Originally Posted by paulry

I'm not sure how long you've been separated nor do I know (or particularly want to know) the circumstances behind your break up but maybe just maybe your feelings could again change for eachother but this time in a positive way and you might want to give it another go? Relationships are weird like that sometimes and you both have something in common - your son who needs loving and nurturing and there's no better environment for that to happen than one which is calm and preferably with both parents. Not making any major decisions location-wise for six months or so to allow all of you to absorb, reconsider and adjust to what has undoubtedly been a shock to your systems looks both reasonable and sensible.

Originally Posted by paddyo

'he's shown he's no good'??? How on earth did you come to that conclusion??? You ahve only heard one side and all 'he' has said is that he no longer loves the OP......yes I agree the statement that he will not follow them to UK does not sound very caring, but this is all second hand and maybe slightly skewed.