I brought my Mums ashes back with me. I had to have them in their original sealed casket(with some kind of special lining for air travel) with the closures covered in tamper evident tape that was signed by the U.K Funeral Director...plus a plethora of legal documents. I was also told to shout ahead at all security screenings that I had 'Human Remains' with me (I got stared at alot
) It wasn't that hard to do but had a kind of black comedy air to it....my Mum would have found it amusing I'm certain
I was going to scatter her under our pool...as she drunkenly laughed and told me on her last visit.....'Do want you want with the money, I'll be dead, I won't care' but couldn't do it.....so there she sits on the display cabinet
So I can't help you with the scattering details. I actually have plans to take her back one day and scatter her over a favourite childhood haunt, as I didn't realise quite how much it meant to her 'til after her passing.
Stay stong and best wishes,