is many married Filipinos that have been in the situation and find a way. I'm just struggling to find a way.
There are thousands of bigamous "marriages' here. Well, one legal marriage and the others are just living together as man and wife because divorce is illegal and an annulment is beyond the financial reach of the vast majority. Many Filipinas have "boyfriends" and many Filipinos have "girlfriends".
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I don't know how the Philippines government would reconcile things if someone obtained a divorce overseas, but I imagine it could be messy.[/QUOTE]

The law here is fairly straightforward Pulaski. A Filipino couple, married in the Philippines cannot get divorced even if they can obtain a "divorce" from another country.(UNLESS the petitioner has obtained legal residence in that country) It is not recognised here. If a Filipino citizen is married to a foreigner and the FOREIGNER files for and obtains a divorce in another country, the Filipino citizen can then apply to the courts here to have the foreign divorce recognised and approved. If it is , then they will be free to marry again. The problem is it costs money which most folks don't have. An annulment can cost up to 200,000pesos (£3500 , or US$4250) plus can take years to obtain. There are more complications regarding split of property etc but in all cases the foreigner comes off worst! Don't forget this is still primarily a third world country and is Catholic , the Church having a massive influence on both the Government and the "followers".
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Just throwing it out there, but could the 2 of you both apply independently for residence in a third country and live together there for the required 2 years? IEC to Canada or temporary resident visa to Australia? What is his/your occupation?
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Just throwing it out there, but could the 2 of you both apply independently for residence in a third country and live together there for the required 2 years? IEC to Canada or temporary resident visa to Australia? What is his/your occupation?
WHV could work if they do the 3 months in a regional area, they'd get two years. Depends on their ages obviously.
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Just throwing it out there, but could the 2 of you both apply independently for residence in a third country and live together there for the required 2 years? IEC to Canada or temporary resident visa to Australia? What is his/your occupation?
We do not have any specialist occupations. He is a front of house manager in hotels and cruise ships. I am a travel agent, and was previously a hairdresser. We did look into different countries but even that seemed like a difficult move
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We do not have any specialist occupations. He is a front of house manager in hotels and cruise ships. I am a travel agent, and was previously a hairdresser. We did look into different countries but even that seemed like a difficult move
How old are you both?
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How old are you both?
I am 24, he is 31.
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I am 24, he is 31.
WHV is out then. Sorry.
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Originally Posted by christmasoompa
..., then how about living together in a third country so that you can then bring him back to the UK when you're either married or do meet the de facto requirement? .....
Originally Posted by Dorothy
Just throwing it out there, but could the 2 of you both apply independently for residence in a third country and live together there for the required 2 years? ....
Why didn't I think of that?
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.... The law here is fairly straightforward Pulaski. A Filipino couple, married in the Philippines cannot get divorced even if they can obtain a "divorce" from another country.(UNLESS the petitioner has obtained legal residence in that country) It is not recognised here. If a Filipino citizen is married to a foreigner and the FOREIGNER files for and obtains a divorce in another country, the Filipino citizen can then apply to the courts here to have the foreign divorce recognised and approved. If it is , then they will be free to marry again. The problem is it costs money which most folks don't have. An annulment can cost up to 200,000pesos (£3500 , or US$4250) plus can take years to obtain. There are more complications regarding split of property etc but in all cases the foreigner comes off worst! Don't forget this is still primarily a third world country and is Catholic , the Church having a massive influence on both the Government and the "followers".
Which is all highly relevant if he was continuing to live in the Philippines, but he is trying to relocate to the UK, so it is, at best, of marginal relevance. So my question was along the lines of "What do the Philippines authorities do with his marriage, and wife, if he divorces overseas and does not return?" I presume "not much", and his wife is left in legal limbo unless she can afford the fees for annulment or to get her (ex-)husband's foreign divorce recognized.

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We do not have any specialist occupations. He is a front of house manager in hotels and cruise ships. I am a travel agent, and was previously a hairdresser. We did look into different countries but even that seemed like a difficult move
Now is the start of the tourist season in many Mediterranean and Southern European regions.

My wife and I lived and worked in hospitality in Malta for the tourist season a few years ago.

As a travel agent, hospitality reception work isn't a great deal different in customer service, and there are plenty of other jobs. Hotel and hospitality jobs - MaltaPark
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Originally Posted by DaveLovesDee
Now is the start of the tourist season in many Mediterranean and Southern European regions.

My wife and I lived and worked in hospitality in Malta for the tourist season a few years ago.

As a travel agent, hospitality reception work isn't a great deal different in customer service, and there are plenty of other jobs. Hotel and hospitality jobs - MaltaPark
Thank you 😊 we will check this.
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Thank you 😊 we will check this.
Also, when tourism shuts down for the winter, hotels tend to do upgrades and maintenance, and additional security work tends to be available. And a Maltese Security Licence is pretty straightforward.
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I know that a lot of Filipinas work in Cyprus.....you could check job vacancies there too.
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