Leaving Family & Friends
#16
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Hey, if it just gets you a better part time job while in law school, that's something worth having.
#17
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I suppose she could be the heroic crusaiding human rights type lawyer though, but then her living in poverty doesnt really appeal either....
Last edited by iaink; Apr 9th 2010 at 5:15 pm. Reason: afterthought
#18
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In short, I think children are better off in Canada than in the UK if their parents can make more money here and are willing to spend it on the children. In general I think children born to cradles in Canada are no better off than children born to British parents in Britain.
#19
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I do think kids activities here are generally cheaper too FWIW.
#20
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I don't have kids but i read this a lot on here.
I'm intrigued as to what, in the larger scope of life, Canada offers to a childs life that the UK, for example, doesn't.
Other than mountains, ice hockey, and skating on frozen lakes.
Maybe naively, but i'd have thought the UK offered a child a similar educational opportunity and even more employment opportunities (diversity and accessibility), not to mention locality and stability of extended family (grandparents etc).
But like a said, i have no kids so really aren't sure if i'm missing something.
I'm intrigued as to what, in the larger scope of life, Canada offers to a childs life that the UK, for example, doesn't.
Other than mountains, ice hockey, and skating on frozen lakes.
Maybe naively, but i'd have thought the UK offered a child a similar educational opportunity and even more employment opportunities (diversity and accessibility), not to mention locality and stability of extended family (grandparents etc).
But like a said, i have no kids so really aren't sure if i'm missing something.
#21
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Yep, that's the banality of it. I don't see that there's anything better for children in one place or the other that isn't specific to the family's circumstances.
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I wouldn't advise moving ONLY for the kids, do it because you as a family truly believe that Canada will offer you what you want. It is such a different country to the UK - Pos and negs. You as parents need to be happy and settled too.
We came over thinking it is a better lifestlye for the kids. I think we jumped on the bandwagon as Britain being a place where kids have no future etc etc!
In reality, we came from a lovley yorkshire village with a fantastic school and lots of good friends. We have now jumped into city suburbia with not much character or charm and a school that isn't half as good as her last one.
We hope to move back in a year, which will make it 2 years here - had an adventure, but now we know where we want to be for the rest of our lives.
For keeping in touch with friends/family skype is a great invention and has def helped with being able to see people, just get a bit chaotic when you have 3 noisy kids trying to hog the screen!!!
We came over thinking it is a better lifestlye for the kids. I think we jumped on the bandwagon as Britain being a place where kids have no future etc etc!
In reality, we came from a lovley yorkshire village with a fantastic school and lots of good friends. We have now jumped into city suburbia with not much character or charm and a school that isn't half as good as her last one.
We hope to move back in a year, which will make it 2 years here - had an adventure, but now we know where we want to be for the rest of our lives.
For keeping in touch with friends/family skype is a great invention and has def helped with being able to see people, just get a bit chaotic when you have 3 noisy kids trying to hog the screen!!!
#23
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I wouldn't advise moving ONLY for the kids, do it because you as a family truly believe that Canada will offer you what you want. It is such a different country to the UK - Pos and negs. You as parents need to be happy and settled too.
We came over thinking it is a better lifestlye for the kids. I think we jumped on the bandwagon as Britain being a place where kids have no future etc etc!
In reality, we came from a lovley yorkshire village with a fantastic school and lots of good friends. We have now jumped into city suburbia with not much character or charm and a school that isn't half as good as her last one.
We hope to move back in a year, which will make it 2 years here - had an adventure, but now we know where we want to be for the rest of our lives.
For keeping in touch with friends/family skype is a great invention and has def helped with being able to see people, just get a bit chaotic when you have 3 noisy kids trying to hog the screen!!!
We came over thinking it is a better lifestlye for the kids. I think we jumped on the bandwagon as Britain being a place where kids have no future etc etc!
In reality, we came from a lovley yorkshire village with a fantastic school and lots of good friends. We have now jumped into city suburbia with not much character or charm and a school that isn't half as good as her last one.
We hope to move back in a year, which will make it 2 years here - had an adventure, but now we know where we want to be for the rest of our lives.
For keeping in touch with friends/family skype is a great invention and has def helped with being able to see people, just get a bit chaotic when you have 3 noisy kids trying to hog the screen!!!
Because reading the small number of replies on this, it seems for the bigger picture of a child's life and career, Canada can offer no more than the UK?
Fair enough, i can understand a parent living in the third world wanting to move for the benefit of their child but from the UK to Canada, there must be another more significant driver for the parents.
But like i said, i have no kids so don't have the parental experience other than my niece and nephews who, from the looks of things, have a great life, education, and opportunities in the UK.
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Because reading the small number of replies on this, it seems for the bigger picture of a child's life and career, Canada can offer no more than the UK?
Fair enough, i can understand a parent living in the third world wanting to move for the benefit of their child but from the UK to Canada, there must be another more significant driver for the parents.
#25
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I don't have kids but i read this a lot on here.
I'm intrigued as to what, in the larger scope of life, Canada offers to a childs life that the UK, for example, doesn't.
Other than mountains, ice hockey, and skating on frozen lakes.
Maybe naively, but i'd have thought the UK offered a child a similar educational opportunity and even more employment opportunities (diversity and accessibility), not to mention locality and stability of extended family (grandparents etc).
But like a said, i have no kids so really aren't sure if i'm missing something.
I'm intrigued as to what, in the larger scope of life, Canada offers to a childs life that the UK, for example, doesn't.
Other than mountains, ice hockey, and skating on frozen lakes.
Maybe naively, but i'd have thought the UK offered a child a similar educational opportunity and even more employment opportunities (diversity and accessibility), not to mention locality and stability of extended family (grandparents etc).
But like a said, i have no kids so really aren't sure if i'm missing something.
#26
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I wonder how many parents confuse moving "for the kids" and "moving for/from themselves"?
Because reading the small number of replies on this, it seems for the bigger picture of a child's life and career, Canada can offer no more than the UK?
Fair enough, i can understand a parent living in the third world wanting to move for the benefit of their child but from the UK to Canada, there must be another more significant driver for the parents.
But like i said, i have no kids so don't have the parental experience other than my niece and nephews who, from the looks of things, have a great life, education, and opportunities in the UK.
Because reading the small number of replies on this, it seems for the bigger picture of a child's life and career, Canada can offer no more than the UK?
Fair enough, i can understand a parent living in the third world wanting to move for the benefit of their child but from the UK to Canada, there must be another more significant driver for the parents.
But like i said, i have no kids so don't have the parental experience other than my niece and nephews who, from the looks of things, have a great life, education, and opportunities in the UK.
I know we could stick it out for another year/two/three, but i honestly believe it won't change how we feel. By then though, it would be much harder to move the kids back.
So, yes i think the reason for moving away from home has to be a lot more than just being better for the kids.
You can move within the UK from inner city to a village setting if its a better lifestly for the kids that is wanted.
Stupidly, we didn't need to do that as where we came from was a great place - now we have come to appreciate it!!
#27
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Certainly in the past there was a temptation to cash in on UK property equity and buy bigger in Canada and start afresh, but the housing market in the UK is not what it was and the exchange rate doesnt look so good now.
You could be raising your kids in a utopian paradise, but if the parents are unhappy then the kids will not thrive. I think though that once people start to think about trying a new country its very hard to put that genie back in the bottle. Canadas OK though, I like it here obviously, but then I never had a problem in the UK, other than property was so expensive, and its got no cheaper since then. Expensive property is true in Toronto, Vancouver, Calgary etc too though. I still consider myself lucky to end up in a cheaper area but with access to a job that pays the bills.
Last edited by iaink; Apr 9th 2010 at 8:02 pm.
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I don't think it is stupid. I think experiencing something new, and learning from that experience what is important to you is a very rational, as well as valuable, thing to do.
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Very true. For a normal family to move from a grim northern town to a family home in the sort of crime free areas with good schools that do exist in the UK is almost impossible. The difference in property prices makes it so.
A move to Canada might actually be the cheaper option. Plus, you get the blank canvas to build your new life.
A move to Canada might actually be the cheaper option. Plus, you get the blank canvas to build your new life.
#30
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Very true. For a normal family to move from a grim northern town to a family home in the sort of crime free areas with good schools that do exist in the UK is almost impossible. The difference in property prices makes it so.
A move to Canada might actually be the cheaper option. Plus, you get the blank canvas to build your new life.
A move to Canada might actually be the cheaper option. Plus, you get the blank canvas to build your new life.
I have no kids or wife.....it just hasnt happened so far for me, all my friends and family had moved on to their next phase, I felt life was passing me by...so I was one that bought into that blank canvas....life is too short to spned in one place....in my circumstances that is....many people of course are quite happy to do that - and I can also perfectly understand that, if you have all the building blocks there!