Scossie

Hi Arsh.

Very sorry to hear your sad news mate.
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you.
Be strong for your little girl.

John & Gillian.

Bordy

Sorry everyone I just can't fathom how his son changed into his daughter, I'm lost.

ozzieeagle

He did say it was a little boy on the first post.[/QUOTE]


Errrm yes, These kinds of posts and attention seekers happen now and again on the net.


My advice is arsh, seek help and counsellling from wherever you can, sound like you need a lot of support.

badri

Hi

Times like this you need all the support and courage to get on with your life and be the person your wife dreamt of for the Baby.

If we can do anything let us know !!

Be strong in this turbulent times

Badri & Merit

JackTheLad

Good point. Child has changed sex, on top of the wife dying,

bummer

JTL

moneypenny20

I am sure grief hits us all differently, but "expired" Sorry to say but am not convinced. If wrong, very very sorry.

arsh1644

well thanks a lot guys for your support and for those who doubt me i do admit that i made a mistake in my second post it is a boy and his name is SHAMAN. It was a silly mistake and being from a non english speaking background please forgive me for gramatic mistake.
And please please please do not doubt me it is a boy and i do not seek any body's attention cause it is of no use to me (if i was lying)
I just wanted to know some thing in my first post that is why i told you guys about my problem.
and just out of courtsy i informed you guys about my loss. i am terribly sorry if i have offended you guys.
Arsh

DollyDaydream

I'm afraid I'm with you moneypen, it all sounds so utterly awful but to use the word 'expired' did start to make me think.

D D

ozzieeagle

Nothing wrong with your grammar, if you know how to use an apostrophie in Body's


(dammit obviously my grammar is all over the place now)

Bordy

First thing I'll do if my wife passes on is come on here & inform you guys.

I'm with you moneypen.

DIMO8

I have just read all of Arsh first post....and even on there people were not convinced....can so many people have strange vibes about this post.

Arsh what done it for me was your wording....expired.....if you are non english speaking, were is this wording from. I have been an ITU nurse for 9 years and have dealt with many people and have never come across this wording.

You are also say your non english speaking but your first post was very fluent, even with putting ITU in capitals which is the correct English way.

Hope i am wrong

Aussiecat

Hmmm, doesn't ring true to me either
If he really wanted to share the bad news with the forum, surely he'd have posted more before now.

BAY

Yes very strange post.

The last sentence is very odd and doesn't show much grief

'Now i think i should not have listened to her. Well may be this is what god wanted.'

moneypenny20

Grief is obviously a very personal thing and OP may have other issues in his life - all manner of scenarios are going through my mind, but no offence guys, if, god forbid, anything happened to hubby or my girls, BE would possibly be the last thing on my mind, even having been here a year.

JackTheLad

And bear in mind, we all know each other, one way or another, so if, at some point some regular poster did have some terrible news, and for whatever reason decided to post here, then they could expect alot of sympathy.

BUT

First post! My wifes in a coma, now how do I get to Oz?

Second post, now she's expired.

Ahhh, no, who are you?

There a thousands of forums out there. Why this one? If your not british, why the britishexpats forum.

And if you've got a little boy to look after, how can you screw up and call him a girl? Yet you can spell ITU, and speak perfectly good english. Gender is a basic in any language, how could they get it wrong.

I was going to stay away from this thread cos its quite obviously a wind up.

Wish I had

Cheers,
JTL