Originally Posted by Jacqui

Well the trip back to Blighty is all over and life returns to "normal". Yes, normal because that's how it feels living here now. We've been here just over 3 years. And now that I've had the chance to experience the UK again, I wonder why I spent so much time wondering if we'd done the right thing. Yes we did, and I don't plan on going back to the UK again. Any little niggling doubts have finally been put to rest. Holiday money in the future will be spent visiting other places in Australia, or maybe further afield, like New Zealand. Relatives will have to visit us instead.

The only "good" thing I can think about the trip back was that it gave us chance to spend a bit more time with family and friends, without the added pressure of being stressed out from all the organising/packing at the time of emigration. I felt that I said goodbye properly this time round. The day we emigrated, my dad got stuck in traffic on the way to Heathrow and rushed into departures just minutes before we went through. As he's nearly 70 and awaiting a heart bypass, it was nice to spend a couple of days with him. And now that we've been gone awhile, time being a great healer meant that people weren't all tearful and in shock about our decision to go, they've got over it and have moved on, and instead of being so negative, everyone was asking questions galore about our new lifestyle. The funniest part was seeing people's faces as they met the children again, 3 years older and much bigger than when they left.

Negatives:

The traffic! It's dreadful, much worse than I remember.
Parking - how does anyone park outside their own house these days?
The people - shop assistants appeared more rude and miserable.
The in-laws - living nearby was bad enough, but actually having to stay under their roof for a week was hard work. Kids said that it felt like Nanny had changed, I suppose she thought they'd changed too, weren't the little children she remembers babysitting and I bet the Aussie accent didn't help

Probably more, just can't think of them at the moment.

I was keen to hit the high st shops and go to Tesco again. WHY? The fashions were pretty much the same. I came away wondering what's the big deal with m&s? Our local Tesco has been extended and completely changed around since I last went there. I walked in and it felt completely alien. Wandered up and down a few aisles trying to jog my memory about foodstuffs we might be missing. Couldn't really think of any. Noticed a couple of things I'd forgotten about, but obviously couldn't have missed not eating them that badly because a) I had totally forgotten about them and b) I can't for the life of me remember what they are now. Does that make sense? Ended up looking for Milo - yes a taste of something from "home". Found some in Sainsbury's but it tasted slightly different. Upon arriving back in Mandurah, was actually glad to go into Woolworth's where everything looks familiar.

I thought all the towns that we visited seemed so old, run-down, dirty even, especially my old home town. I have no desire to go back and live in Bedford and would consider living elsewhere if for some reason we were forced to go back to the UK (very unlikely!). I reckon if we moved back I would drive everyone nuts moaning that "we didn't do it like that in Australia"!

Life does move on. Friends and family are all doing their own thing and we're doing ours. I think it would take some adjusting fitting back into our old way of life. The childrens' school friends were obviously all 3 years bigger too and they just don't have so much in common anymore. Since we've been back home, the kids have just settled back into their routines and I've not had to deal with any issues regarding homesickness, wanting to move back etc. They're all quite happy here and were keen to get back to school and tell everyone about their holiday. I had a quick phone call from my mum just checking that we'd arrived back safely, but no contact from anyone else, and just a few emails. I'm glad we made the trip because I know now that we did do the right thing emigrating - yes it takes a couple of years to feel really settled here and it's really hard-going in the beginning - but we got there in the end and have no regrets!

Originally Posted by Jacqui

I think we're long overdue for an expats meet-up aren't we? Do you still keep in touch with everyone else?

BTW got two gorgeous dogs now, couldn't resist her, big brown hug-me eyes, thought Toby was kinda lonely by himself - double trouble! My sister has gone and bought a Beagle too. Must update my avatar.

Originally Posted by Jacqui

Well the trip back to Blighty is all over and life returns to "normal". Yes, normal because that's how it feels living here now. We've been here just over 3 years. And now that I've had the chance to experience the UK again, I wonder why I spent so much time wondering if we'd done the right thing. Yes we did, and I don't plan on going back to the UK again. Any little niggling doubts have finally been put to rest. Holiday money in the future will be spent visiting other places in Australia, or maybe further afield, like New Zealand. Relatives will have to visit us instead.

The only "good" thing I can think about the trip back was that it gave us chance to spend a bit more time with family and friends, without the added pressure of being stressed out from all the organising/packing at the time of emigration. I felt that I said goodbye properly this time round. The day we emigrated, my dad got stuck in traffic on the way to Heathrow and rushed into departures just minutes before we went through. As he's nearly 70 and awaiting a heart bypass, it was nice to spend a couple of days with him. And now that we've been gone awhile, time being a great healer meant that people weren't all tearful and in shock about our decision to go, they've got over it and have moved on, and instead of being so negative, everyone was asking questions galore about our new lifestyle. The funniest part was seeing people's faces as they met the children again, 3 years older and much bigger than when they left.

Negatives:

The traffic! It's dreadful, much worse than I remember.
Parking - how does anyone park outside their own house these days?
The people - shop assistants appeared more rude and miserable.
The in-laws - living nearby was bad enough, but actually having to stay under their roof for a week was hard work. Kids said that it felt like Nanny had changed, I suppose she thought they'd changed too, weren't the little children she remembers babysitting and I bet the Aussie accent didn't help

Probably more, just can't think of them at the moment.

I was keen to hit the high st shops and go to Tesco again. WHY? The fashions were pretty much the same. I came away wondering what's the big deal with m&s? Our local Tesco has been extended and completely changed around since I last went there. I walked in and it felt completely alien. Wandered up and down a few aisles trying to jog my memory about foodstuffs we might be missing. Couldn't really think of any. Noticed a couple of things I'd forgotten about, but obviously couldn't have missed not eating them that badly because a) I had totally forgotten about them and b) I can't for the life of me remember what they are now. Does that make sense? Ended up looking for Milo - yes a taste of something from "home". Found some in Sainsbury's but it tasted slightly different. Upon arriving back in Mandurah, was actually glad to go into Woolworth's where everything looks familiar.

I thought all the towns that we visited seemed so old, run-down, dirty even, especially my old home town. I have no desire to go back and live in Bedford and would consider living elsewhere if for some reason we were forced to go back to the UK (very unlikely!). I reckon if we moved back I would drive everyone nuts moaning that "we didn't do it like that in Australia"!

Life does move on. Friends and family are all doing their own thing and we're doing ours. I think it would take some adjusting fitting back into our old way of life. The childrens' school friends were obviously all 3 years bigger too and they just don't have so much in common anymore. Since we've been back home, the kids have just settled back into their routines and I've not had to deal with any issues regarding homesickness, wanting to move back etc. They're all quite happy here and were keen to get back to school and tell everyone about their holiday. I had a quick phone call from my mum just checking that we'd arrived back safely, but no contact from anyone else, and just a few emails. I'm glad we made the trip because I know now that we did do the right thing emigrating - yes it takes a couple of years to feel really settled here and it's really hard-going in the beginning - but we got there in the end and have no regrets!

Originally Posted by StarJam

I really enjoyed reading that. Cheers!

We went back to the UK 7months after we arrived in Sydney and coming “home” was a really weird but gratifying experience.

Although I fully agreed to live in Sydney (Hubbies choice) I always had it in the back of mind that we would be returning back pretty soon because his position with his company is like living life on a knife edge. So with out realising it we had been living our lives in limbo and hadn’t really settled in, hadn’t bought furniture, had our books snaking around the skirting, still had things in boxes…

When we were returning to Sydney after spending time with my parents and the in-laws which made me feel more in limbo, I said the strangest thing… “Ah, it’ll be great to get home and sleep in our own bed”. And that’s when I realised that Sydney had become our home. We went out to Ikea the morning after and spent a small fortune on making the place feel like home.

I still really miss all my family and friends (going back for Christmas) and it was really good to go back to the UK and then to come “home” and realise that what we have over here is bloody great!

Originally Posted by cranni

so pleased for you, and for me, i feel like i am still in a holiday home, as we are renting. Boxes everywhere, no pictures up [not allowed. We will move into our home in about 4 weeks then i think it will be home[ i hope so anyway]. Denise